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UrbaneAspects

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Regulars not so Regular....
« on: 17 October 2008, 09:56:43 pm »
Again, for those of you who may have regulars....

Although every one of my bookings go well, and its not uncommon to be tipped afterwards...regulars do not make up the majority of a weekly (or monthly) bookings for me.

Im thinking it could be different factors such as being married, competition, and other related issues. I know escorting can be very much like dating, there is no guarantee the date will call you back after the 1st or even 3rd date...so Im not expecting them to.

Usually they always say they will call or book again, which is expected. I feel silly even asking this, I already know how this goes...but I cant help but mention this is a bit different than dating. Usually all of my free 1 night stand guys call back...whats up?
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amy

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Re: Regulars not so Regular....
« Reply #1 on: 17 October 2008, 10:43:57 pm »
Your free one night stand guys ring because they think they are likely to easily get another shag without handing over any money.

Your clients may not rebook for a number of reasons - one of the advantages for many men of hiring an escort is that they can have as much or as little contact afterwards as they want to. I don't really know, as the majority of my clients come back but the gay scene might be different (so many men, so little time... ;D)

What I do know is that escorting is categorically nothing at all like dating, at least not for me, and there is no comparison to make between the two. Escorting is work and the relationship between the parties involved is a business one; we're partly being paid to shag them, but we're mainly being paid to disappear afterwards.
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Hermione

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Re: Regulars not so Regular....
« Reply #2 on: 17 October 2008, 10:51:05 pm »
It depends on how you define a regular client.  Some of mine only book every 4-6 months.  One in particular does not have much money and has to save.  I saw a client last week who had booked me over a year ago. Regulars can be a double edged sword. I had a weekly regular for 6 months.  The money was great, but he got creepy in the end. 
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UrbaneAspects

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Re: Regulars not so Regular....
« Reply #3 on: 17 October 2008, 11:53:07 pm »
Quote from: Hermione on 17 October 2008, 10:51:05 pm
It depends on how you define a regular client.  Some of mine only book every 4-6 months. 

yea thats another aspect...so a regular is a regular no matter if they book every week or every few months? thats a good point.

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UrbaneAspects

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Re: Regulars not so Regular....
« Reply #4 on: 18 October 2008, 12:00:20 am »
Quote from: amy on 17 October 2008, 10:43:57 pm

Your clients may not rebook for a number of reasons -  but the gay scene might be different (so many men, so little time... ;D)
we're partly being paid to shag them, but we're mainly being paid to disappear afterwards.

thats true, its even more so because of our promiscuous lifestyle....so its obviously going to reflect in escort work as well...And yea, I once read an article stating that, "They arent paying for time, its paying for us to leave  :P

Its not that Im desperate for regulars, but I dont mind them coming back  ;D
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LondonEvie

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Re: Regulars not so Regular....
« Reply #5 on: 18 October 2008, 12:40:49 am »
Quote from: Miami1inDallas on 18 October 2008, 12:00:20 am

...And yea, I once read an article stating that, "They arent paying for time, its paying for us to leave  :P


 On that note, Chef off South Park said it best:

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=XCFwHDu4j3U&feature=related

'that's not why you pay a prostitute no, you don't pay for her to stay, you pay for her to leave afterwards'

 ;D

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