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VoluptuousCurves

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Re: Too much chat
« Reply #15 on: 17 June 2021, 04:03:55 pm »
I don't have a massage table so I never offer massage to start - it's more physically tiring for me than giving them oral or penetration.

If they've booked an hour and cum quite quick and they don't gave another one in the tank I'll occasionally offer one.

A lot of clients definitely do see it as time wasting. Especially if they've only booked a half hour.

In terms of chat - I am a right chatterbox sometimes, but I try to take my lead from the client. If we're kissing, doing oral or sex then I don't talk unless they ask me to talk dirty. Once they've cum I do like a chat but try to focus it on them - any plans for tonight/the weekend, isn't this weather great/horrible, how's work - busy of quiet, etc etc.

Quite a lot of my regs do enjoy a more in-depth chat and we'll talk about politics, economics, family etc. I guess the ones who don't like to chat just don't come back!
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Re: Too much chat
« Reply #16 on: 19 June 2021, 10:32:46 pm »
When I first started I'd begin with a massage but it did seem that many saw it as a time wasting tactic and just want to get straight into the main event.
 A very tiny percentage will actually ask for a massage so that tells me thats not what the majority come for.

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Re: Too much chat
« Reply #17 on: 19 June 2021, 10:55:36 pm »
I don't offer massage and my ads make it clear - that includes receiving, since I don't find the idea of a stranger (who's likely to be bigger and stronger than I am) somewhere I can't see them properly and with their hands near my neck particularly relaxing. I find it far more tiring than just getting on with things too :)

I do chat, but normally during breaks and at the end, and if it's clear a punter isn't interested I'm just as happy to shut up. I can ramble a bit when somebody comes who I haven't seen before, but that's generally nerves and it settles down reasonably quick.

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Re: Too much chat
« Reply #18 on: 20 June 2021, 12:21:37 pm »
With me it depends on how long they have booked how chatty I am, in an hour I’ll chat a couple of minutes then move things along as usually they’ll want to come a couple of times so I figure a little chat in between and a little one at the end, half an hour booking I’ll again chat a couple of minutes at the start to break the ice then at the end if there’s time or as there dressing. In a 15 minute booking I’ll chat whilst there undressing and dressing, I find clients who book 15 minutes don’t really want to talk anyway. I don’t offer massages as I cba doing them but if someone request one I will do it but I find them a nuisance really.

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Re: Too much chat
« Reply #19 on: 20 June 2021, 08:05:37 pm »
When I first started I'd begin with a massage but it did seem that many saw it as a time wasting tactic and just want to get straight into the main event.
 A very tiny percentage will actually ask for a massage so that tells me thats not what the majority come for.

Yes there's guys who feel cheated or insulted if it's not sex from the second they ring the bell. And there's ones who like to loosen up first. I've had many sex clients throw themselves on their tummy silently expecting a massage. It's not been asked for. Sometimes I look at them wondering what they want then twig. So I give them one.
« Last Edit: 20 June 2021, 08:37:45 pm by saltysweet »

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Re: Too much chat
« Reply #20 on: 20 June 2021, 08:39:53 pm »
I've had many sex clients throw themselves on their tummy quietly expecting a massage. It's not been asked for. Sometimes I look at them wondering what they want then twig. So I give them one.

This bugs me slightly when all they have to do is ask. Good thing I'm happy to do massage!

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Re: Too much chat
« Reply #21 on: 20 June 2021, 08:51:55 pm »
Yeah non verbals eh!  :)

fallen angel

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Re: Too much chat
« Reply #22 on: 20 June 2021, 10:16:03 pm »
I think its a kind of escorting cliche that all bookings begin with a massage whether you ask for one or not.
That's the reason I used to begin with one when I first started as I thought that was the protocol.
But as with most things, times change and the majority of guys I find now are looking for as much bang for their buk as possible so I  will throw in a massage at the end if they are totally spent but have time left.