Oh good grief, don't say you don't want to see them, that can turn into a nightmare. Fully booked, is good, and save number in phone so you don't answer them again.

Oh good grief, don't say you don't want to see them, that can turn into a nightmare. Fully booked, is good, and save number in phone so you don't answer them again.

I do this too.

In a previous life I was given extensive call training during which, we were often told it's extremely difficult to figure out what a person is like over the phone.

Since becoming an Escort I've come to realise this is so very true. Far too often I've thought someone young/old/rough/smart is going to be turning up at the door, when the exact opposite has been true. As a result I don't make any judgements until I meet someone in person. Even then appearances can be deceptive.

Attitudes can also differ in person. However anyone who texts/phones asking for excessive details or looking like they are a potential "I want to take over your life babe", is going to get short shrift. I do let them know why in a few cases they have changed their approach, but the majority just clear off.

Which is fair enough.

I have to backtrack and go, "Oh, WEDnesday? I thought you said THURnesday. Ahem.

Ha! I am terrible for this if they don't sound like someone I want to meet on the phone!

I have had people not want to meet me after talking to me on the phone saying I sounded too "professional" (as opposed to a pushover presumably?!) so I see it as fair enough if the phone convo means that you don't want to meet someone. Just would never tell someone why (sometimes it is difficult to even put your finger on why come to think of it.)

I say I am fully booked and I do feel bad for making pre judgements but if I dont like the way someone sounds I wont see them. And I will store their number in my phone as whatever I feel is appropriate.

Generally we turn down anyone rude or who sounds intoxicated.  Also any hagglers and anyone who refers to girls as this one or that one and sounds like they are talking down to women in general.

Maybe we are too fussy but we value the girls safety above making money.

Ladies, I don't think you are being fussy, at the end of the day it is about being safe, and making a decent living, I don't think you should put yourself at risk for a few quid. If he sounds weird, or like a chav, then chances are your feeling that for a reason. Go with it. Why take the chance it is a TW or worse yet, someone out to cause harm?