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luciefate

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Tour or stay at home? [was: Dilemma!!]
« on: 16 October 2014, 09:30:57 pm »
I need some experienced ladies to help me with this!!

I have planned to tour BUT I am so busy at home that I am turning business away!!

Should I stay at home and only tour when business is quiet?? I don't want to lose regulars.

Thanks in advance, girls x
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MissDee

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Re: Tour or stay at home? [was: Dilemma!!]
« Reply #1 on: 16 October 2014, 09:41:50 pm »
You won't lose regulars in my experience i find when they can't get hold of me they want to see me more.....i had 2 months off from mid august when i came back over the space of 3 days i saw about 10 regs infact since i started touring as soon i am back in my home town regs do book.....i wouldn't change your tour plans  :)
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Re: Tour or stay at home? [was: Dilemma!!]
« Reply #2 on: 16 October 2014, 09:53:17 pm »
Quote from: Lollipopps on 16 October 2014, 09:41:50 pm
You won't lose regulars in my experience i find when they can't get hold of me they want to see me more.....i had 2 months off from mid august when i came back over the space of 3 days i saw about 10 regs infact since i started touring as soon i am back in my home town regs do book.....i wouldn't change your tour plans  :)

I agree, and I've always found the same. A change of scene and a new place for a few days does me good too, but if it's money you'd rather not spend at the moment then there's nothing wrong with postponing for a couple of weeks either :).
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MsDee

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Re: Tour or stay at home? [was: Dilemma!!]
« Reply #3 on: 17 October 2014, 10:46:36 am »
I want to tour but whenever it comes to going to london i tend to have panic attacks, I stopped touring about 3 years ago after being robbed at my london hotel by a client and ever since then i have been cancelling my tours due to panic attacks, taking tablets are not working especially when you read the NUM reports.  :FF
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luciefate

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Re: Tour or stay at home? [was: Dilemma!!]
« Reply #4 on: 17 October 2014, 07:22:45 pm »
That's awful FB.

I can understand why you'd be put off. Perhaps you'd feel better touring with a buddy.

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Re: Tour or stay at home? [was: Dilemma!!]
« Reply #5 on: 17 October 2014, 10:24:55 pm »
Maybe just don't tour london? I prefer to tour other smaller cities i did London once and didnt like it i just didnt feel safe i don't think i was in any more danger than i usually am any where else it was a gut feeling or maybe just in my head but for my own peace of mind i cancelled bookings and just left. 

I get NUM alerts to my personal phone that way i always read them but i find they are usually about ladies that work out doors.
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Re: Tour or stay at home? [was: Dilemma!!]
« Reply #6 on: 17 October 2014, 10:31:00 pm »
I've never toured but maybe somewhere in UK that I'd also like to explore for a change of scenery would be nice but I've also wondered whether you would lose regs. I have some who sometimes call and either I'm out or I'm seeing someone else and I haven't lost them but if I toured a lot and they called and each time I wasn't free, I'm not sure. I wouldn't tour a lot though if I ever get round to it.

Good to hear from others though that it's unlikely.  It would be fine of course if it's a reg who books a few different ones also.
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Re: Tour or stay at home? [was: Dilemma!!]
« Reply #7 on: 17 October 2014, 10:37:52 pm »
I have stuck to two cities I feel safe in and only see my regulars there but do feel I let down so many of my old regulars in London.  It can be crippling when things like this tend to happen to us and I have always been the one to say never let it get to you but it is not that easy.  I work from home but am even going to cut back on the amount of appointments i take at home now I used to love touring.
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Re: Tour or stay at home? [was: Dilemma!!]
« Reply #8 on: 17 October 2014, 11:08:33 pm »
Quote from: lucielee on 16 October 2014, 09:30:57 pm
I need some experienced ladies to help me with this!!

I have planned to tour BUT I am so busy at home that I am turning business away!!

Should I stay at home and only tour when business is quiet?? I don't want to lose regulars.

Thanks in advance, girls x

Why tour when you don't have to?  If you're getting the pennies in your purse without the extra expense then I wouldn't bother.

I only ever toured when I wanted to and for no other reason.

Many girls tour because work dries up at home, but if that is not happening to you then why tour unless you really want to see somewhere else.

I like the comfort of my home surroundings when whoring with the option of going home any time I want.
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Re: Tour or stay at home? [was: Dilemma!!]
« Reply #9 on: 17 October 2014, 11:14:41 pm »
Something like that would get to me too. When I hear of these awful attacks I try and imagine what they went through. It would change everything immensely for me. Without a doubt though, it's just best to stick to where you feel safe or you'll be a nervous wreck.
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Re: Tour or stay at home? [was: Dilemma!!]
« Reply #10 on: 18 October 2014, 12:29:39 am »
I agree with Amy; there's nothing wrong with postponing.

There'll be a shed load of guys who have had you on their hotlists for umpteen months, 'just in case' you offer incalls. Now they are all shouting, "bingo" and hotfooting it to yours at double time!!

If I were you I would enjoy the way things are, as they might settle down at home (particularly as half term is approaching). if you left touring for a couple of weeks, you're there right around payday time, which can't be a bad thing!

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Re: Tour or stay at home? [was: Dilemma!!]
« Reply #11 on: 18 October 2014, 12:58:30 pm »
Maybe tour every third weekend Thur Fri Sat cone home on a Sunday

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Re: Tour or stay at home? [was: Dilemma!!]
« Reply #12 on: 18 October 2014, 07:58:14 pm »
I always try to tour with a buddy, if I'm alone I normally stay in apartments just turn on the TV and pretend someone is in the living room or use a hotel with the safety box.
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