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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: English natural beauty on 21 May 2018, 10:01:25 am
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I receive a message at midnight last night, it’s polote well put together and straight to the point, I send the usual reply and my availability for the next week over and he is again polite and easy to communicate with. When I ask what he wants he send a message stating it’s a one hour initial
Meet and wants all of this in the hour, it Means rushing or going over time and I feel like one hour is definitely not long enough.
A one hour initial meeting
Firstly
A bit of vouyerism
Then water sports
Followed by a bath and then you dress up in sexy attire seamed stockings and go and watch porn
I then view you and then I dominate you in a soft and pleasurable way
I told him its not going to be long enough and we won’t have enough time in one hour for that, at this point I assume that he is a fantasist, he then sent me this message when I said to him that should he wish to make arrangements I need to know exactly what he wanted and can he elaborate slightly on services etc, this is when I replied to him telling him to find somebody else as I think we are not suited and I don’t appreciate crude or vulgar communications.
Initially one hour
Voyerism would be me looking at you stroking my circumcised cock
You will be gently pulling your nipples and watching porn that you know gets you so wet
You will have toys but will not be permitted to use them until I tell you
Initial one
Hour fine
Please understand this is a massive lift for me as Mum is very unwell and I want to be filthy for one hour to forget about the sorry mess
Hope you understand
I’m a pleaser and I want to make you squirt or it least come so much
But I also want to be in charge
Gentle and forceful
As a gentlemen
God I’m turned on right now xx
Ty so much for your understanding x
Part of me thinks he’s attempting to be emotionally manipulative towards me by using a sad personal story, and I also think he’s an absolute advantage taker and very rude in the way he is messaging me such elaborate sexual fantasies, and telling me he’s horny etc, there are far too many red flags there for me. Would you see him after those last two messages? Some friends said yes some said no and for me personally I said no way. What would you do and how would you handle this?
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i am very very selective...
absolutely no way i ll see him
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Well to be fair you did ask him to elaborate on what services he wanted and well so he did do didn't he?Quite possibly he took that as a green light to whitter abit about his 'circumsized' bits and his personal life.
However I think the fact he thinks he can fit baths and porn etc into an hour would make me think he wouldn't be a particularly genuine or relaistic client if he turned up at all so I wouldn't be taking him very seriously.
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Well to be fair you did ask him to elaborate on what services he wanted and well so he did do didn't he?Quite possibly he took that as a green light to whitter abit about his 'circumsized' bits and his personal life.
However I think the fact he thinks he can fit baths and porn etc into an hour would make me think he wouldn't be a particularly genuine or relaistic client if he turned up at all so I wouldn't be taking him very seriously.
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Yes to be fair you did ask him to be more pacific i suppose and that is what he has done but to be honest if you have a reasonable amount of work i would not bother with him as seems like he could be a pain in the rear end and wants a lot for his money and no doubt would want even more when you see him, plus those kind of messages could be a fantasist also as i have had a few just like that and they were just messers.
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If I was broke, I would see him.
If I was semi-broke, I would tell him I can do half of his requests in 1 hour.
If I wasn't broke, I would ignore. The mother sob story and squirting fantasies are too much.
ahah this is a smart way to judge if taking a booking!
anyway ENB if you wrote this thread...your gut is telling you something...
so if i were in you and i was not broke i ll ignore!
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He’s not getting a booking, I asked him to elaborate on the services not direct a porno. Lol. The reason being is some ask to dominate me like he has have no idea what they are doing (50 shades of grey wannabes) and then I have to be extra diligent with what they ask for and sometimes ask for their personal details so that I can determine my safety which to me it feels like he just wanted to ramble on. I am fortunate to be able to choose who I do and don’t see and as soon as I see red flags it’s a no from me. The sob story and the circumstized part got me.
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I’d get this guy to fuck and fast! Men that elaborate so much are usually timewasters and running a decent bath takes at least 15 mins (I generally only take showers so can’t remember how long baths take!) so if he had said he wanted a booking for 90 mins then it may be more believable but he’s deluded so I would just block and move on.
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To be honest he strikes me as the type who probably wouldn't have answered you at all if you had responded to him in the morning.I found the ones going into specific scenarios at silly o clock at night were generally sat wanking and weren't interested after they had presumably come and woke up in the morning.
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Generally the more bollocks they write in their initial introduction, the less likely they are to be genuine. They are wanking as they write so by the time they press 'send' they are done and don't actually need to book.
Tell him to fuck off. or better still, ignore, he clearly wants the attention.
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I’d get this guy to fuck and fast! Men that elaborate so much are usually timewasters and running a decent bath takes at least 15 mins (I generally only take showers so can’t remember how long baths take!) so if he had said he wanted a booking for 90 mins then it may be more believable but he’s deluded so I would just block and move on.
I would just ignore and block for a bit of fun to annoy him (as this he only deserves)
- my average bath is an hour long so pay me at the beginning of the bath - I can soak, relax get out of the bath after the hour can fuck off with my hourly rate! End of!
The guy is a twat and agree that any guy that elaborates is a TW and is wank fodder.
Ignore and move on
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I'd put money on this one never actually making a booking!