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Title: Using the same condom for oral and sex ?
Post by: Ana66 on 16 November 2021, 04:22:59 pm
Hi everyone,

I was wondering if you use the same condom for oral and sex ?

In fact, this morning I had a booking where the guy requested protected oral (I extremely rarely get these requests as I provide OWO). So I put a condom on, start doing bj and then when we are about to have sex I tell him I’m gonna change the condom and put a new one for the sex (I thought it was logical to do it that way since bacteria in the mouth are not the same as the one in the vagina and thought it could potentially give thrush or something). Anyways, as I’m about the change the condom, the guy had lost his erection already and was looking at me with a disappointed face probably thinking « it’s your fault if I lost my erection because you changed the condom » (and the guy couldn’t manage to get another erection afterwards and hence we couldn’t have sex). After that I felt a bit guilty because I could feel the guy was a bit angry and maybe it was safe to keep the same condom for oral and sex. I don’t know. Let me know what you think

Thanks  :)
Title: Re: Using the same condom for oral and sex ?
Post by: Mirror on 16 November 2021, 04:39:51 pm
Changing between oral and vagina is about wear and tear on the condom.
Title: Re: Using the same condom for oral and sex ?
Post by: pussycat on 16 November 2021, 04:40:38 pm
I would’ve done the same. Condoms have lube on them, albeit a thin layer, and that’ll have gone during oral. It’d be too dry and you’d either end up needing to change it anyway or pause to lube up. Also I’d worry about if enzymes in my saliva could’ve eroded the condoms effectiveness somewhat. Don’t feel guilty. I know we do when things like this happen, but you 100% did the right thing because you did what was comfortable for you. We can’t be blamed when their pushpops go shy!x
Title: Re: Using the same condom for oral and sex ?
Post by: fallen angel on 16 November 2021, 05:26:42 pm
Changing between oral and vagina is about wear and tear on the condom.

This is my take on it also so always change them
Title: Re: Using the same condom for oral and sex ?
Post by: Femme fatale on 16 November 2021, 06:27:24 pm
I've done very rarely oral with then not had time to change the condom to be honest just always used lube and got on with it no problems afterwards
Title: Re: Using the same condom for oral and sex ?
Post by: KirstyKiss on 16 November 2021, 06:50:38 pm
I use the same and never had a problem but I always use lube as well.
Title: Re: Using the same condom for oral and sex ?
Post by: Milf-G on 17 November 2021, 07:23:33 pm
We can’t be blamed when their pushpops go shy!x

Pushpops  ;D love it
Title: Re: Using the same condom for oral and sex ?
Post by: Ana66 on 18 November 2021, 08:38:48 am
Thank you all for you information  :)