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Miffy

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Using a hotel room once the client has left
« on: 19 April 2021, 06:12:48 pm »
Usually I stay overnight with the client, or else it's a day use room and we both go our separate ways once we've finished. However, the hotel this particular client wants to book is not a day use one, and rather than 'waste' the room, has asked if I want to stay the night after he has gone.

After being stuck in my flat for months, it would be lovely to spend the night by myself in a fancy pants hotel room. Obviously I know I can put the chain on which will stop him getting in should he return, but I want to send a clear signal that if I do stay, he's not to return.

Would it be strange to him to sign a disclaimer stating he won't return to the hotel room once he has left? By sign, I would accept an email stating this fact.

Any thoughts would be appreciated.

Thanks.
« Last Edit: 19 April 2021, 06:34:54 pm by Thoroughly Modern Millie »

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Re: Using a hotel room once the client has left
« Reply #1 on: 19 April 2021, 06:39:44 pm »
Usually I stay overnight with the client, or else it's a day use room and we both go our separate ways once we've finished. However, the hotel this particular client wants to book is not a day use one, and rather than 'waste' the room, has asked if I want to stay the night after he has gone.

After being stuck in my flat for months, it would be lovely to spend the night by myself in a fancy pants hotel room. Obviously I know I can put the chain on which will stop him getting in should he return, but I want to send a clear signal that if I do stay, he's not to return.

Would it be strange to him to sign a disclaimer stating he won't return to the hotel room once he has left? By sign, I would accept an email stating this fact.

Any thoughts would be appreciated.

Thanks.

But how would you enforce it?


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Re: Using a hotel room once the client has left
« Reply #2 on: 19 April 2021, 06:46:43 pm »
If he returns, he's in breach of contract.

I have his ID, work details etc, so I can pursue him legally as he's be in breach of contract/the disclaimer he agreed to. Extreme, and the worst case scenario, but I want to protect myself and make it clear of the implications if he returns unannounced.

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Re: Using a hotel room once the client has left
« Reply #3 on: 19 April 2021, 06:53:31 pm »
If he returns, he's in breach of contract.

I have his ID, work details etc, so I can pursue him legally as he's be in breach of contract/the disclaimer he agreed to. Extreme, and the worst case scenario, but I want to protect myself and make it clear of the implications if he returns unannounced.

I could be completely wrong and have no legal training, but to me it sounds unlikely that a signed piece of paper saying a person will not go back to a room booked and paid for in their name would stand up in court.

And at that point you'd likely be paying in both time, and money to take it to court.

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Re: Using a hotel room once the client has left
« Reply #4 on: 19 April 2021, 06:55:52 pm »
I think the contract is between him and the hotel if hes rented the room. So i presume you can not take priority over that. Also if I was the client making this generous offer id be taken aback by this suggestion. I'm not a lawyer.
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Re: Using a hotel room once the client has left
« Reply #5 on: 19 April 2021, 07:02:41 pm »
I think the contract is between him and the hotel if hes rented the room. So i presume you can not take priority over that. Also if I was the client making this generous offer id be taken aback by this suggestion. I'm not a lawyer.

Usually people don't make a generous offer without expecting something in return, hence my concern. Last time a client offered this, I declined and that client went on to try underpay me. He's now an ex-client.


I could be completely wrong and have no legal training, but to me it sounds unlikely that a signed piece of paper saying a person will not go back to a room booked and paid for in their name would stand up in court.

And at that point you'd likely be paying in both time, and money to take it to court.

It is a contract between me and the client, so if he goes against something he as consented to, he is a fault. His contract with the hotel is a whole other matterl.

The idea is not to take it to court, the idea is to nip any ideas of returning in the bud.

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Re: Using a hotel room once the client has left
« Reply #6 on: 19 April 2021, 07:05:08 pm »
You have to do as you see fit M.
Me I prefer drama free and would just rent my own luxury room to bask in at my leisure. Use up all the hot water and such ;)
« Last Edit: 19 April 2021, 07:37:07 pm by saltysweet »

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Re: Using a hotel room once the client has left
« Reply #7 on: 19 April 2021, 07:09:53 pm »
Move rooms after he's gone. Just cite a crap mobile signal/noisy neighbours/poltergeists, or whatever :D

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Re: Using a hotel room once the client has left
« Reply #8 on: 19 April 2021, 07:15:29 pm »
Genius!!  ;D
« Last Edit: 19 April 2021, 07:36:02 pm by saltysweet »

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Re: Using a hotel room once the client has left
« Reply #9 on: 19 April 2021, 09:41:45 pm »
Move rooms after he's gone. Just cite a crap mobile signal/noisy neighbours/poltergeists, or whatever :D

This is excellent, thanks Amy!  ;D


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Re: Using a hotel room once the client has left
« Reply #10 on: 19 April 2021, 10:40:30 pm »
Move rooms after he's gone. Just cite a crap mobile signal/noisy neighbours/poltergeists, or whatever :D

She can;t do that because the room is not booked under her name, first thing the receptionist is going to ask before moving rooms is ask for her name, and it's not on the booking form or her debit card.Otherwise it would be super easy to just walk into an hotel with a plastic key saying "you want to move rooms" and get a freebie.
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Re: Using a hotel room once the client has left
« Reply #11 on: 19 April 2021, 11:04:47 pm »
She doesn't have to walk anywhere, just call from the room she's in and give the name on the reservation (if they ask, which they don't IME). If I had a tenner for the number of times I've done it I could pay my rent for a year :).

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Re: Using a hotel room once the client has left
« Reply #12 on: 19 April 2021, 11:15:09 pm »
She can;t do that because the room is not booked under her name, first thing the receptionist is going to ask before moving rooms is ask for her name, and it's not on the booking form or her debit card.Otherwise it would be super easy to just walk into an hotel with a plastic key saying "you want to move rooms" and get a freebie.

I'll have a copy of the booking reference and client's real name. Would never, ever go to a hotel outcall without either.

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Re: Using a hotel room once the client has left
« Reply #13 on: 19 April 2021, 11:15:46 pm »
I've had this before with no problems when I wasn't doing in calls. In got them to book the hotel so they could see me. After the session they were going home and said I could use the room and a shame to waste it. I actually managed to get a few extra bookings after.

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Re: Using a hotel room once the client has left
« Reply #14 on: 19 April 2021, 11:23:18 pm »
I've had this before with no problems when I wasn't doing in calls. In got them to book the hotel so they could see me. After the session they were going home and said I could use the room and a shame to waste it. I actually managed to get a few extra bookings after.

I've moved rooms after a busy few days working when I was knackered and just wanted to sleep on fresh sheets and use a nice clean bathroom (with apologies to the planet). I told them that a weird man had followed me from the lobby and then knocked on my door, and they couldn't send a porter with the new key up fast enough.