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ana30

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #15 on: 01 August 2020, 10:11:38 am »
We can understand her emotions but it’s still no excuse to take this out on the working girl. If it wasn’t her it would be someone else.

It’s the classic story of female blaming another female and not him, as if he was snatched off a street by evil prostitute. She needs to get w grip and see him for what he is.

It's quite tragic actually. Escort puts ad on prostitution website (the kind were a man has to register as member and go through the hoops in order to find someone who ticks his boxes) so she can have no strings sex in exchange for money, then girlfriend finds out and accuses her of "snatching his boyfriend". I wonder if she's going through the whole AW ladies in the area blaming them for "body snatching his BF" while not holding said BF accountable for his actions. Sounds like two people in a very childish and disfunctional relationship trying to forcefully drag others into their drama.

« Last Edit: 01 August 2020, 12:10:00 pm by ana30 »
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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #16 on: 01 August 2020, 10:35:10 am »
I've only ever had three wags contact me before asking who I am. One bievef I was a therapist specialising in trauma. She said, "oh thank goodness, and that makes sense because his father has just died". She gave me his name and I said in my poshest Essex voice (hard to do) that due to client confidentiality, I couldn't give any information. 😁

Second one I said if she'd like to call back later and speak to my husband because he sells insurance blah blah.

Third one had already Googled my number and knew I was an escort. She just sounded very sad. I ft bad for her and we had a nice conversation. Always so cringe though.
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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #17 on: 01 August 2020, 01:00:06 pm »
Not all clients book escorts because they are getting no sex or crap sex with there partner a lot of the time they are just greedy selfish men that want variety no matter how good you please them in bed.

Best advice i would say to remind her that the escort is just doing a job and a very difficult job at that and we do not check who is married or not and why they are visiting an escort. Then say sorry you have a husband doing this but this is between you and your husband and if this abuse does not stop i will have to report you to police as this anger is towards the wrong person and this behaviour is a crime.

Personally I wouldn’t even bother explaining that all to her, just tell her harassment is a criminal offence end of

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #18 on: 02 August 2020, 01:15:29 pm »
Indeed. A man can't keep his dick in his pants, so it must be a woman's fault and she should be blamed. Nice.

so you're saying it's the OP's fault ?

Don't be naive , married/ attached men stray because they are not getting what they need at home (regardless of the reason(s). The fault here lies with the punter and his GF ( their relationship), not the sex worker. The GF is harassing and threatening the SW because she is the easy target.

A women who is or threatening verbal or physical abuse towards another women, a sex worker for doing nothing more than her work is deflecting the blame and responsibilities from those who really are complicite.

To see SW's excusing abuse towards a fellow SW simply because the abuser is female and may be rich, disabled..blah..blah..blah is no excuse or justification.

As I said to the OP remind her where the issues are rooted or simply ignore her.

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #19 on: 02 August 2020, 01:35:32 pm »
China girl i think you got the wrong end of the stick and read the post wrong. Amy just meant not fair to blame the partner or wife because a punter strays nothing to do with the OP being blamed.

I have had many punters tell me they are being unfaithful because they are greedy some even said there wife gives them sex when they want and up for trying anything but they just want several new faces and bodies to use too. Some men are just arseholes and should just be single in my opinion.

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #20 on: 02 August 2020, 01:38:38 pm »
so you're saying it's the OP's fault ?

No, I was responding to your post where you suggested that the man's partner must be at fault to justify his bad behaviour, thereby absolving him of his (complete) responsibility for it. Victim blaming at it's finest.


Edit: Crossposted with EG, who is entirely correct.
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China_Grl

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #21 on: 02 August 2020, 01:46:48 pm »
No, I was responding to your post where you suggested that the man's partner must be at fault to justify his bad behaviour, thereby absolving him of his (complete) responsibility for it. Victim blaming at it's finest.


Edit: Crossposted with EG, who is entirely correct.

Their is only one victim here- the SW, imho

English Green

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #22 on: 02 August 2020, 02:13:05 pm »
Yes the SW is the victim. Girlfriend should not be threatning the sex worker but i can see why she is angry. The punter is the main one doing wrong for cheating and not covering his tracks so then the sex worker gets the shit from him not being able to keep his dick away from other vagina's or mouths.

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #23 on: 04 August 2020, 02:40:33 pm »
Cases like this only remind me that dealing with men only for paid sex and otherwise keep them the fuck away is the best policy :D

Amazing that most punters have been 100 times nicer and better behaved towards time than so called “boyfriends”.

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #24 on: 04 August 2020, 02:41:07 pm »
Cases like this only remind me that dealing with men only for paid sex and otherwise keep them the fuck away is the best policy :D

Amazing that most punters have been 100 times nicer and better behaved towards me than so called “boyfriends”.

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #25 on: 05 August 2020, 08:45:37 am »
I had a Client's wife access his AW account, read his feedback and contact all the Escorts he had been with.

I was one of them.

 She hurled some comical abuse about my physical stature which made me laugh. I simply hung up.

 A few days later she called me again and poured her heart out. I admitted to nothing at any point, let alone the fact that when I had used his hotel bathroom bin, there was already two used condoms and a discarded stocking in there  :-\

She concluded that he had chosen one of the other Escorts over her and that he was with her right now.

It was sad and excruciating, apparently some of the other Escorts had screamed abuse back and taunted her.

I blocked her after hanging up.
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