It's hard the judge the actual situation from on here. But if it had been me I don't think I would have said anything to the wife about what I was doing in there. My policy is always to say nothing when challenged. I have not been in that exact situation, but I have had calls from wives and partners.

Gotta agree with Cat.  No sense adding to the mix. 

I've got a client who keeps asking me over "when the kids are sleeping". I've just told him sorry, I'm too noisy.
I couldn't stand that. I've told him if he wants to see me it needs to be in a hotel now, I don't like the idea of going to his house. He has just been a TW so far.

This is horrible. I've seen people posting elsewhere about clients paying for discretion, so you should never tell the wife if she calls up, just hang up, but I think it must be much harder if you see them in person... I wouldn't know what to do or say. Just be like "I'm sorry, I'm running late, gotta go!" I guess... Tricky to do, though without her becoming more suspicious :S tbh I think you did the right thing. He doesn't sound great...

If I faced same situation I would've probably lie to wife.. Just white lie, somethings are best not known.

I don't know, I might panic and can't come up with lie, but I'll try to..

It's just one shag, one off meaningless sex shouldn't bring any trouble to family.

Are you being serious? How would you feel if your husband had gone behind your back like that to pay for sex? And with their innocent children locked in the next room?!

Some I'm sure would find it absolutely heartbreaking.

This is horrible. I've seen people posting elsewhere about clients paying for discretion, so you should never tell the wife if she calls up, just hang up, but I think it must be much harder if you see them in person... I wouldn't know what to do or say. Just be like "I'm sorry, I'm running late, gotta go!" I guess...

My feelings exactly.

It's up to him to sort it out and explain, not for anyone who has been paid by him to drop him in it. Not only that, but the wife will have suffered terribly from being presented that information in such circumstances. It appears this man has been a bad person in all respects, but it's not for us to make that judgement in these circumstances, and lets face it, by going on such bookings only encourages such behaviour. Personally I would not have stayed, and I would have given the locked up children as the reason.

Quote from: rinaxeee on 31 July 2014, 11:38:18 pm

If I faced same situation I would've probably lie to wife.. Just white lie, somethings are best not known.

I don't know, I might panic and can't come up with lie, but I'll try to..

It's just one shag, one off meaningless sex shouldn't bring any trouble to family.

Are you being serious? How would you feel if your husband had gone behind your back like that to pay for sex? And with their innocent children locked in the next room?!

Some I'm sure would find it absolutely heartbreaking.

Yes of course it's heartbreaking. But do I rather want a family break apart? No.

If this comes from housewife's point of view then I might understand you. But we are escorts, we know most of bookings are just a sex and has no meanings what so ever.

I personally think that believing your husband would not EVER go behind your back and shag someone else is very naive thinking. And if guys do shag someone else, then escort is best way because it's solely business. I'll be much more mad if he made some actual relationship with someone else.

Quote from: MissKylie on 31 July 2014, 11:51:50 pm

Quote from: rinaxeee on 31 July 2014, 11:38:18 pm

If I faced same situation I would've probably lie to wife.. Just white lie, somethings are best not known.

I don't know, I might panic and can't come up with lie, but I'll try to..

It's just one shag, one off meaningless sex shouldn't bring any trouble to family.

Are you being serious? How would you feel if your husband had gone behind your back like that to pay for sex? And with their innocent children locked in the next room?!

Some I'm sure would find it absolutely heartbreaking.

Yes of course it's heartbreaking. But do I rather want a family break apart? No.

If this comes from housewife's point of view then I might understand you. But we are escorts, we know most of bookings are just a sex and has no meanings what so ever.

I personally think that believing your husband would not EVER go behind your back and shag someone else is very naive thinking. And if guys do shag someone else, then escort is best way because it's solely business. I'll be much more mad if he made some actual relationship with someone else.

I think my post has been confused. It was this comment "It's just one shag, one off meaningless sex shouldn't bring any trouble to family."

I'm more than happy to shag married men as part of the job, and no I'm definitely NOT a house wife lol! However, to say it shouldn't cause any upset to the family is simply not true, as these thing do break families apart.

Totally agree with sourgrapes regarding social services. I'd definitely think long and hard before inflicting social-sandpaper onto the lives of others unless i was completely sure they were being abused. Forced adoption still happens all over the UK and like said above i think many of the children who have not been physically harmed or abused would prefer to remain with their families, however dysfunctional, than grow up in an unsatisfactory care system. I'm not condoning him shutting the kids in a room, definitely not, because i'm in agreement that it's neglectful and on that basis i would have informed the wife about it and expect her to address it as their mother.

For all we know, and the likelihood is that the mother had no idea the kids were being locked in rooms alone just like she had no idea about him paying prostitutes. My guess is she would've been enraged at the idea of the children being locked up to accommodate her husband getting a shag. I'm a mother to a toddler myself and i certainly wouldn't have condoned it. That being said, if i was in her position and it occurred behind my back with me knowing nothing about it then somebody reported it to social services without coming to me first it'd be an injustice to lose my children as a result - especially if i would have stopped it ever happening again if i found out about it and kicked the dick head out of the house x