See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

Author Topic: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!  (Read 2373 times)

ana30

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 3,749
Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #15 on: 21 December 2017, 11:11:44 pm »
I would take asking to be the last client as a red flag in itself.I'd just block him on your phone and on AW.He is never going to book and I think he would be a nightmare even if he did.

The above. Bit by bit. Be careful with this guy (if he ever decides to book an appointment. Stalkish obessive behaviour. lives in his own little la la land. Alarm bells ringing.
« Last Edit: 21 December 2017, 11:18:15 pm by Ana30 »
"Sex work is real work, being a landlord isn't" - Graffitti seen on a wall.

Britishblonde

  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 86
Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #16 on: 21 December 2017, 11:16:06 pm »
The above. Bit by bit. Be careful with this guy (if he ever decides to book an appointment. Alarm bells ringing.  >:(

He's not worth the hassle, always other clients! Blocked on AW and phone - can they tell if they've been blocked?  ???

Kendall

  • Guest
Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #17 on: 22 December 2017, 08:30:08 am »
It won't tell them they're blocked, but if they go to their outbox any messages sent will just have 'unread deleted' next to them. Make sure you ever blocked him being able to place booking requests too so he can't leave blind bookings and give you stupid feedback.

Britishblonde

  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 86
Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #18 on: 22 December 2017, 05:32:26 pm »
It won't tell them they're blocked, but if they go to their outbox any messages sent will just have 'unread deleted' next to them. Make sure you ever blocked him being able to place booking requests too so he can't leave blind bookings and give you stupid feedback.

Thanks! How do I do this?

Had another 5 messages just over UKE messenger since I last posted - not active on there, but have an account (he said he'd also text and tried to ring - obviously not got it as I'd blocked his number).

The guy is active on punting sites by looks of it and I'm really starting to worry about him slagging me off online - even though we've never met in person!

Just so glad his time wasting ways meant we didn't meet, and because of the way he's going on, never will!

x

ana30

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 3,749
Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #19 on: 22 December 2017, 06:00:43 pm »
Thanks! How do I do this?
The guy is active on punting sites by looks of it and I'm really starting to worry about him slagging me off online - even though we've never met in person!

Ooohh... then definately stay away from him (unless you want to be all over the internet).
"Sex work is real work, being a landlord isn't" - Graffitti seen on a wall.

Britishblonde

  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 86
Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #20 on: 22 December 2017, 06:25:50 pm »
Ooohh... then definately stay away from him (unless you want to be all over the internet).

Oh I plan to! Hopefully when he realises that I'm not going to reply, he'll lose interest. Have a horrible feeling he targets newbies. If he continues to message/turns threatening, should I put out a warning on here?

MsLadyV87

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 405
Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #21 on: 22 December 2017, 07:26:56 pm »
wow, after reading everything building up, you completely did the right thing to block and ignore. Hope he leaves you alone! xx
"Got me spread like a buffet, melt in your mouth kind of lovin' Bon a, bon app?tit, baby" - Katy Perry

Kendall

  • Guest
Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #22 on: 22 December 2017, 07:58:04 pm »
If you haven't already block sender is just under he might message and you can click to block messages and messages! Hopefully he will leave you alone he sounds a nightmare!

KittenCandy

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 742
Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #23 on: 22 December 2017, 09:33:42 pm »
Aw feedback deffo means fuck all. When I created a new aw profile I had someone email me with over 100 positive escort feedback claiming to be visiting London on a specific day for business and wanted a booking. Then asked if I ever escorted before ( supposedly to decide wether he will be able to waste my time or not) as profile age said I was 23. Any ways, ending up creating a new profile  cuz i lost the other one and got same line again about visiting London on buisness trip. (He thought I was a different person) This time he didn't asked if I escorted before as profile said I was 18 lol. So guess he assumed I hadn't. Yeah right ;D needless to say, I picked up his TW tactics from a mile away and just ended up ignoring him. Turns out, he actually makes bookings with new escorts on AW and exchanges feedback, supposedly in exchange for free phone chat or more as he wanted my whatsapp number. (Red flag)When I did go through his feedback, nearly all of them were from profiles registered in 2017. Funny though, he actually put a booking request through (which I did not accept) and left some random feedback on my profile, saying I'm sexy.  ::) then few days later got email from him saying, sorry I missed you but I am back in (country) now. I still didn't even respond. So yeah, them having feedback doesn't mean they are genuine, though a newbie might think otherwise. Your guy deffo just wants free chat or worse to rob you.  so best to ignore.
« Last Edit: 22 December 2017, 09:39:57 pm by KittenCandy »

KittenCandy

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 742
Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #24 on: 22 December 2017, 09:35:15 pm »
It won't tell them they're blocked, but if they go to their outbox any messages sent will just have 'unread deleted' next to them. Make sure you ever blocked him being able to place booking requests too so he can't leave blind bookings and give you stupid feedback.

I never block them. They eventually get a little brain and will figure out you blocked them and create new profile or change number to book you. I just ignore.

QueenB

  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 59
Re: TW or maybe just a nervous client?!
« Reply #25 on: 26 December 2017, 11:56:02 am »
Hey,

I've had my AW profile up about 3 weeks, but only started working in this last week. I've had a very polite client who send me texts, emails and AW messages almost every other day commenting on pics and how he wants to see me at my next in call. I tell him my availability and today is the third time he's now 'too busy and has other commitments'. But he then messages me asking how it my working days are going etc. It feels a bit odd. On days he does message, it's maybe about 3-4 texts, then if I don't reply to a question, he sends it to my AW...

He has good feedback in the 20s and is really polite, but wondering if he's a TW and if I should just start ignoring him?

x

Sounds like a messer! Engaging in conversation only spur them on more, yes he may have feedback from girls that put up with his shite. But i bet the ones that haven't outnumber them in the hundreds.  You can see on his profile how many emails/bookings he has sent out since he joined. I would block him on AW before he pops a random booking in. You will get to know the genuine ones from the messers. I have so many blocked/ignore/timewasters on my phone