Umm I recently started offering fetish session. I get asked a lot about ws but the thing is I can't do ws and then do the main deed afterwards. I see guys taking piss from me as my submissive and getting nailed doesn't feel like I am the one in charge. So I don't feel like to do it when I turn on my 'domme' mood.

Is it okay to offer ws and not allow them to have intercourse? Will it be unusual to do so?

I do bdsm and fetish without sex, I get them to wank themselves whilst I give watersports which always seems to be a big turn on for them x