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ana30

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Re: Turning down a client who looks homeless
« Reply #15 on: 25 November 2021, 12:06:39 pm »
Quote from: Natalya on 25 November 2021, 11:57:33 am
No you can’t dispute the review on the website I’m talking about that’s why, I’m not talking about AW, I’m talking about [a punting forum]

I've never looked on those "forums" ever, I don't know if I'm there or not and I can't care less to be honest because I've never read them. My business has always thrived and the only thing that affecting it has been covid, holidays and the weather. On the other hand being reviewed badly on those places would be a plus because it would put off those forum types from seeing me which is a win-win situation. My clients come from other sources and that's the way I want it.
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Re: Turning down a client who looks homeless
« Reply #16 on: 25 November 2021, 12:09:48 pm »
Natayla you cannot control if someone decides to write something bad or untrue because you refused something or kicked them out. I heard i had a nice accurate positive review then at a later date i was told i had something written that was lies and massive exaggeration because i told them about there hygiene and manners. I never bothered looking for it and i know who it was but if people want to write lies as revenge then whatever. Think it done me a favour probably. Never noticed a decline and i don't care.

Do your best with the guys that deserve a good service but any that are rude or smelly or ripping condoms off etc don't be afraid to stand your ground.
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Miffy

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Re: Turning down a client who looks homeless
« Reply #17 on: 25 November 2021, 12:11:23 pm »
Quote from: ana30 on 25 November 2021, 12:06:39 pm
On the other hand being reviewed badly on those places would be a plus because it would put off those forum types from seeing me which is a win-win situation. My clients come from other sources and that's the way I want it.

I quite agree with this.
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Re: Turning down a client who looks homeless
« Reply #18 on: 25 November 2021, 01:50:43 pm »
Please stay on topic. Other forums are not the topic here or anywhere on SAAFE.
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sjones1

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Re: Turning down a client who looks homeless
« Reply #19 on: 26 November 2021, 11:39:32 am »
There is absolutely no excuse for being smelly. None. People should know when they stink - it's not hard. Imagine if you turned up even a slightly bit smelly to a booking.
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Kay

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Re: Turning down a client who looks homeless
« Reply #20 on: 26 November 2021, 12:30:13 pm »
The point for me is that to maintain any sort of length of career in sex work, you need to work in a way that works for you. We all have very different modus operandi. Some screen heavily, some lightly. Some do full-on PSE, some are very vanilla. But if you try and accommodate everyone else's criticisms or expectations you'll just put an inordinate amount of pressure on yourself and burn out fast.

Some of my screening tactics are regularly attacked, and have been since I started in 2014. I honestly give zero fucks and never have. My body, my choice.
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Re: Turning down a client who looks homeless
« Reply #21 on: 26 November 2021, 12:48:42 pm »
Quote from: Kay on 26 November 2021, 12:30:13 pm
The point for me is that to maintain any sort of length of career in sex work, you need to work in a way that works for you. We all have very different modus operandi. Some screen heavily, some lightly. Some do full-on PSE, some are very vanilla. But if you try and accommodate everyone else's criticisms or expectations you'll just put an inordinate amount of pressure on yourself and burn out fast.

Some of my screening tactics are regularly attacked, and have been since I started in 2014. I honestly give zero fucks and never have. My body, my choice.

I second that. Perfectly said, Kay.
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