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Pink~Princess

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Re: When client wants a shower but time is up?
« Reply #30 on: 28 November 2013, 08:40:36 am »
I don't think that it's rushing a client to expect them to stay roughly within the hour. If you're a hard-ass about it, that would be cold. However the ones who will take the piss are the ones who need you to be a hard ass and you don't want to see again, anyway.

I have to work rather limited hours, on weekdays, and there seem to be a couple of peak times where a LOT of people want to be seen within a narrow time frame. It's hard enough to pick which ones to see and then try to gently maneuver them into time slots where they aren't inconvenienced or made to wait around, while leaving enough time in between for everything to be fresh and relaxed for them.

Most of them are happy to be on their way, anyway. I don't think anyone ever feels rushed. But I don't think that being conscious of the time when there's another appointment due is at all cold.

And, sure... if nobody is due and I'm enjoying their company, I will just hang out with no thought for the clock.

But it's not one extreme or the other.

I agree that its fair to expect clients to be in and away within the time they have paid for BUT getting your knickers in a twist over a matter of minutes so a client can shower is really quite bad IMO, They WILLL pick up on feeling rushed.

Some men are happy to leave well before they're time. I have a few clients who loose all desire once they have came first time and they do all the talking before any sex so once sex is over they jump up and start getting dressed but others like to relax and spend the time with you that they have paid good money for.

If you can manage to get them into the shower within they're time, great but if not is it really too much for them to ask/expect?

Weather your very limited time wise or not a few minutes is not the end of the world.

As I have said many times lately on here, whenever I have anything negative to say about a client, its only ever aimed at the ones who have treated me badly weather that's in person or in a text/email or phone call so I hold my hands up when I say that if I have a client who is horrible to me like I had the other week in Belfast, the guy totally abused me, I was desperate for him to leave and he took a while in the shower where I was completely pissed off cause I just wanted rid of him then to get in the shower myself, scrub myself, have a wee cry and try to shake it off before my next client was due BUT when it comes to your good clients and the ones who treat you with respect, you shouldn't grudge them a few minutes to shower cause they are your bread and butter at the end of the day.

This is just my opinion though, others may disagree.

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Sassy Slapper

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Re: When client wants a shower but time is up?
« Reply #31 on: 28 November 2013, 08:40:54 am »


I wouldn't dream of refusing a guy a shower just because his hour was up nowadays, it just to me personally feels a bit rude. "yes mate I know you saved up for a fortnight to pay me 130 but can you bugger off now" is how I would feel. Of course if someone is an arse or has a bit of an attitude then no, I will turn on the shower, then go back in 3 minutes to ask if they have finished. Someone would have to be really shitty for me to say "no, times up".

I am always mindful of the little things that would make a guy choose me over another girl next time he is feeling horny, its not always about how many positions you can get in during the shag, sometimes its little things such as soaping them up in the shower, not rushing the out of the door etc, you just never know unless the tell you the next time they arrive and with so many other girls out there my personal feeling is that we should be looking after the guys who book us. Its getting busy again now but that doesn't mean standards will be slipping.

Just take  look through the aw pages in your locality. I was shocked when I did at mine, there used to be 4 pages behind the girls who paid to show in the local, now there are six. Everyone and her aunty, cousin, daughter and grandmother are turning to hooking and it will only increase in the future. You have to beat the competition to get the guy and the only way to keep the coming back is to treat the well, I like to treat them as friends and you wouldn't refuse a friend a shower.



Good post , competition is fierce at the mo .

 Personally i like the brew/chats , shower time  ect we have after a sesh , when you make an effort to be freindly with people they are more likely to become regular. Ive got very friendly with some of the regs ( go out on lots of meals out /day trips with some - no pressure for "freebies" or "relationships" - just mutual company ) . No , I would not stress over 5/10min over a shower . I can be a real bitch with TWs n A-holes , but I treat the nice guys very well and enjoy their company .

Men have complained about this percieved "coldness" and/or feeling rushed from some ladies and if you want repeat business rather than a stream of new/random men , then it is something to think about.

Exactly this. Those guys have a lot of interesting stuff to say and sometimes no one to say it too who actually wants to engage in a conversation back with them. I have also had guys comment about feeling rushed in the past, it actually leaves some of them feeling a bit used and turns a brilliant session into one of regret rather than happiness, its not nice for them and its not nice to hear as it tends to be the most pleasant guys who mention they have experienced it.

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Re: When client wants a shower but time is up?
« Reply #32 on: 28 November 2013, 08:45:38 am »

This is just my opinion though, others may disagree.

xx

quite possibly but I for one agree with you. Sorry to hear you had a shitty client though but well done for washing him out of your hair and seeing the next guy, shows a professional attitude xx