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JennyJazz87 · « **on:** 22 September 2011, 01:27:20 pm »

Hey everyone.
So a client whose a regular, whose been seeing my regularly for just over a year has said that he would like me to accompny him abroad.
He is borrowing a small place in Portugal for between ten days and two weeks next spring/early summer. Apparantly it is on the beach, private and beautiful.

I have of course done overnights and I have done overnights in other cities around the UK, but when it's abroad it's different.
Has anyone gone travelling with a client? If so what is it like?

xw5 · « **Reply #1 on:** 22 September 2011, 02:33:44 pm »

My first thought is if he has to borrow a 'small place', he probably cannot afford what most people would be charging.

That's an awfully long time together, in somewhere with not much to escape to. If it is something you decide to do, make sure your boundaries - like how much time you will spend with him, never mind shagging him - are in place.

JennyJazz87 · « **Reply #2 on:** 22 September 2011, 02:36:22 pm »

Quote from: xw5 on 22 September 2011, 02:33:44 pm

My first thought is if he has to borrow a 'small place', he probably cannot afford what most people would be charging.

That's an awfully long time together, in somewhere with not much to escape to. If it is something you decide to do, make sure your boundaries - like how much time you will spend with him, never mind shagging him - are in place.

Well I don't know if it's a "small place" I mean it's a holiday villa so two or three bedrooms.
He's actually a really nice guy and we've always gotten on really well so I don't think it would be awkward at all. We have done the whole "girlfriend experience" together before, visited other cities whilst doing it.

Anyway it is certainly a bigger step though.

emilyofsuffolk · « **Reply #3 on:** 22 September 2011, 02:58:23 pm »

like Ian says; with any job you will need a "lunch break" so make it clear to him that you will want to have an hour of two to yourself every day. If he's nice guy he shouldn't have a problem with that. When it comes to the sex & how many times a day he'd expect it, that's a dilema...

JennyJazz87 · « **Reply #4 on:** 22 September 2011, 03:01:47 pm »

Quote from: emilyofsuffolk on 22 September 2011, 02:58:23 pm

like Ian says; with any job you will need a "lunch break" so make it clear to him that you will want to have an hour of two to yourself every day. If he's nice guy he shouldn't have a problem with that. When it comes to the sex & how many times a day he'd expect it, that's a dilema...

Indeed, I'm not a machine. A concern of mine is that he'll say something along the lines of "well I'm paying so we'll do it when I say as many times as I say."

I mean I don't think he would because he's a nice guy. We've done overnights together and he's not been like that and we've done two days together and he's not been like that. But it is something to think about.

Sarita · « **Reply #5 on:** 22 September 2011, 03:03:56 pm »

I think there are a few threads around about this sort of thing. I don't have much experience of going away with clients, but I have done it a couple of times with a guy I knew well.

I found the lack of time to myself nearly drove me crazy and hints along the lines of 'why don't you pop down to the bar while I get ready?' fell on stoney ground. The experience taught me that no matter how well I get on with a client, they are a client and I cannot relax and be myself. This is bearable for a few hours, but for several days at a time it's a huge strain.

ParisB · « **Reply #6 on:** 22 September 2011, 06:59:23 pm »

Get the money upfront no cheques, no money transfer ect

You also have to think about the fact that he will know your real name and age if he's booking the tickets for you

i would definatly set up the ground rules in advance ie you need xxx amount of free time each day

also take a credit card or some spare cash in euros so that if he turns into physco bill you can get away

also think about reasearching the area where your going, ie is it in the middle of nowhere , in the back of beyonde where the nearest civilisation is 50 miles away, if this is the case you could be stuck with nowhere to go at all apart from the bedroom

Or is it in a nice civillised resort where there are nice walks and places to go and things to do

People In general have widely different ideas of what there idea of a great holiday really is - mine is a great beach, snorkling and diving lots of Sunshine, reading books, running every day and partying at night, drinkings lots of bottles of corona and rum and generally being wild

but a good friend of mine idea of a good holiday is art galleries, gourmet resturants, churches museums and fine wine so despite being friends for years we just dont go on holiday together anymore We would end up killing each other i know from experience

Carla · « **Reply #7 on:** 22 September 2011, 07:27:31 pm »

Quote from: JennyJazz87 on 22 September 2011, 01:27:20 pm

Has anyone gone travelling with a client? If so what is it like?

Hell.

Longer than 24 hours and you are a brave woman in my opinion- it's not so much the sex that made me nearly crawl out of my skin with craziness, it was the incessant touching, stroking, hand holding, cuddling and gazing. I literally nearly went out of my mind through having to giggle and be sweet and adoring for the length of a holiday, and I pride myself on being good at prolonged periods of acting like a loved up girlfriend!

The lack of being able to relax and act completely naturally (pick my nose, fart, wear no make up, leave my legs unshaved for a day) also made me quite fraught by the end.

