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ParisB

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Re: Upset when calles talk about "services" or my "working"
« Reply #15 on: 28 December 2011, 09:04:54 am »
I dont know what the fuss is about ( or maybe ive mellowed out a bit ) but it dosnt bother me in the slightest i dont have any airs and graces about what i do -    i think if simple words likes services and working offend people to the point of getting upset then they are in the wrong job  ;D  there is a lot more stuff i would be offended by in this business but these words  nah  water of a ducks back to me  
 
i supply a service   so no problems if they ask about service
i am working  so no problems if they ask if im open
yes they can meet me today  ( if im working )  
i really dont get why people are offended or irritated by such common words,  a fair amount of the guys have often used parlours  where these words are commonly used,  so they dont see any difference in using them when they call us and lets face it whats the real difference we all drop our knickers for cash so i see why guys ask and use these words    

i much prefer to listen to the tone of the voice and the way that its being said rather than the actual words used

its a waste of time i think to send them back to the profile  you just loose business  guy generally wont do this they will just move on to the next availble girl who gives them details  -  ok you might get the odd one who will go back and read it but 8 /10 wont bother  so you lose business from it  

its far easier to work from a script give them the details that they want even if its not what they want or require if you tell them what you offer and what you dont do its so much easier    Even if its on your site and listed clearly i find it easier to tell them exactly what i do and dont do and what they will get and not  get
 
the harder you make it for them to book the  less money you make  
a few words like open, services, and meet wont stop me from taking a booking  i would rather  deal with the blunt ones than the flowery long love letters that i get now that creeps me out ( but i will still take the booking being such a prossie )      

  
 

Coty

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Re: Upset when calles talk about "services" or my "working"
« Reply #16 on: 28 December 2011, 10:53:58 am »
Neither word bothers me to be honest. In fact it's usually me that asks, "What services do you require?" or "What kind of service are you looking for?" just so I can be prepared!

jayna

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Re: Upset when calles talk about "services" or my "working"
« Reply #17 on: 28 December 2011, 11:06:32 am »
I don't mind 'date' as long as there is no confusion about our 'date' being a paid one. In any case, I always re confirm the prices. That way we both know where we stand.

strawberry

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Re: Upset when calles talk about "services" or my "working"
« Reply #18 on: 28 December 2011, 11:24:27 am »
I don't mind 'date' as long as there is no confusion about our 'date' being a paid one. In any case, I always re confirm the prices. That way we both know where we stand.

Yes I too make it quite clear. I'm sure we've all had the "I'm in town, staying in a nice hotel would love to treat you to dinner?".

EvaBeeva

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Re: Upset when calles talk about "services" or my "working"
« Reply #19 on: 28 December 2011, 04:14:15 pm »
I'm not bothered by their wording, rather (as someone else has already said) it's the 'way' they speak to me which bothers me.  I find the more they fuss about when I'm available, whether I have any friends, what I look like and how many times they can come, the more I lose interest in taking their booking.  If you want to see me arrange a time and just see me!

I don't like discussing my services on the phone, I've never been good that way.  I'd prefer they ask if they want something in particular so I can yes or no from the start.
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Coty

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Re: Upset when calles talk about "services" or my "working"
« Reply #20 on: 29 December 2011, 12:37:49 am »
I'm not bothered by their wording, rather (as someone else has already said) it's the 'way' they speak to me which bothers me.  I find the more they fuss about when I'm available, whether I have any friends, what I look like and how many times they can come, the more I lose interest in taking their booking.  If you want to see me arrange a time and just see me!

I don't like discussing my services on the phone, I've never been good that way.  I'd prefer they ask if they want something in particular so I can yes or no from the start.

I sooo agree with all this post!!!

ladyjennaj

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Re: Upset when calles talk about "services" or my "working"
« Reply #21 on: 29 December 2011, 05:32:10 pm »
I'm another one who hates 'what time are you open till today?' >:(

River

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Re: Upset when calles talk about "services" or my "working"
« Reply #22 on: 01 January 2012, 02:54:16 am »
Services?
Well....I love "O" either way, play, massage, looking at naughty films
and of course you can fuck me.
May I ask you a personal question? - Are you feeling horny?
Great, so am I. When would you like to book a session with me?

It's a sales script, nothing more.
I could be saying:
Well, it's an economical runner while both stylish and fun to drive.
Now you may not have noticed but along with air-con,
it also has sat nav, mp3/cd player, and powered steering.
(Did you know Kylie Minogue didn't just feature in the ads but actually owns this same model?)
Now what have we got to do, to have you driving this lovely car off the forecourt, today?


Just words, like a billboard. Not there to touch my soul, justify my self or describe the real me.
It's a verbal flyer to start the process of separating potential client from their Coin.
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River

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Re: Upset when calles talk about "services" or my "working"
« Reply #23 on: 01 January 2012, 02:59:20 am »
This just reminds me of car services! Everytime I get this, I want to say 'I'm an escort, not a car mechanic!'
Or "I'm an escort, not a Ford Escort"   ;D

River

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Re: Upset when calles talk about "services" or my "working"
« Reply #24 on: 01 January 2012, 03:12:53 am »
and how many times they can come
That one does get to me.  But not in a bad way.
How should I know. we've never met. 2, 3, 4, 5 times? ... Am I close?
I then laugh and explain that they can decide at the start of the appointment,
and write the number of planned orgasms, on the white marker board.
But that they MUST keep to their stated number, within the session time...

I do then tell them that I'm joking around.
Strangely they still visit me.

LouLou37

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Re: Upset when calles talk about "services" or my "working"
« Reply #25 on: 01 January 2012, 02:52:43 pm »
I think it's hard to strike a balance between putting decent potential real punters off (ie those skimming through lots of sites/profiles so maybe needing confirmation and things explained) and not wanting to encourage or pander to idiotic timewasters (and some of them are actually quite subtle in their attempts).

Personally I wouldn't mind describing myself etc to a caller who is seriously thinking about a booking or enquiring. It's a business after all. But the thought of unwittingly serving as some idiot's free wank fodder when I'm not getting paid for it makes me feel a bit icky! Like the idiot TW has got one over on me or something. Basically, as long as it's not really offensive, I don't mind as long as I'm getting paid or there's a good chance it will pay off. That's why I'm really shit at Free Chat on webcams - it riles me when I'm sitting there in bra and panties and some twat comes in and after 1 min says "oh baby you are so hot ...i'm wanking right now...."   >:( It sort of feels to me a bit like how I'd imagine I'd feel if I were a stripper doing a stage set but not getting tipped.
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amy

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Re: Upset when calles talk about "services" or my "working"
« Reply #26 on: 01 January 2012, 06:06:05 pm »
That's why I'm really shit at Free Chat on webcams

What is this 'Free' of which you speak?  ??? ;D

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Re: Upset when calles talk about "services" or my "working"
« Reply #27 on: 13 January 2012, 07:29:34 pm »
my all time it just pisses me off no end is " are you free at all today"? im not free anyday im available but never free,and why oh why dont they read yr profiles? they  ask questions that are in yr FAQ'S and  then where are you?
how much do you charge? my prices are right underneath my mobile number doh!!!!!! lol