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Clarabella

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Tactfully keeping clients quiet without putting them off
« on: 30 November 2022, 11:43:38 pm »
Does anyone work in a room that’s connected to the neighbours? How do you successfully and politely tell clients to keep their voices down! Some adhere for a bit then forget themselves and start shout-talking again and they kinda seem annoyed that I remind them to keep their voices down. I really don’t want to work from my bedroom but I’m feeling tense and on edge just talking to clients, especially when they’re cumming loudly too! Very worried the neighbours are going to hear.

Does anyone else experience this? I really don’t want to work from hotels.

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Re: Tactfully keeping clients quiet without putting them off
« Reply #1 on: 01 December 2022, 02:33:28 am »
I would mention it in your advertising, and when you speak to men enquiring about a booking on the phone etc.

Also, make sure your bed is on the opposite/internal wall, and try playing some music?
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Re: Tactfully keeping clients quiet without putting them off
« Reply #2 on: 01 December 2022, 05:41:50 am »
When I first started I had a problem with punters being noisy from outside the small block of flats, slamming doors, then of course in the flat. Neighbours were noticing, I asked guys to (a) park elsewhere (a few had caused commotion in the car park) (b) be quiet in and around the property. Things did improve but it was too late, I had however already started looking for another place and it taught me small blocks which was the style in the town I was based in, often are not suitable for work (although my lifestyle at that time didn't help).

I would make a thing about discretion and privacy for clients.

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Re: Tactfully keeping clients quiet without putting them off
« Reply #3 on: 01 December 2022, 07:33:30 am »
All my incalls are in hotels so keeping noise relatively low is a constant issue. I have music on quietly in the background, more to drown out the sounds from other people walking past outside and from housekeeping staff etc.
 
Clients have very strict instructions about how to arrive for a booking as quietly and discretely as possible and most remember this on arrival and continue to be fairly quiet.

Just occasionally someone will turn up and have a booming voice. I immediately tell them (with a smile and a wink) that they have a lovely strong voice but that they will need to keep it at a lower volume than usual so that no-one outside the room can hear how much fun we're having together.

Of course there's no accounting for what sounds come out of a man's mouth for those few seconds when they hit peak pleasure elsewhere and rational thinking flies out of the window. Just occasionally, despite their best efforts the other 99.999% of the session, there can be stadium level roars, moans that sound like someone's operating on them without anaesthetic, and gasps as if they've just had a bucket of ice thrown over them. Nothing I or they can do about that really  ;D ;D

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Re: Tactfully keeping clients quiet without putting them off
« Reply #4 on: 01 December 2022, 06:50:31 pm »
Yes this is a major problem especially in hotels some are discreet when they come in especially if maids about but some just don't seem to care even if you tell them to be a bit quiet as there voice is too loud they might stop it for 1 minute but then back doing it.

I find it worse if they want to talk about you being a "escort" and how long you been shagging for money right near the door. Just no common sense.

I keep tv on or music to drown them out. One indiscreet guy asked me to turn tv off when maids were near by and he was very loud i said no as you are too vocal i am afraid.

Another thing to look out for if they are shagging you quite hard sometimes the body parts make very loud slapping noises and this can be a problem as people could hear this in the corridors.

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Re: Tactfully keeping clients quiet without putting them off
« Reply #5 on: 14 December 2022, 10:24:34 am »
I have one reg who, bless him, just cannot be quiet. He has poor hearing. I joke about putting a pillow on his face have done it. He has no issue with this and thinks it’s all
Fun and games.

I find if I talk quietly they tend to follow . If that doesn’t work, may I suggest a ball gag? I use it as a half-jokey threat and they seem to get the message.

englishrebecca121

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Re: Tactfully keeping clients quiet without putting them off
« Reply #6 on: 14 December 2022, 10:37:09 am »
My new place is very quiet and my bedroom backs into a communal hallway .
Just had it soundproofed best thing ever !

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Re: Tactfully keeping clients quiet without putting them off
« Reply #7 on: 14 December 2022, 12:31:04 pm »
My new place is very quiet and my bedroom backs into a communal hallway .
Just had it soundproofed best thing ever !

How did you get it sound proofed? Sounds like a good idea for some.

Clarabella

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Re: Tactfully keeping clients quiet without putting them off
« Reply #8 on: 14 December 2022, 12:59:16 pm »
I just had two quotes for soundproofing. Geez. I was advised to just get the connecting wall soundproofed but materials are now so expensive, the guy said they hardly make any profit anymore and customers are warned that it’s not a cheap option. One company quoted £2400 for the one wall and another £1800. It’s a small wall too. Bummer.

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Re: Tactfully keeping clients quiet without putting them off
« Reply #9 on: 14 December 2022, 01:24:43 pm »
I cover their mouth if they make too much noise when they come. Depending where l am of course.

Many men are thick. You tell them not to knock your hotel room door and that you will open and let them in. Many still fuckin knock and shout Hello and Nice to meet you as they come in.
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Re: Tactfully keeping clients quiet without putting them off
« Reply #10 on: 15 December 2022, 11:54:08 am »
How did you get it sound proofed? Sounds like a good idea for some.

A company came in and did it took couple days they you do lose a bit of your room space as they kind of put a fake insulated wall in that’s thicker . Cost a couple grand but defo worth it