I think the worst bit was sleeping- he was so attached to me that he lay there "snuggling me" all night and I barely slept through feeling suffocated (both mentally and physically!) And by a few days in I was tired and emotionally fraught due to lack of sleep as well as feeling trapped.

Seriously though, you may be lucky and have less of a limpet wanting to take you away (and you may be a nicer and more tolerant person than me which isn't difficultb!) but even if you do like him enough to contemplate it, then you will definitely need an hour to just be you, stare into space and chill. I
Also recommend separate bathrooms so you can not worry about relaxing for 10 seconds when you have a wee just in case he hears you and realises you are a Normal Woman heaven forbid!

It was a good way to make a killing in a relitively short period, but I worked out my hourly rate taking into account I was "on" 20 hours a day and I don't think it was financially worth it for what it cost my sanity.

Good luck if you decide to brave it sorry to have sounded so negative, I can laugh about it now if that's any relief!!

Lady_Lust_XXX · « **Reply #8 on:** 22 September 2011, 09:01:24 pm »

Quote from: Carla on 22 September 2011, 07:27:31 pm

Quote from: JennyJazz87 on 22 September 2011, 01:27:20 pm
Has anyone gone travelling with a client? If so what is it like?

Hell.

Longer than 24 hours and you are a brave woman in my opinion- it's not so much the sex that made me nearly crawl out of my skin with craziness, it was the incessant touching, stroking, hand holding, cuddling and gazing. I literally nearly went out of my mind through having to giggle and be sweet and adoring for the length of a holiday, and I pride myself on being good at prolonged periods of acting like a loved up girlfriend!

The lack of being able to relax and act completely naturally (pick my nose, fart, wear no make up, leave my legs unshaved for a day) also made me quite fraught by the end.

I think the worst bit was sleeping- he was so attached to me that he lay there "snuggling me" all night and I barely slept through feeling suffocated (both mentally and physically!) And by a few days in I was tired and emotionally fraught due to lack of sleep as well as feeling trapped.

Seriously though, you may be lucky and have less of a limpet wanting to take you away (and you may be a nicer and more tolerant person than me which isn't difficultb!) but even if you do like him enough to contemplate it, then you will definitely need an hour to just be you, stare into space and chill. I
Also recommend separate bathrooms so you can not worry about relaxing for 10 seconds when you have a wee just in case he hears you and realises you are a Normal Woman heaven forbid!

It was a good way to make a killing in a relitively short period, but I worked out my hourly rate taking into account I was "on" 20 hours a day and I don't think it was financially worth it for what it cost my sanity.

Good luck if you decide to brave it sorry to have sounded so negative, I can laugh about it now if that's any relief!!

You describe how I feel it would turn out ........................ a total nightmare.

ParisB · « **Reply #9 on:** 22 September 2011, 11:30:07 pm »

In my case i cant be ParisB for longer than a few hours i dont mean that in a bad way but i can be pretty much full on and perfect for 2 -3 hours but any longer than that i have the urge to start picking spots on someone back, and the real me comes out which is generally i want to sleep and read my books and generally being a bit weird

Meg_Foster · « **Reply #10 on:** 27 September 2011, 06:38:34 am »

How long will the trip be?

The agency I worked at had a 260euro 1 hr/400 euro 2hr; 3.300,00? 3 day, 1.000,00? each additional day...

I've also only done overnights but I did travel abroad; it's not so different than taking a six-hour train somewhere in country (or wasn't for me) I think the longest time I spent with a client was 20 hours, and I was quite tired at the end (at the same time, was also working part-time, so coming straight from work to change to meeting did not help)

What I would suggest is to 3-4 hours each day to yourself (perhaps post-breakfast to lunch?) in which you can recharge and reduce that from the overall trip fee.

(I've known other escorts to have been provided with a separate room for a long trip; in which case, sleep + an hour in the morning shouldn't be too much; but I don't think that should be requested explicitly as it seems a bit rude...just my opinion though.)

In any case, do bring a sleep aid [like tylenol pm] and ear plugs. they may not be necessary. But I think the most important thing is for you to ensure that you have sufficient time to properly rest [awake and asleep] so that you can not be miserable in which case, you will prob also become a bad escort.

If you have sufficient time to properly rest, sounds like an amazing trip!

JennyJazz87 · « **Reply #11 on:** 28 September 2011, 01:36:08 pm »

Quote from: Meg_Foster on 27 September 2011, 06:38:34 am

How long will the trip be?

The agency I worked at had a 260euro 1 hr/400 euro 2hr; 3.300,00? 3 day, 1.000,00? each additional day...

I've also only done overnights but I did travel abroad; it's not so different than taking a six-hour train somewhere in country (or wasn't for me) I think the longest time I spent with a client was 20 hours, and I was quite tired at the end (at the same time, was also working part-time, so coming straight from work to change to meeting did not help)

What I would suggest is to 3-4 hours each day to yourself (perhaps post-breakfast to lunch?) in which you can recharge and reduce that from the overall trip fee.

