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Beowulf

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Very angry girlfriend
« on: 29 July 2020, 07:47:52 am »
Hi everyone i really need a handhold at the moment.
And some advice from you lovely ladies with a problem I have.
An old client of mine contacted me in June for an appointment after a gap maybe eigt years.
I was delighted to hear from as he is a lovely guy. Anyway,moving on to last Sunday I receive an odd text telling me to leave
said guy alone.
The girlfriend has gone through his phone and found the exchange of txts between us .All very polite btw.
The problem is that she has gone. beserk. Phoning and screaming obscenities at me and sendind me vile texts calling me all the names under the sun.She has tracked down my profiles on the internet .I'm scared she is going to start causing me trouble online. Or even track me down pysically.I have had a stalker before and this is starting to feel like that.
Common sense tells me just to ignore her.I've blocked her calls but can't block her texts.
I'm feeling very vunerable at the moment and don't know what to do.



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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #1 on: 29 July 2020, 09:51:42 am »
Ouch! Not the most ideal situation. I would just keeping ending the call, don’t even answer and she will soon get bored she’s just mad.

If it’s your AW she has found and your concerned, I would maybe go onto seeking services on the days I wasn’t available so the search comes back invalid then change your name to something very similar, there’s only so many times she will search with nothing coming up. I’m only on AW so I don’t know about any other sites but someone else on here will.

You could explain to her that this is your job, you don’t fancy him and have no interest in him. HE was the one who came looking for you! Threatening to call the police could work too, no one wants to be arrested for harassing escorts their boyfriend has been seeing.

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #2 on: 29 July 2020, 09:52:37 am »
Honestly, if it was me I would tell her to desist or you will report her to the police for threatening behaviour and harassment.

Her anger is understandable but unfortunately misdirected. Escorting isn't a crime but threats and harassment is.

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #3 on: 29 July 2020, 10:06:15 am »
Honestly, if it was me I would tell her to desist or you will report her to the police for threatening behaviour and harassment.

Her anger is understandable but unfortunately misdirected. Escorting isn't a crime but threats and harassment is.

Yes although the girlfriend is angry it's not your fault KBP, and neither should you be on the end of this anger. It's between her and her boyfriend, this is what I would be making very clear - leave me alone, it's between you and him.

I have been on the receiving end of this although in a different form, one was a client who told his wife he was having an affair - he then wanted me to lie about the exact nature of my relationship with him. She seemed more concerned he was going to run away to be with me, wanted reassurance I wouldn't which of course I could give. However didn't like the lieing and just told them to sort it out between them. Another occasion involved a text enquiry which I responded to, the guy left it on his phone which his other half read. He then claimed it was a spam text message, next thing I am being blamed for splitting up a family.  ::) :o

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #4 on: 29 July 2020, 10:31:59 am »
Honestly, if it was me I would tell her to desist or you will report her to the police for threatening behaviour and harassment.

Her anger is understandable but unfortunately misdirected. Escorting isn't a crime but threats and harassment is.

What she said. A short: "one more message/threat coming from you and I'm going straight to my local police station and will be pressing for harassment charges"

Watch how she goes quietly. And as that man-child she has as "boyfriend": block block block.
« Last Edit: 29 July 2020, 01:35:39 pm by ana30 »
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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #5 on: 29 July 2020, 12:32:49 pm »
I used to work for a agency and stupidly didn’t have a work phone I must have not put 141 before the clients number. around 2 weeks later I got a call and ended up revealing my real name as I thought it was my friend she sounded like her, anyway the woman went absolutely beserk saying all this abusive stuff and Shes been thought his phone bill and found this number. I took it on the chin and put the phone down blocked. Next thing she’s ringing me off her sister or friends phone and sending me loads of messages, the guy even rang the agency saying I’m harassing his girlfriend, the agency believed the guy like why would I do that. The guy kept ringing me too Trying to get me to lie off all different numbers this went on for weeks I had to get another sim it was never ending xx
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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #6 on: 29 July 2020, 09:26:56 pm »
What she said. A short: "one more message/threat coming from you and I'm going straight to my local police station and will be pressing for harassment charges"

Watch how she goes quietly. And as that man-child she has as "boyfriend": block block block.

This is very good advice. She is using that feeling of power over you to compensate for feeling a lack of power in her relationship, so show her you aren't powerless. Also people never think SW can utilise the police, she probably thinks it's illegal.

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #7 on: 30 July 2020, 04:55:23 pm »
The fact that she cannot satisfy her husband/ boyfriend sexually and that he is going elsewhere is what is upsetting her. Remind her of that, or just ignore her.

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #8 on: 30 July 2020, 05:11:49 pm »
The fact that she cannot satisfy her husband/ boyfriend sexually and that he is going elsewhere is what is upsetting her. Remind her of that, or just ignore her.

We don;t know the story, maybe she's the wealthy one and he's with her for the money, maybe she has an illness that is stopping her from having sex with hubby. You don't know what's going on in peoples lives so better not to "rub their issues on their faces" whatever they are. Just block and leave the drama for them to deal with.
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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #9 on: 30 July 2020, 05:25:30 pm »
The fact that she cannot satisfy her husband/ boyfriend sexually and that he is going elsewhere is what is upsetting her. Remind her of that, or just ignore her.
Omg that would start WW3!! If a hooker said that to me if I were the girlfriend then I don’t think that would shut me up at all! Worst advice ever!!🤣🤣

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #10 on: 31 July 2020, 10:11:54 am »
Indeed. A man can't keep his dick in his pants, so it must be a woman's fault and she should be blamed. Nice.

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #11 on: 31 July 2020, 03:41:20 pm »
Tell the screeching hyena to back the fuck off or you'll report her. Bloody cheek.

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #12 on: 31 July 2020, 03:43:55 pm »
I wouldn't say that to a woman who has found out her partners having sex elsewhere, imagine someone telling you the same thing, their may be plenty of reasons he is having sex with sw's and to say that to a woman is just totally out of order and bitchy.

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #13 on: 31 July 2020, 09:54:28 pm »
Not all clients book escorts because they are getting no sex or crap sex with there partner a lot of the time they are just greedy selfish men that want variety no matter how good you please them in bed.

Best advice i would say to remind her that the escort is just doing a job and a very difficult job at that and we do not check who is married or not and why they are visiting an escort. Then say sorry you have a husband doing this but this is between you and your husband and if this abuse does not stop i will have to report you to police as this anger is towards the wrong person and this behaviour is a crime.

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Re: Very angry girlfriend
« Reply #14 on: 31 July 2020, 11:37:59 pm »
We can understand her emotions but it’s still no excuse to take this out on the working girl. If it wasn’t her it would be someone else.

It’s the classic story of female blaming another female and not him, as if he was snatched off a street by evil prostitute. She needs to get w grip and see him for what he is.

That’s why I no longer bother as I see what they’re like.

I’d say report her for harassment.