Author Topic: Turned off by strap ons [was: I'll probably get shot down in flames here!] (Read 4276 times)

Pink~Princess · « **on:** 22 August 2013, 08:54:30 pm »

No doubt this will offend someone, its not meant to. I am just curious. So I once had the conversation about me being turned off in real life (not escorting) if a partner of mine liked having is bum played with weather that's a finger or whatever and despite the fact that I know its a common thing in guys and that they have a G-Spot up there I still feel the same and I doubt my mind will ever change over it BUT stranger things have happened.

So the reason why I start this thread is cause I get so many requests from guys (as an escort) wanting me to use a strap-on on them despite the fact I don't advertise it. Thing is I am very girly and like to think of men as the ones who do all the fucking. I just cannot imagine myself bending a guy over and fucking them with a rubber cock

Is it just me who is massively turned off by this? It seems to be a very common thing I get asked for yet thankfully I have never met anyone in my personal life who is into this (thank god)

Also I have issues, major issues with the mess it can make

xx

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Lou · « **Reply #1 on:** 22 August 2013, 09:03:19 pm »

I've only used a strap on once and I wouldn't race to do it again, I could hardly walk for 3 days as the muscles in my legs were complaining so much! I would say to anyone asking its a service I don't give

Ruby tropics · « **Reply #2 on:** 22 August 2013, 09:27:08 pm »

I'm exactly the same,couldn't imagine using a strap on on a man and also the thought of the mess!i really couldn't stomach a fella squirming all over a rubber cock but in a way I wish I could as it would earn you more money but it's not for me x

Jan10 · « **Reply #3 on:** 22 August 2013, 09:31:06 pm »

I tried it with a client I had been seeing for a while. He begged me to do it and he'd be very clean if I did it for him. I should have listened to the doubts I had. I used loads of lube and the strap on I had on were black shorts thank bloomin' god. A few thrust and we could have made 10lbs of sausages if we had the pig skin to catch his poop in. He said 'oh I'm sorry I obviously haven't douche well.' I just had this flashing image in my head of me beating him to a pulp with the thick cock. I was livid. Luckily I had put the plastic sheeting on the bed even though the idiot had said you really won't be needing that I have washed specially for this.

My shorts looked like I had been bommy diving like a pig in sh*t all day. The cock came off the shorts too.

The smell was disgusting I really didn't hold back on what I thought of him. Turned off is an understatement.

Pink~Princess · « **Reply #4 on:** 22 August 2013, 09:44:24 pm »

Wow Jan as I was reading that I had my hand over my mouth in shock lol. This is exactly what I am scared of.

I am turned off by using a cock on a man when really he's the one who should be fucking me but I am scarred of someone making a mess.

I don't know whats worse being turned off or being scarred or both? Both I say

As you say Ruby we could make so much more money if we offered it but it just not for me either.

xx

lailah terri · « **Reply #5 on:** 22 August 2013, 10:20:09 pm »

Well I had a response until i read Jans post...

Flippin hell

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #6 on:** 22 August 2013, 10:31:32 pm »

I don't mind using the strap on and am not squeamish. I have seen plenty of mess in my days escorting as give them toy anal play with vibes.

sweet jane · « **Reply #7 on:** 22 August 2013, 10:49:07 pm »

Quote from: Jan10 on 22 August 2013, 09:31:06 pm

I tried it with a client I had been seeing for a while. He begged me to do it and he'd be very clean if I did it for him. I should have listened to the doubts I had. I used loads of lube and the strap on I had on were black shorts thank bloomin' god. A few thrust and we could have made 10lbs of sausages if we had the pig skin to catch his poop in. He said 'oh I'm sorry I obviously haven't douche well.' I just had this flashing image in my head of me beating him to a pulp with the thick cock. I was livid. Luckily I had put the plastic sheeting on the bed even though the idiot had said you really won't be needing that I have washed specially for this.

My shorts looked like I had been bommy diving like a pig in sh*t all day. The cock came off the shorts too. The smell was disgusting I really didn't hold back on what I thought of him. Turned off is an understatement.

Jan do you think there is any chance he did this deliberately? Or was inexperienced at douching and didn't 'let it all go' before having sex? I've fucked A LOT of people up the arse and it's not usual to see loads of shit as part of the process it certainly doesn't have to be messy.

