I receive a message at midnight last night, it’s polote well put together and straight to the point, I send the usual reply and my availability for the next week over and he is again polite and easy to communicate with. When I ask what he wants he send a message stating it’s a one hour initial
Meet and wants all of this in the hour, it Means rushing or going over time and I feel like one hour is definitely not long enough.
A one hour initial meeting
Firstly
A bit of vouyerism
Then water sports
Followed by a bath and then you dress up in sexy attire seamed stockings and go and watch porn
I then view you and then I dominate you in a soft and pleasurable way
I told him its not going to be long enough and we won’t have enough time in one hour for that, at this point I assume that he is a fantasist, he then sent me this message when I said to him that should he wish to make arrangements I need to know exactly what he wanted and can he elaborate slightly on services etc, this is when I replied to him telling him to find somebody else as I think we are not suited and I don’t appreciate crude or vulgar communications.
Initially one hour
Voyerism would be me looking at you stroking my circumcised cock
You will be gently pulling your nipples and watching porn that you know gets you so wet
You will have toys but will not be permitted to use them until I tell you
Initial one
Hour fine
Please understand this is a massive lift for me as Mum is very unwell and I want to be filthy for one hour to forget about the sorry mess
Hope you understand
I’m a pleaser and I want to make you squirt or it least come so much
But I also want to be in charge
Gentle and forceful
As a gentlemen
God I’m turned on right now xx
Ty so much for your understanding x
Part of me thinks he’s attempting to be emotionally manipulative towards me by using a sad personal story, and I also think he’s an absolute advantage taker and very rude in the way he is messaging me such elaborate sexual fantasies, and telling me he’s horny etc, there are far too many red flags there for me. Would you see him after those last two messages? Some friends said yes some said no and for me personally I said no way. What would you do and how would you handle this?