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Mirian

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Re: Trouble getting prep prescribed in Ireland.
« Reply #15 on: 15 March 2025, 08:54:33 am »
I've worked as a manager in transport companies for a long time. I'll tell you, truck drivers will literally stick their dicks in any orifice they can find (some more than others). Of all the professions out there, they're the ones I'd least trust when it comes to sexual health because they literally don't care about fucking anything. They would fuck a broom with a wig if they could.

I'd really rather advertise again and ask for deposits from new clients to ensure they're serious. Because at the end of the day, you'll be the one suffering the consequences of that heavy medication, sexually transmitted infections, and probably problems with your partner over a handful of pounds.

By the way, the more infections you have and the more antibiotics you have to take to treat them, the less effective those antibiotics will be against infections of any kind in the future. This can literally damage your health and increase the chance of dying from an infection that's resistant to all the antibiotics you'll have to take.

If you're aware of all this and still want to go ahead, it's your body and it's your choice.
I'm just another mosquito on this windshield that we call '' life ''

amy

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« Reply #16 on: 15 March 2025, 09:47:28 am »
Folks, the OP has resolutely ignored every poster who's pointed out that she'll likely spend many weeks of the year either on antibiotics or with the clap (or worse) presumably because she plans to keep working regardless, although who knows. All the rest of us can do is protect ourselves whichever way suits us.

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« Reply #17 on: 15 March 2025, 12:13:25 pm »
I don’t have anyone really that I can talk to about this other than my husband, and obviously there are certain things I can’t really talk to him about.


Can I just ask if I'm reading this wrong

Are you saying that although your husband knows what you do he doesn't know you plan to go on prep and do Bareback bookings?

Lexilou

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« Reply #18 on: 15 March 2025, 05:15:55 pm »
Can I just ask if I'm reading this wrong

Are you saying that although your husband knows what you do he doesn't know you plan to go on prep and do Bareback bookings?

No he does know. We’ve discussed it at length.
What I meant was other aspects of the job. There are things I obviously am not going to have a discussion about with my husband.

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« Reply #19 on: 15 March 2025, 05:19:39 pm »
Folks, the OP has resolutely ignored every poster who's pointed out that she'll likely spend many weeks of the year either on antibiotics or with the clap (or worse) presumably because she plans to keep working regardless, although who knows. All the rest of us can do is protect ourselves whichever way suits us.

Ah I see, if someone’s life or the way they live it doesn’t suit you, it gives you the right to be condescending. Must remember that one, thanks Amy. Also you’ll see I never asked for advice on whether to offer bb or not. My question was purely about prep. But good to see your reading and retention skills are as sharp as your foresight and fortune telling.

Thank you everyone else that commented in a non condescending manner.

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« Reply #20 on: 15 March 2025, 09:35:11 pm »
It is not 'condescending' to post that you have not addressed the points made by several other posters that you won't earn the extra money you give as your reason if you constantly catch other STIs. We suggest you do not make further comments attempting to insult other posters whether they are admins or not.

amy

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Re: Trouble getting prep prescribed in Ireland.
« Reply #21 on: 15 March 2025, 10:48:06 pm »
Yes, I obviously know nothing - I've been in business for almost twenty five years and earn a good living without putting my health or that of others at any significant risk, and without compromising my safety and comfort any more than is unavoidable. I see now that I'd have been better off spending that time shagging truckers in some layby 🤣

I've been on SAAFE for seventeen of those years, and if you read my post again you'll see I was moving the thread along so somebody who did have the sort of information you were after could hopefully get a word in, since you weren't interested in any other responses beyond what you wanted to hear. Unfortunately that isn't how discussion works; people are trying to be helpful.

My supposed lack of reading and comprehension skills don't seem to have done me any harm, all things considered. As for yours, if you're going to try to be condescending, it helps an awful lot to be in a position from which to condescend.

Now we're getting back on topic. If anybody has information about getting PrEP in Ireland, and ONLY about getting PrEP in Ireland, your moment has arrived. Any other posts will be removed, as per the OP's wishes.

Lexilou

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« Reply #22 on: 25 March 2025, 03:46:25 pm »
Just to update anyone interested. I’ve started offering it this week. Had my first bb client this morning and one booked for late tonight. Not all clients are interested in it. Some are happy with the same protected service.
I’ve arranged to have my screening done fortnightly from now on, and just to put Amy’s mind at rest, no I don’t intend on working through if I catch something. And I will be sure to keep anyone interested updated if I catch anything.
If I’m honest for some reason I quite enjoyed the booking this morning, something about it being wrong I guess, but I did actually really enjoy it.

I appreciate the heavy handed advice, but as I said I am not going into this blind or naive. I’m fully aware of all possibilities.
During the week I was looking through AW uk and there’s a lot of uk girls offering it too, British girls too, so I can only guess that there are girls on here offering it but to afraid to admit it for fear of the backlash.
Anyways I’ll keep you updated

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« Reply #23 on: 26 March 2025, 08:05:21 am »
Did you manage to get your Prep in Ireland ?
Do you get tested for all of more than a dozen infections and bacteria like HPV, mycoplasma, etc ?
Do you realise that HIV can take 6 months to show in the test? So you WILL continue to work if infected.
I once had a client who stopped seeing his regular because she was going to start offering bareback penetration. Careful guys stopped seeing her.
Admins, please don't remove my post. This thread has a chance to turn into bareback propaganda. Something like: "I have barebacked a hundred guys, made a million pounds and still got no infection"(because only tested for 3 or 4 main infections every 2 weeks)
And it affects all of us because the girls like her, they spread all they get.
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Re: Trouble getting prep prescribed in Ireland.
« Reply #24 on: 26 March 2025, 08:55:43 am »
Just to update anyone interested. I’ve started offering it this week. Had my first bb client this morning and one booked for late tonight. Not all clients are interested in it. Some are happy with the same protected service.
I’ve arranged to have my screening done fortnightly from now on, and just to put Amy’s mind at rest, no I don’t intend on working through if I catch something. And I will be sure to keep anyone interested updated if I catch anything.
If I’m honest for some reason I quite enjoyed the booking this morning, something about it being wrong I guess, but I did actually really enjoy it.

