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Title: VerifyHim.com (anybody used them?)
Post by: ana30 on 23 December 2015, 12:59:23 pm
Got an e-mail from "Miss Amy  Young" wanting me to join. They seem to be a community with thousands of "verified entertainers" in the adult industry who blacklisted "the bad guys and whitelist the nice ones" (copy+paste in their own words).  It seems to be some sort of ugly mugs scheme (?).

I can understand a bad guy being blacklisted because of the threat he means for sex workers, but I 'm just curious as how can you "whitelist the nice ones"????? That's sounds quite intrusive IMO.

Unless of course it's a US site and for the legal issues escorts want to look into the whitelist to make sure he;s not a cop. But then why are we UK sex workers getting emails to join?

Title: Re: VerifyHim.com (anybody used them?)
Post by: Mirror on 23 December 2015, 02:20:12 pm
I don't see how a newcomer site could possibly have lists of all the banned and 'ok' guys, what about clients who are absolutely fine with one woman, terrible with another?
Title: Re: VerifyHim.com (anybody used them?)
Post by: amy on 24 December 2015, 08:42:12 pm
Yes it's a US site - I get spam from them fairly often and I just dump it. 'Whitelisting' is something that the likes of TER and P411 do, and usually means that some arbitrary number of prossies they've seen have given them the thumbs up :).
Title: Re: VerifyHim.com (anybody used them?)
Post by: annabellexoxo on 29 December 2015, 11:24:24 am
I don't see how a newcomer site could possibly have lists of all the banned and 'ok' guys, what about clients who are absolutely fine with one woman, terrible with another?

Indeed.  My philosophy on this is that everyone can be a baddie or a great person depending on a combination of scenario/environment/the other party etc and numerous reviews showed how a guy got a bad review from a girl but was great with another girl or the other way round.  Of course there will be nutters who will always misbehave purely because that is their nature and these are the most dangerous, fortunately they are only a very small percentage.

Title: Re: VerifyHim.com (anybody used them?)
Post by: Malika Fantasy on 09 January 2016, 09:47:35 am
I am base in Canada, ,but tour the States often.
Verify him is quite a well know and esthablish website.
You do however have to "prove" that you are a SW. By reviews, twitter, being vouch by a friend.
What is great about this website is that the crawler they have will show you everything under the infos you have of the guys

It is possible to post blacklist on a guy that no show/was violent etc.
But what I like is that if you search an email address it will take everything he is register under this address, even dating website, facebook, reviews board, ebay etc.
Which will prove that "John SMith' say who he is.