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fromCanada

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Turned down 2x in 1 day...
« on: 09 March 2008, 01:54:06 pm »
Wow, what are the odds of that?
I'm 28/f, very new to this. Started a few weeks ago, with overall success, i.e. happy customers.
I guess I'm a "bbw," although not totally. Anyway, I don't have body pics right now, but do show a face shot to those that respond to my ad via email.
Anywho, today, wow, first time turned down, the guy handed me the cash up front with an extra tip, kinda walked around the kitchen to grab a drink of pop, then said "how about you take the cash and go?" I was suprised, then said sure, lol. He emailed me later, saying I had an uncanny resemblance to his ex.
The second guy, we were getting undressed, then he said "you know what, you weren't what I was expecting." And gave me 1/3 of the cash for my time.
I'm happy I did make money for my time, and so far all the guys I've met have been nice and respectful, so I feel double lucky for that.

But it shoots down ur ego, for sure. I just gotta go with the flow, and know these things are gonna happen. Anyone else have this happen? I feel like a hippo now, lol.
« Last Edit: 09 March 2008, 02:05:12 pm by fromCanada »

SJ

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Re: Turned down 2x in 1 day...
« Reply #1 on: 09 March 2008, 03:26:39 pm »
Yes that would be an ego blow for anyone. (hugs)

I think you need body shots or at least some text giving your size. There is a huge market for BBWs (I should know) or even mini BBWs so dont be afraid to show off your curves.

I know a lot of bigger girls tend to concentrate on their boobs in photos and dont mention their size but I prefer to show my whole body shape and size so men can then make an informed choice so there are no nasty surprisies for them.

I have never had anyone walk away in the 8 years I have been doing this and I believe that is mainly down to the fact that I am very open in photos and text about what the guy is getting.

Be proud of your curves and who you are. :)
xx

fromCanada

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Re: Turned down 2x in 1 day...
« Reply #2 on: 09 March 2008, 03:43:59 pm »
Hi, thanks for the hugs, and input.
I'll defintely state my stats outright with the pic. from now on.
Although the first guy did get my stats, but couldn't view my pic.
But the second guy saw my pic, but I guess didn't have the stats.

So yes I agree, I may have failed the second one, by not ensuring he had the info. needed. I've always wanted to be honest, and not have any surprises, so I'll keep it in mind for future meetings.

Lucymay

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Re: Turned down 2x in 1 day...
« Reply #3 on: 09 March 2008, 05:25:23 pm »
Hello there - I wouldn't worry about it different men like different things.  I am a boob size AA-A so extreamly small and a dress size 12 so not in proportion but still get plenty of business.  You could do with some body shots and a good photographer will do wonders as they know what poses look good and hide the cellulite!