Pink~Princess · « **Reply #8 on:** 22 August 2013, 10:53:53 pm »

I am squeamish espeicially with the thought of being covered in poo or even just smelling it, YUCK! Besides that though I def wouldn't be happy if I had a bf who wanted me to do that to him, it would put me off him x

sweet jane · « **Reply #9 on:** 22 August 2013, 11:00:27 pm »

^^^
Heh! One of the best bits of advice I ever heard about this was the idea of becoming 'shit neutral' - as in stopping to care about a little bit of body waste cropping up every now and again, 'shit happens' as the saying goes.

And Pink Princess - that's just your preference if it puts you off a guy - a lot of my business is guys who want to break away from 'what's acceptable' or explore other roles....hooray for them!!

Pink~Princess · « **Reply #10 on:** 22 August 2013, 11:03:19 pm »

Yeah that is my preference, we've all got different opinions, that's what the thread/forums all about x

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #11 on:** 22 August 2013, 11:08:26 pm »

Quote from: sweet jane on 22 August 2013, 11:00:27 pm

^^^
Heh! One of the best bits of advice I ever heard about this was the idea of becoming 'shit neutral' - as in stopping to care about a little bit of body waste cropping up every now and again, 'shit happens' as the saying goes.

And Pink Princess - that's just your preference if it puts you off a guy - a lot of my business is guys who want to break away from 'what's acceptable' or explore other roles....hooray for them!!

I would say that the business is in the true kinkiness.

CaraMxx · « **Reply #12 on:** 23 August 2013, 01:50:43 am »

I've done it a few times. Can't say I have really got the hang of it yet. I wasn't born to thrust!

It hasn't ever been overly messy. I did a duo with a girl and she did him with a strapon whilst I was playing with his balls. Looked at her leg and there was a small lump of poo on it. Ewwww. Moved my head far far away from that area.

In my personal life. I wouldn't fuck a partner with a strapon. They can do that in their spare time!

Dexi Delite · « **Reply #13 on:** 23 August 2013, 06:28:42 am »

I love using strap on's. It gives me a sence of empowerment when I'm fucking someone with it. It's not often there's mess, but it doesn't really bother me if there is some.

Jan10 · « **Reply #14 on:** 23 August 2013, 08:45:45 am »

Quote from: sweet jane on 22 August 2013, 10:49:07 pm

Quote from: Jan10 on 22 August 2013, 09:31:06 pm
I tried it with a client I had been seeing for a while. He begged me to do it and he'd be very clean if I did it for him. I should have listened to the doubts I had. I used loads of lube and the strap on I had on were black shorts thank bloomin' god. A few thrust and we could have made 10lbs of sausages if we had the pig skin to catch his poop in. He said 'oh I'm sorry I obviously haven't douche well.' I just had this flashing image in my head of me beating him to a pulp with the thick cock. I was livid. Luckily I had put the plastic sheeting on the bed even though the idiot had said you really won't be needing that I have washed specially for this.

My shorts looked like I had been bommy diving like a pig in sh*t all day. The cock came off the shorts too. The smell was disgusting I really didn't hold back on what I thought of him. Turned off is an understatement.

Jan do you think there is any chance he did this deliberately? Or was inexperienced at douching and didn't 'let it all go' before having sex? I've fucked A LOT of people up the arse and it's not usual to see loads of shit as part of the process it certainly doesn't have to be messy.

He is someone that is into hardsports so I think because I don't offer it he tried getting it another way. It says clearly on my profile which he said he read that I don't offer it. I have offered anal fingering and have asked that the client douches thoroughly before coming to me. I don't want to deal with a grown mans sh*t it's that simple that is not one of my likes. I made him pay extra beforehand just to act as a deterrent as I always charge extra incase they try to over step boundaries.

I have had maybe two clients that seemed to lose control and poop a little when receiving anal fingering which I suppose is a risk you have to take offering that service I have no problem with that, it is when they appear to be delibrately pushing it out and loads of it that I have a problem. If he had douche I don't believe there would have been so much, packed and hard as there was in his case it would have been less and softer. Maybe he was inexperienced at douching as some men are, but it was extremely messy and hard to clean up.

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