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leahescort

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Urgent help needed - being stalked
« on: 29 June 2014, 01:43:03 pm »
I work with my friend and to date have had very few and fairly insignificant problems, only timewasters really which is standard.  However, a couple of weeks ago we got a double booking at 1 in the morning to a travel lodge near us, carried out checks everything was fine.  Got to room, he didnt answer door at whic point receptionist came up so we said he must have nipped to garage across way.    We went downstaits and as we did he phoned nd apologised and said he would come down to us which of course he didnt.   when we drove off he sent us a creepy message saying about my headlight been out so he was definitely watching us.

 Since then he has inundated us with wierd messages calling us timewasters and allsorts, now today he said he has written things about me across 3 punters sites and he will ruin my business.  I dont want to look on the sites as it will upset me and I am working hard to build up my business, I am constantly working on my twitter account, saving for a nice apartment I really want this to work and I treat my clients well and really dont deserve this.   What can we do?  He says he has 7 accounts and he is laughing as he sits ruining my life????????????  What can I do, I have heard bad things on these punter sites can wreck your business and I am genuinely just a mum trying to pay my mortgage after splitting with my hubby 2 years ago, well it started like that but then I realised what a good living it is.  My friend and I are Leahescort and Carlatheminx21 on adultwork. :FF :FF
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Re: Urgent help needed - being stalked
« Reply #1 on: 29 June 2014, 02:06:11 pm »
Leah, it is the smallest of numbers of guys who visit these forums and they are usually bland sheep who follow each other with comments and they really ain't worth bothering about.

Carry on as normal.  Ignore the eejit, you are better than him. 
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Re: Urgent help needed - being stalked
« Reply #2 on: 29 June 2014, 02:11:49 pm »
What you have found is a naughty toddler who has not grown up and is still upset that he cannot have everything he wants. He enjoys pushing buttons and is getting off on the distress, so block and ignore him. The vast majority of potential clients have never even heard of any punter boards, never mind read any.

If and only if you are feeling ok about yourselves, you could look on them. There probably won't be anything that isn't obviously utter crap (in which case ignore it) and you could try looking for each other (it can be more amusing than distressing to read it about other people). But if you don't bother, the world will not end.

You have a fine profile, with some feedback (although you don't need to use the 'dispute' function to say thanks for it!). He could not ruin your business if he tried.

Given the mum aspect, are you sure you want to show your face in your marketing?
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Re: Urgent help needed - being stalked
« Reply #3 on: 29 June 2014, 02:39:29 pm »
Quote from: leahescort on 29 June 2014, 01:43:03 pm

today he said he has written things about me across 3 punters sites

He hasn't. Googling your names brings up nothing.
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Re: Urgent help needed - being stalked
« Reply #4 on: 29 June 2014, 10:14:19 pm »
Just wanted to say thanks to everyone for the lovely responses today both on the board and privately.  I cant block on my phone but I just dont even open his texts now.

As for the mum pic I was only uploading some pics today and as I have a teenage son that did come up in conversation, I am in bed now as very early appointment tommorrow but going to try and find some shots without my face, I have looked at some other ladies profiles with some really classy shots on without their faces showing.

Again thankyou thankyou I had got myself into a real mess about the situation thinking I would lose everything, and I am only just getting used to the fact the money is real, I cant believe it.

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Re: Urgent help needed - being stalked
« Reply #5 on: 30 June 2014, 12:47:37 pm »
Quote from: leahescort on 29 June 2014, 10:14:19 pm
Just wanted to say thanks to everyone for the lovely responses today both on the board and privately.  I cant block on my phone but I just dont even open his texts now.

As for the mum pic I was only uploading some pics today and as I have a teenage son that did come up in conversation, I am in bed now as very early appointment tommorrow but going to try and find some shots without my face, I have looked at some other ladies profiles with some really classy shots on without their faces showing.

Again thankyou thankyou I had got myself into a real mess about the situation thinking I would lose everything, and I am only just getting used to the fact the money is real, I cant believe it.

*thumbs up* Onwards and upwards! :)
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Re: Urgent help needed - being stalked
« Reply #6 on: 30 June 2014, 01:26:48 pm »
Quote from: leahescort on 29 June 2014, 10:14:19 pm
Just wanted to say thanks to everyone for the lovely responses today both on the board and privately.  I cant block on my phone but I just dont even open his texts now.

As for the mum pic I was only uploading some pics today and as I have a teenage son that did come up in conversation, I am in bed now as very early appointment tommorrow but going to try and find some shots without my face, I have looked at some other ladies profiles with some really classy shots on without their faces showing.

Again thankyou thankyou I had got myself into a real mess about the situation thinking I would lose everything, and I am only just getting used to the fact the money is real, I cant believe it.

Leah you can get a phone from carphonewarehouse for a fiver that DOES block texts.  Get down there girl.
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Re: Urgent help needed - being stalked
« Reply #7 on: 30 June 2014, 01:42:37 pm »
Quote from: Lady_Lust_XXX on 30 June 2014, 01:26:48 pm
Quote from: leahescort on 29 June 2014, 10:14:19 pm
Just wanted to say thanks to everyone for the lovely responses today both on the board and privately.  I cant block on my phone but I just dont even open his texts now.

As for the mum pic I was only uploading some pics today and as I have a teenage son that did come up in conversation, I am in bed now as very early appointment tommorrow but going to try and find some shots without my face, I have looked at some other ladies profiles with some really classy shots on without their faces showing.

Again thankyou thankyou I had got myself into a real mess about the situation thinking I would lose everything, and I am only just getting used to the fact the money is real, I cant believe it.

Leah you can get a phone from carphonewarehouse for a fiver that DOES block texts.  Get down there girl.

Yep or if it a phone that you can have apps on then you can download call/text blockers from the app store.
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Re: Urgent help needed - being stalked
« Reply #8 on: 09 July 2014, 06:05:47 pm »
New phone got that blocks, thanks girls xx ;D
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