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Jessiegirl

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Using their own condoms
« on: 20 January 2021, 04:14:42 pm »
A regular of mine asked if he could use his own condoms. I asked why, he said he's not keen on my ones plus he doesn't want to waste his as he's not in a relationship now and they are just sitting in his drawer.

I trust him and know he wouldn't do anything dodgy but just wanted your feedback before I say yes.

Miffy

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Re: Using their own condoms
« Reply #1 on: 20 January 2021, 04:18:38 pm »
Why is he not keen on yours?

Personally, no, I would not use condoms supplied by anyone, not even a regular, and not even if their box was sealed.

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Re: Using their own condoms
« Reply #2 on: 20 January 2021, 04:21:57 pm »
I wouldn't be comfortable with a client providing his own condoms. It seems like a big risk for no reason.

As TMM asked, did he give a reason for not being keen on the condoms you provide?

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Re: Using their own condoms
« Reply #3 on: 20 January 2021, 04:24:43 pm »
Just googled and condoms usually have a expiration of 5 years.
If that’s true then, his reasoning is odd.
I also wouldn’t feel comfortable with a client using their own.

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Re: Using their own condoms
« Reply #4 on: 20 January 2021, 04:58:59 pm »
What's the difference between him losing his, and using yours?

Jessiegirl

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Re: Using their own condoms
« Reply #5 on: 20 January 2021, 05:04:25 pm »
He said mine don't feel as good, his are ultra thin. He does sometimes lose his erection because of this.

He also said he had some which expired in 2019 and if ok to use but I said no on this.

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Re: Using their own condoms
« Reply #6 on: 20 January 2021, 05:10:14 pm »
If he’s seriously asking to use ones from 2019... I wouldn’t trust him to supply his own. Eek.

Mirror

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Re: Using their own condoms
« Reply #7 on: 20 January 2021, 05:19:55 pm »
He said mine don't feel as good, his are ultra thin. He does sometimes lose his erection because of this.

He also said he had some which expired in 2019 and if ok to use but I said no on this.

If he tells you the ones he likes, you could buy some.

Jessiegirl

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Re: Using their own condoms
« Reply #8 on: 20 January 2021, 05:26:36 pm »
Yeah I guess so but seeing him tomorrow morning so won't have time. Maybe I could for next time.
I think it's also a case of he doesn't want to waste them. I know I hate waste.

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Re: Using their own condoms
« Reply #9 on: 20 January 2021, 05:33:49 pm »
Yeah I guess so but seeing him tomorrow morning so won't have time. Maybe I could for next time.
I think it's also a case of he doesn't want to waste them. I know I hate waste.

But it's your safety and peace of mind, over a few condoms?

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Re: Using their own condoms
« Reply #10 on: 20 January 2021, 07:22:43 pm »
I very much doubt he'd bulk buy them like we do just for normal use in a relationship so sounds a bit odd, he can't have that many surely.
To make such a big deal over the price of a few condoms when he's paying for an escort doesn't really add up to me.
I wouldn't let clients bring their own, way too easy for them to have been tampered with and I keep a good variety anyway.
Not sure I'd feel safe with the ultra thin ones but that's just me.

Jessiegirl

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Re: Using their own condoms
« Reply #11 on: 20 January 2021, 11:42:58 pm »
What's wrong with ultra thin ones

Kay

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Re: Using their own condoms
« Reply #12 on: 21 January 2021, 12:06:34 am »
I have umpteen different types and sizes, so I'd only say yes if someone had bought something special, like the Sagami ones.
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

Jessiegirl

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Re: Using their own condoms
« Reply #13 on: 21 January 2021, 05:21:44 am »
He did mention those Sagami ones but said they don't quite fit him that well.

Miffy

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Re: Using their own condoms
« Reply #14 on: 21 January 2021, 07:12:00 am »
He did mention those Sagami ones but said they don't quite fit him that well.

Well, if they don't fit him well, then it makes no sense to use them.

Regarding ultra thin condoms, as mentioned in other threads, I only use Skyn non-latex condoms. Their ultra thin ones are the most popular with my clients and to date, I have never had one break.