(I've known other escorts to have been provided with a separate room for a long trip; in which case, sleep + an hour in the morning shouldn't be too much; but I don't think that should be requested explicitly as it seems a bit rude...just my opinion though.)

In any case, do bring a sleep aid [like tylenol pm] and ear plugs. they may not be necessary. But I think the most important thing is for you to ensure that you have sufficient time to properly rest [awake and asleep] so that you can not be miserable in which case, you will prob also become a bad escort.

If you have sufficient time to properly rest, sounds like an amazing trip!

Either 7 days or 10 days.

Thanks to you and everyone else for the advice. Maybe seperate bedrooms is a good idea, at least some of the time. He does like to cuddle sometimes but with him I don't mind quite so much because, as I said, we do know each other quite well, but I take on board what people have been saying that I might go a bit stir crazy.

I have done plenty of overnights and I have done whole weekends but never anything more than two or three nights.

So we'll see.

And thanks ParisB for the suggestion of money up front! I will certainly consider that if I decide to do it!

River · « **Reply #12 on:** 28 September 2011, 04:23:26 pm »

Quote from: ParisB on 22 September 2011, 06:59:23 pm

Get the money upfront no cheques, no money transfer ect

Frak, yes!

Quote from: ParisB on 22 September 2011, 06:59:23 pm

You also have to think about the fact that he will know your real name and age if he's booking the tickets for you

I think you can get round that by him coming round to your place and doing one of these methods:

1. Booking on line and paying on line at the same time as each other on your computer
Two bookings; one for him, one for you. When the page asks for flight payment,
you pass the 'puter over to him & he just fills in his credit card details for payment of your flights.
He doesn't get to see your name ................or DoB, either.
You can trial run a booking on your own, to ensure what I'm saying is correct.

2. You both make two separate bookings, done at the same time.
He pays you the cash and you use your credit card to pay for your flights.

3. You both make two separate bookings, done at the same time.
He pays cost of your flights into your pre paid credit card, which you then use to pay for your flight.
(The Pre-pay card can be in your 'Whore-name' ...mine is)
>>>This is how it works<<<
His payment gets immediately credited to your pre-pay account but this credit is not accessible to you for 24 hours.
Your client would need to pay into your pre-pay, a day in advance.
Or knowing that your pre-pay account has credited with flight cost, you use your own funding to temporarily cover the flight cost.
Then, 24 hours later, you withdraw that client payment from your pre-pay.

Always ways...

JennyJazz87 · « **Reply #13 on:** 29 September 2011, 09:37:14 am »

Quote from: JodieTs on 28 September 2011, 04:23:26 pm

Quote from: ParisB on 22 September 2011, 06:59:23 pm
Get the money upfront no cheques, no money transfer ect
Frak, yes!

Quote from: ParisB on 22 September 2011, 06:59:23 pm
You also have to think about the fact that he will know your real name and age if he's booking the tickets for you
I think you can get round that by him coming round to your place and doing one of these methods:

1. Booking on line and paying on line at the same time as each other on your computer
Two bookings; one for him, one for you. When the page asks for flight payment,
you pass the 'puter over to him & he just fills in his credit card details for payment of your flights.
He doesn't get to see your name ................or DoB, either.
You can trial run a booking on your own, to ensure what I'm saying is correct.

2. You both make two separate bookings, done at the same time.
He pays you the cash and you use your credit card to pay for your flights.

3. You both make two separate bookings, done at the same time.
He pays cost of your flights into your pre paid credit card, which you then use to pay for your flight.
(The Pre-pay card can be in your 'Whore-name' ...mine is)
>>>This is how it works<<<
His payment gets immediately credited to your pre-pay account but this credit is not accessible to you for 24 hours.
Your client would need to pay into your pre-pay, a day in advance.
Or knowing that your pre-pay account has credited with flight cost, you use your own funding to temporarily cover the flight cost.
Then, 24 hours later, you withdraw that client payment from your pre-pay.

Always ways...

Thanks for the advice. I like the idea of getting a pre-pay in my "whore name."
And those methods you mentioned seem quite sound and doable!

Amber Sweetpetite · « **Reply #14 on:** 29 September 2011, 12:15:02 pm »

I have done loads of long bookings. The longest was 2 weeks in South Africa. I think you have to do a few overnights first with them to make sure you won't end up killing each other. I do find the stroking, gazing holding hands thing a bit difficult but thankfully not everyone is like that. I always make it clear that I expect some me time. I do it in a casual way though, not like I want an hour a day away from you. I just make an appointment at the hairdressers, go to the gym or spa. pop out to the shops etc. Just like you would in a normal relationship. Nobody has ever had a problem with that. I do a lot of research into the destination and plan loads of activities and suggest unusual bars and restaurants to visit. They seem to really appreciate that you have made the effort and I have some kind of structure to the week(s). Also, I feel able on a long booking to say "not tonight I am a bit sleepy". Just because he is paying doesn't mean you have to have sex several times a day.

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