What does she think you do?

If you have a reason to have a stream of typically-older-than-you men coming to your door, alone, then the number can be quite high provided they are not actually disturbing people. This means a) having the story right and b) ruthlessly screening them / making them follow the right arrival procedure. It can also help if you have some single women turning up, especially when you know the neighbours are in.

Depending what you do about laundry, you may need to be careful about how much visible washing of the sheets etc you do.

Go for massuse, looks like that's your safest/most believeable option x

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I work from my flat where I live, but the layout is ideal because (amongst other reasons) there isn't a door opposite mine. Even having said that I am careful about how many punters I see a day when I'm at home - the main entrance to my building isn't overlooked, but you can always guarantee one idiot will stride up and down outside shouting your work name down his mobile or something which is one of the reasons I know my screening can come across on here as incredibly strict, but I own my home and won't take risks.

I am polite to my neighbours if I see them, but I keep my head down as much as I can and I don't think many have even seen me enough times to recognise me from my pictures if they saw them. I have a spyhole and always look to see if anybody is in the hallway before I go out (I wait if they are) and I try to only go out in baggy/gym clothes and with my hair all tied up or under a hat.

The most I would see in a day at home would be three or maybe four if they were well spaced out - I try to keep it to two, and only four days a week if possible. I make up the difference when I'm working away though, so it evens out. I can't see that there's much more you can do, especially the professional clothing and getting your friend to call round and knock on her door. If you were doing sports massages and so on from home I wouldn't worry about five a day or thereabouts.

Hiya

When I was in Portsmouth I used to work from where I lived.....and I did worry about too many guys coming up and down the stairs (I was right at the top) and the neighbours noticings.  Ususually I only saw 1-2 guys a day, but on occaisions more. 

But actually they could have been visiting for any no. of reasons, a lot of it was paranoia in my head....and they never noticed in the 6 months I was there.

As long as like Amy says you also use careful screening procedures also.  I also never saw many guys at night, so it seemed to work. 

Right now I'm itching to get my own place again, as there is big demand for incalls where I've moved to!

Hope this is helpful

Soph x

Thanks guys x

That idea about saying most of my work comes from word of mouth referrals from (maybe accountants! or office workers sitting down all day so 'sore backs') sounds like a great plan. But I will only drop it into conversation if the subject of work comes up x

Thanks Lou x

I have often thought a modern apartment like yours would be better. Probably full of business professionals out during the day. As far as I know my neighbour works very part-time in the evenings. 

It is a shame you say you have ruled out friendships though  Could you maybe get in touch with a few sex workers in your area and meet up over a coffee or something? Don't mean to give unwanted advice or anything, just I know how it feels to be lonely in this line of work. I used to go stir-crazy until I told a couple of existing friends and met a few fellow sex workers.

The 2-5 a day plan is going quite well so far (hope I didn't just jinx myself there!). I start off at a maximum of 5, then reduce the number to see that day if I see/hear evidence of neighbours in/around. So for example, if her house is quiet and no lights on etc when I get there in the morning, I will take advantage of that and see more clients as she will be out for the day, but if it looks like she is going to be in and around that day (ie lights, voices, seeing her hang washing out, short errands) then I reduce it to 2 ish. I am aware this "formula" and stalking of the neighbour may make me sound a bit paranoid and OCD