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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: Mariaxxx on 11 April 2023, 12:27:31 pm
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Hi girls!
So recently I see ads with a lot of reviews and they describe yourself like the best of the best and nothing would be impossible for them.
They seem very confident in themselves and usually have similar description like "Allow me to seduce You and i will try to do the best i can for you!!!" or "WELLCOME TO MY FANTASY WORLD WERE WE WILL FORGET ABOUT ALL THE STRESSFUL TIME FROM OUTSIDE"
What is really behind this kinda ads and phrases and how on earth are they able to keep the promise?
Coz only when I write that I am open minded I am getting ridiculous requests that sometimes idk if to cry of laugh
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I thought it was obvious, to attract the punters, tell them what they want to hear. Not that my profile says anything like that though it’s not my style
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Of course you have to attract the punters but those sound too good to be true as no one can be tomato soup to satisfy everyone.
But 100+ only good reviews didnt came from nowhere, so I wonder what is it so special what they are doing?
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They are always using the booking system and possibly offering discounts for good feedback. I don't do either, but back when I did I had feedbacks that made me wonder if they'd been in the same room as me :D
The rest is just (very badly spelt) marketing fluff - anybody can make wild claims about things that are completely subjective, because nobody can prove them to be wrong. As for 'openminded', unfortunately this just attracts boundary pushers who see it as a green light to push for service you don't offer, in my experience at least. I had it in my ads many years ago and found exactly the same thing.
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I suppose the writer is trying to make their advert sound different to stand out from other adverts. Otherwise they will read just like the tick lists of likes and dislike with zero personality in them.
Let's face it there are only so many ways to describe sex work, and there's thousands upon thousands of adverts, so lots of same old, same old in most adverts. And how many clients actually read them anyway, they look at pictures.
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They are always using the booking system and possibly offering discounts for good feedback. I don't do either, but back when I did I had feedbacks that made me wonder if they'd been in the same room as me :D
The rest is just (very badly spelt) marketing fluff - anybody can make wild claims about things that are completely subjective, because nobody can prove them to be wrong. As for 'openminded', unfortunately this just attracts boundary pushers who see it as a green light to push for service you don't offer, in my experience at least. I had it in my ads many years ago and found exactly the same thing.
Hahahah, Amy you are the best!
Actually those girls have only 5star reviews and very oh, ah general euphoria without the details so I also suppose they are from agency even tho they claim not
but each time I look at this kinda ad I FOMO what I could do better
with this kinda heavy promises also high expectations comes so I really wouldn't like to be in their position unless I am hypnotiser or sth
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I suppose the writer is trying to make their advert sound different to stand out from other adverts. Otherwise they will read just like the tick lists of likes and dislike with zero personality in them.
Let's face it there are only so many ways to describe sex work, and there's thousands upon thousands of adverts, so lots of same old, same old in most adverts. And how many clients actually read them anyway, they look at pictures.
You right. But with this kinda heavy promises also high expectations comes so I really wouldn't like to be in their position unless I am hypnotiser or sth
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Perhaps they are very good at what they do and are offering a very good service and getting the feedback that they deserve genuinely and honestly?
I’ve never offered a discount for feedback and not in all the years had a negative, I always use the booking facility for new clients.
I would hope that I ensure that they forget the outside problems whilst with me otherwise bloody hell I must be naff. That or their outside problems are very big in which case I doubt that they would be with me.
The statements that you have quoted don’t seem outrageous. It’s just advertisement. Watch a few ads on TV, it’s kind of how it works.
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I never bother to look at anybody else’s ads. :)
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I never bother to look at anybody else’s ads. :)
I always like a nosey to see the competition, but compared to most in the area we are poles apart, me being old and fat the others young and svelte lol
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I always like a nosey to see the competition, but compared to most in the area we are poles apart, me being old and fat the others young and svelte lol
But they're not competition.
Competition is when five different shops all sell the same tin of beans; the beans are identical, so each shop has to give shoppers a good reason to buy them there. Human beings are not beans :)
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The statements that you have quoted don’t seem outrageous. It’s just advertisement. Watch a few ads on TV, it’s kind of how it works.
