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Britishblonde

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TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« on: 20 December 2017, 12:13:22 pm »
Hey,

I've had my AW profile up about 3 weeks, but only started working in this last week. I've had a very polite client who send me texts, emails and AW messages almost every other day commenting on pics and how he wants to see me at my next in call. I tell him my availability and today is the third time he's now 'too busy and has other commitments'. But he then messages me asking how it my working days are going etc. It feels a bit odd. On days he does message, it's maybe about 3-4 texts, then if I don't reply to a question, he sends it to my AW...

He has good feedback in the 20s and is really polite, but wondering if he's a TW and if I should just start ignoring him?

x


Kendall

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Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #1 on: 20 December 2017, 12:26:45 pm »
Sounds an idiot, aw feedback means fuck all. Tell him to get in touch when he wants to book and if he continues sending stupid messages just block him. When you're new you attract these attention seekers who like to play the nice guy

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Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #2 on: 20 December 2017, 12:30:18 pm »
I agree with Kdub. Press him to make a booking and if he keeps messing about ignore him. Also if he does make a booking and then cancels or doesn't show up.

Britishblonde

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Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #3 on: 20 December 2017, 12:33:30 pm »
I agree with Kdub. Press him to make a booking and if he keeps messing about ignore him. Also if he does make a booking and then cancels or doesn't show up.

Sounds an idiot, aw feedback means fuck all. Tell him to get in touch when he wants to book and if he continues sending stupid messages just block him. When you're new you attract these attention seekers who like to play the nice guy

Thanks both - just wasn't sure if it was just me - glad to know it's not! Ok, unless he makes an official booking, he'll be getting the cold shoulder. I bet he'd soon stop if I was offering the text service!  :FF

Thanks x

sweetmilf

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Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #4 on: 20 December 2017, 10:57:52 pm »
Sounds an idiot, aw feedback means fuck all. Tell him to get in touch when he wants to book and if he continues sending stupid messages just block him. When you're new you attract these attention seekers who like to play the nice guy
1+.  Playing a nice guy= they even tell you that's what they are.  Usually, they are the neediest, most demanding, boundary pushing types, who want it for free.

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Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #5 on: 21 December 2017, 12:04:35 am »
I agree with the above that he is doing this because you are new. They have tried it with me too and even sending me nonsense messages on AW like "good morning x" lol. I am however a very blunt and straight to the point person and just reply with something like "thank you for the message, please get in touch when you are ready to make a booking" and then I will just never reply anymore to nonsense and even after this he would get only one try to show up to his booking and if he fails I'll label him TW.

You also said he previously cancelled so just tell him when he contacts u again that because you've blocked time for him previously and he didn't show up you'll require a small deposit now to confirm an other appointment (which he will do or not) but either way you don't lose anything.

Emma_C

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Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #6 on: 21 December 2017, 08:50:54 am »
I get loads like that on AW. They just get off on the thrill of the chase & they think we've got nowt better to do than pander to their needy pitiful BS.

Automated email response helps with those.

little-minx

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Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #7 on: 21 December 2017, 09:56:26 am »
I learnt this the hard way when I first started as I was thrown in at the deep end as an independent.  I look back on the amount of time I wasted with these types and cringe!  I still have a handful now that I've seen once, twice, maybe even more times.  But if I had my early days again wouldn't have seen in the first place as they're so needy and expect you to respond to messages EVERY day, or emails or whatever else it is they want to fart about with.  I honestly don't mind the odd message from good regulars, or even the odd bit of banter.  As long as they know where the line is (and actually book and turn up regularly and reliably, not just messages!).  This guy clearly doesn't!  Good luck with your new venture xx

Britishblonde

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Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #8 on: 21 December 2017, 10:22:52 am »
Thanks all!

Well I had an in call night last night - and guess who texts asking if I'm having a good night, hope it's going well etc  ::) I didn't reply and got another message (this time on AW) saying he wants to see me as late as possible on my next in call in a few days as he prefers to be the last client (like wtf is this a thing?!) and that made me feel a bit uneasy tbh... But maybe I've now just got a constant negative perception of him in my head.

BUT I had two absolutely lovely clients last night, so it's swings and roundabouts eh?!

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clairebear86

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Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #9 on: 21 December 2017, 11:56:26 am »
These dick heads are few and far between. Alot of clients are nice. This guy is a pest. Tell him to stop clogging up your work line with none booking related txts...."hows your day been?" Lol whats it got to do with him. Saddo

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Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #10 on: 21 December 2017, 01:51:42 pm »
I would take asking to be the last client as a red flag in itself.I'd just block him on your phone and on AW.He is never going to book and I think he would be a nightmare even if he did.

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Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #11 on: 21 December 2017, 04:08:19 pm »
I agree with the above wanting to be the last client to me could be a number of red flags

1) Is he wanting to rob you after a busy day
2) Is he going to push for extra time
3) Is he expecting it to be like a "date" after all the messaging he has done

I have had this and they are very needy and are really not worth the time and effort I would just always be fully booked if contacted on aw and ignore if via text

Britishblonde

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Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #12 on: 21 December 2017, 10:52:52 pm »
Another three (all ignored) messages today - asking stupid things about my availability tomorrow (which is clearly outlined in bold at the top of my profile, asking what pics are in my gallery before he buys and asking what CIM is  :FF :FF.

Just went back through some messages and indeed he's messaged me pretty much every day in the last 3.5 weeks.

I think it's blocking time!

little-minx

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Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #13 on: 21 December 2017, 10:53:30 pm »

Britishblonde

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Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #14 on: 21 December 2017, 10:55:17 pm »
I agree with the above wanting to be the last client to me could be a number of red flags

1) Is he wanting to rob you after a busy day
2) Is he going to push for extra time
3) Is he expecting it to be like a "date" after all the messaging he has done

I have had this and they are very needy and are really not worth the time and effort I would just always be fully booked if contacted on aw and ignore if via text

Thanks for this - really appreciate it. This was my thoughts exactly. I will most definitely NOT be seeing him. Could easily see this turning into a nasty stalker situation as haven't even met and he's harassing me!