I appreciate the heavy handed advice, but as I said I am not going into this blind or naive. I’m fully aware of all possibilities.
During the week I was looking through AW uk and there’s a lot of uk girls offering it too, British girls too, so I can only guess that there are girls on here offering it but to afraid to admit it for fear of the backlash.
Anyways I’ll keep you updated

I did wonder how many would follow through, particularly with a higher or extra fee.

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« Reply #25 on: 26 March 2025, 09:20:06 am »
During the week I was looking through AW uk and there’s a lot of uk girls offering it too, British girls too, so I can only guess that there are girls on here offering it but to afraid to admit it for fear of the backlash.

Yes, but your post was about the difficulty in getting PrEP in Ireland, not about who offers bareback.

amy

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« Reply #26 on: 26 March 2025, 09:28:33 am »
Yes, but your post was about the difficulty in getting PrEP in Ireland, not about who offers bareback.

Indeed it was, and since it's been bumped I'll just reiterate that's the thread topic. Most people who have been here longer than a couple of weeks will know we've had threads and posts from women who offer all conceivable services and none of that is anything to do with this.

For the record, I don't care what anybody else does. I have no reason to - I don't offer any unprotected services and most of the complaints on here in previous similar threads have been from people offering OWO, who could easily just use a condom if they were that concerned about STIs rather than trying to tell other adults what to do.

Most people are not prostitutes or punters and the majority will be having unprotected oral, vaginal and/or anal sex with one or more other people at least some of the time, none of it any my business, or of any interest to me whatsoever.

Now if anyone thinks further posts are necessary we're gettting back on topic, me included.

Lexilou

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« Reply #27 on: 26 March 2025, 11:56:03 am »
Did you manage to get your Prep in Ireland ?
Do you get tested for all of more than a dozen infections and bacteria like HPV, mycoplasma, etc ?
Do you realise that HIV can take 6 months to show in the test? So you WILL continue to work if infected.
I once had a client who stopped seeing his regular because she was going to start offering bareback penetration. Careful guys stopped seeing her.
Admins, please don't remove my post. This thread has a chance to turn into bareback propaganda. Something like: "I have barebacked a hundred guys, made a million pounds and still got no infection"(because only tested for 3 or 4 main infections every 2 weeks)
And it affects all of us because the girls like her, they spread all they get.
I don’t really want to continue bumping the thread as it has somewhat moved away from the initial point. But seen as your afraid it might turn into a propaganda thread that doesn’t align with your own values I’ll address your questions.
Yes I will be screened for everything, the clinic are fully aware of my situation. All infections except hiv will show up immediately, most of them with symptoms. But all will show up in screening.
And to address the hiv, here are the facts. Actual facts based on medical journals and tests. For a female not on prep, having unprotected vaginal sex with a hiv male, the risk is 0.08% (8 in 10000)
A female on prep having sex with a hiv male the risk is 0.0008% (1 in 1250000)
Those stats are all based on the infected male not being on ART. Which would be highly unlikely, as anyone who’s aware they’re positive will obviously be on ART. If the male is on ART and the female on prep, then the transmission risk is 0% there has never been a recorded case of transmission.
And let’s say I am terribly unlucky and fall against the odds of less than one in 1.2 million, and do contract it, and please don’t attack this next statement as I’m only quoting it as it is a fact… it is not the death sentence it once used to be. With treatment it has zero effect on your health or life expectancy. And with treatment ART your chances of transmitting it to another partner are the same as those quoted above.
Also “girls like her” what exactly type of girl am I? You seem to know a lot about me from one single post. Talk about judgemental.

I get it girls, this is an anti bb group, and you’re all against it under the guise of it being such a risk and such a death sentence. But not one of you were able to provide me with and actual statistics on it. As I said I’m not going into it blind or naive. I’m not stupid or slow.
I’m not trying to have an argument about it, (although I have been forced to defend myself) if you don’t agree with it that’s fine. But you can’t control any industry sex work or otherwise to make it fit your personal preferences.
The post was looking for help in getting prep, help that nobody was actually able to offer. So I won’t ask anything around the topic again.
Thanks x

amy

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Re: Trouble getting prep prescribed in Ireland.
« Reply #28 on: 26 March 2025, 08:53:16 pm »
This is not an anti anything 'group'. The people here are a diverse community of individual sex workers who can very much think for themselves and are posting their views; just because the majority would not make the same choices as you doesn't mean that there is some kind of hive mind or big conspiracy going on. We don't know who you are, we're not interested in what kind of sex you're having and the Me So Edgy stuff is getting old now.

What we are here to do is try to help newbies work as safely and profitably as they can, and part of that is picking up on variables they might have missed or not thought about. The combined experience of the people here runs into hundreds of years, and we were all new once (I did offer OWO when I first started, not because I wanted to but because I didn't realise condoms could also be used for blow jobs).

You don't want to hear any view that differs from yours and as we're all agreed that the thread doesn't need bumping again, it's locked.