Exactly. Writing about how mediocre your blow jobs are and how you'll do role play but you're pretty shit at it and would rather not, or how you're actually nothing like the pictures because they were taken in 2007 isn't really going to bring them beating a path to your door ;D
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Exactly. Writing about how mediocre your blow jobs are and how you'll do role play but you're pretty shit at it and would rather not, or how you're actually nothing like the pictures because they were taken in 2007 isn't really going to bring them beating a path to your door ;D
Seems I am bad at marketing. And not so great escort since satisfying everyone is impossible for me.
Well, I guess I can live with that. At least I got some perspective.
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Seems I am bad at marketing. And not so great escort since satisfying everyone is impossible for me.
Well, I guess I can live with that. At least I got some perspective.
Nobody can satisfy absolutely everyone - all our clients are individuals and even if we have regulars who come time and again, sometimes they won't enjoy the service as much as others.
In sex work it's easy to make outrageous claims on your advertising like "best service guaranteed" because it's not like they're going to leave you a crappy google review! The AW feedback system rarely reflects reality and I think most sensible clients know this.
If you get repeat clients then you are giving a good service in their eyes. If they choose not to come back then that's okay! They can find someone they like more. I am a chatty fucker and I've had regulars saying they love coming to me so we can have a talk as well as the service. But I've had comments from other guys that I'm too talkative, so they don't book again. That's okay! They will be better off booking someone who prefers not to chat much.
Maria do you want help with writing your advert/profile? As a brief tip I would say keep your profile focused on positive statements. Like "I love to provide a sensual girlfriend experience" rather than "NO PORN STAR SHIT". Or "My sexual health is very important to me so condoms are essential" instead of "BAREBACK REQUESTS WILL BE BLOCKED".
And rather than making silly claims like "I am the best in town" you could say things like "My clients have described my service as passionate, energetic, relaxing, refreshing" etc etc - real things people have actually said.
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Seems I am bad at marketing. And not so great escort since satisfying everyone is impossible for me.
Well, I guess I can live with that. At least I got some perspective.
It really isn’t about pleasing every Tom, Dick and Harry. If you write your profile in a way that is genuine and you advertise what you genuinely enjoy offering you will attract the right clients and in doing so you do what you say on the tin and they are happy.
Where many go wrong is that they copy what they see others doing or they portray themselves as someone they think clients want to see and they often end up miserable and resentful.
When writing your profile, deciding what you do, who you do it for and what for it has to be what you are happy with disregarding anyone else.
One of the quickest ways to burn out and get fed up in the sec industry is by comparing yourself to others. I stay in my own lane and don’t really bother with what others are up to and with whom.
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I wouldn't read too much into it..... I am constantly seeing blogs titled 'Why Blondes Are Better Than Brunettes'/'Why All Natural Is Best'/'NO1 Escort/Cam Girl on AW' etc etc - It's just a marketing ploy to get hits on their profiles plus I don't really want to be spending time with guys who book me because my profile claims I am better than everyone else, I want them to book me because they find me intriguing & attractive
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But they're not competition.
Competition is when five different shops all sell the same tin of beans; the beans are identical, so each shop has to give shoppers a good reason to buy them there. Human beings are not beans :)
Yes I’m well aware did you read what I said?
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Yes I’m well aware did you read what I said?
I did yes, hence my answer..Did you remember that you're on a final warning?
I suggest you watch your tone.
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It really isn’t about pleasing every Tom, Dick and Harry. If you write your profile in a way that is genuine and you advertise what you genuinely enjoy offering you will attract the right clients and in doing so you do what you say on the tin and they are happy.
I've always found it works best to understate slightly in an ad/profile, but still be confident and mention the services you prefer to do. Don't build expectations too much. Then the clients will generally have a better experience than perhaps they were expecting. I have gained a lot of regulars that way - which is much my preferred type of client. Newbies can be hit and miss (those on their first visit but have previous experience), but I've also had inexperienced clients who didn't really know what to expect and have turned out well. One of those has been returning must be over fifteen years even though I've moved in the meantime.
I strongly discourage reviews, and these days avoid sites that have them. They cause nothing but trouble.
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I strongly discourage reviews, and these days avoid sites that have them. They cause nothing but trouble.
Why??
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Why??
Because reviews build expectations, and throw in the fact that some reviewers are liars and claim all sorts of things that never happened, that becomes difficult to manage. Another thing is that people can pick up little details about you and piece them together, and it's always obsessives that do that.