Author Topic: Urgent advice ladies I'm shaking (Read 3559 times)

Luciexx · « **Reply #15 on:** 01 February 2017, 08:39:31 pm »

Sure, thanks. If someone does show her face, that usually mean, she accepted the possibility of getting outed or she's okay if she gets outed, and she does not mind. Whatever action you take in this industry, there are pitfalls everywhere it seems.

barbie88 · « **Reply #16 on:** 01 February 2017, 11:55:04 pm »

Like I mentioned my family already know . It's just I could of really done with out them actually seeing my aw profile . And I had accepted that some members of my family just wasn't going to accept it and be quite rude it's only recently we have all been getting on well and I wouldn't want the pot stired .

Today just freaked me out but I think it's some idiot I have had no family phone calls to suggest other wise . My friend I spoke to said she's had simular sort of cam calls . I think it is idiot day today first that fool pretending to be a foot baller and then this idiot now .

wishlist · « **Reply #17 on:** 01 February 2017, 11:57:25 pm »

Quote from: barbie88 on 01 February 2017, 11:55:04 pm

Like I mentioned my family already know . It's just I could of really done with out them actually seeing my aw profile . And I had accepted that some members of my family just wasn't going to accept it and be quite rude it's only recently we have all been getting on well and I wouldn't want the pot stired .

Today just freaked me out but I think it's some idiot I have had no family phone calls to suggest other wise . My friend I spoke to said she's had simular sort of cam calls . I think it is idiot day today first that fool pretending to be a foot baller and then this idiot now .

we could all do with out grief but if your family already know I cant see the issue tbh

barbie88 · « **Reply #18 on:** 02 February 2017, 12:04:07 am »

I feel much safer staying at home and web camming but some times it can be dead so doing the odd day in a hotel can top your money up . With cam I feel much safe but it does worry me as I don't know who could be coming on line and seeing me I have had a few emails over the years off men who say they have seen me out and about was that me in tescos ect and I'm like no then they come on my cam and they yes it was you I saw today so that's the down side to the cam for me . I don't choose to hide my face but tend to Mainly point the camera on my boobes .

I think if some one was to come across your profile you can always say your pictures were stolen but with cam they can see its you . If this had happened last year really wouldn't of cared it's just because now we are starting to get on again could really do with out seeing my profile . I really hope it's just some asshole as I really don't think my cousin would say tho weird things he more likely be like what you doing on here then call my nan and tell her not write all that crap . But was just so freaked out earlier .

barbie88 · « **Reply #19 on:** 02 February 2017, 12:05:39 am »

They know I worked for agencies years ago and my nan knows I still work and I'm Independant . Thanks for your advice ladies apreciated .

Dymphnalala · « **Reply #20 on:** 02 February 2017, 12:18:33 am »

Hope it all goes ok. Would your fam be more forgiving if you said you just worked as just a cam girl? You could just say what you said to us "just point the camera at my boobs don't show my face"....

Cat_BBW · « **Reply #21 on:** 02 February 2017, 10:22:22 am »

Quote from: barbie88 on 01 February 2017, 03:45:47 pm

I can't stop shaking so earlier on I had the strangest call from a guy from London where I'm from pretending to be a foot baller blah blah and it sort of freaked me out abit because the guy said his mate gave him my number I just thought what a idiot . Just now I log into into my web cam and guy comes in this is the coversation in his exact words ' ommgg cuz , I didn't know you did aw , kind of a turn on to see you on here though ' I then said excuse me he said I'm in your fam I don't want to say to much on here it's a strange turn on to see you in here ' then he logged off.

Now it could be just some complete weirdo trying to freak me out but I don't know what to do . Years ago my family all found what I did threw a 3 rd cousin of mines he sent the link of me on a agency site to my nan and claimed he accidentally came across it . It of course caused a lot of drama in my family my sister and nan already knew but no one else did every one found out my mum and sister for years have been very embarssed bout my job for years and assumed I had stopped web cam and escorting my nan knows what I do. Lately after years me and my family have been close again and this could really ruin things . I don't know what to do shall I hide feed back ? Change my profile ? I'm honestly freaking out last year I really wouldn't care but lately been really getting on with my family . Is it a high chance this id just random idiot trying to freak me out ?

Let me tell you, there are many many idiots in the cam world who get off on doing exactly this. He's into the *shock* and *incest* factors. So probaby he was a random idiot.

SW · « **Reply #22 on:** 02 February 2017, 11:33:27 am »

Yeah I second what Cat said. Taboo/Incest/shock factor clients are quite common on cam. If its not something you advertise just smile sweetly 'ok then' and disconnect and ban them. Dont give them the satisfaction of knowing they've riled you. Easier said than done I know!

Or play along and make some money off them.

Just remember the webcam world is fantasist land and try and take everything with a pinch of salt. Having said that I'd be just as freaked as you probably! Must be stressful for you!

As for showing face on cam yeah you've got to really if you want to make decent money rather than a top up of your escort money. (Unless you can work it into your shows as part of a roleplay fetish etc) Being recognised is therefore an occupational hazard, but is less likely if you don't do freeview and only paying customers can see you. I dont show my face straight away so the cheapskate looky loos who pop in and out of your room don't get what they want!
Ive never been recognised yet (as far as I know) by someone but do wear a shit ton of make up on cam and never wear make up in real life, mainly just mud as I'm a country girl!!

barbie88 · « **Reply #23 on:** 02 February 2017, 01:43:52 pm »

Yeh ladies I agree at the end of the day every one has a cousin well most people so if you wanted to freak a girl out and get off on it you would come out with that . I really don't think my 3 rd cousin would come out with all that crap think if it was him he would either be like what you on here for or just call my nan and grass me up like he did last time and told every one . So I'm relaxed in thinking it was just some idiot . Yeh I agree they Like to see faces so I do give that option . My nan has always been a huge support to me even when she found out she wasn't rude or nasty she was more annoyed the fact that my cousin didn't just come to her the fact he told pretty much every one she was annoyed . She told me that I'm her grand daughter and I'm hers she loves me and people will have to go threw her . And I was worried things would get said and my nan will get upset again so that was my main worry . I really think it was just weirdo day yesterday .

barbie88 · « **Reply #24 on:** 07 February 2017, 05:51:21 pm »

Just a update ladies it was just some total twat wasn't my cousin lol he came in just now on cam and said the same crap then he said that he's going to tell my brother well I haven't got one lol so I'm guessing it's a total twat and feel much better now and thanks for all the advice and support . Xx

VoluptuousCurves · « **Reply #25 on:** 07 February 2017, 05:52:10 pm »

Cat nailed it then! Good to know

barbie88 · « **Reply #26 on:** 07 February 2017, 07:59:17 pm »

Yeh was a random idiot X

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