I want to ask how many of you girls find it very painful when a guy's bits are too long? I had a 2 hour booking yesterday where in almost every position all I could feel was the most tremendous pain as a result of the length. I couldn't carry on apart from in about 2 positions. He told me near the end of the booking that he had a disappointing experience because of it. I asked him if he has this problem with other girls, and he said genuinely that it's never been a problem. (And I know he's been with quite a few from his adultwork feedback). Anyway I thought it was such a common thing, and now I've lost business because I was unable to shag them in certain positions coz it was too long and it hurt. Do I have a frickin short vag or something? Do I need to start saying 'long cocks at discretion'?

What's bothered me is the guy sent me a really patronizing email afterwards basically about his disappointment. Safe to say I won't be seeing him again. (He's a genuinely genuine, experienced prossie guy btw) 

Aw hun can't win them all!

Some guys are really big and don't 'fit'. I don't think there's anything you could have done, unless you enjoy having your cervix bumped! If I were you I would reply to his email explaining how it hurt you etc and try and resolve it that way. He shouldn't leave you a bad review just because you weren't into the pain his long one caused! Such a shame that he had to be patronising and make you feel bad as it really wasn't your fault.

What's bothered me is the guy sent me a really patronizing email afterwards basically about his disappointment. Safe to say I won't be seeing him again. (He's a genuinely genuine, experienced prossie guy btw) 

"Dear Sorbet's Vagina,

I am truly disappointed in your lack of length. I shan't be returning to pay your owner for further sexual services. I expect to receive a letter of apology written by you (or your owner, if you are unable to hold a pen) shortly.

Sincerely,

Extremely Experienced Punter"



I can also only echo the others above - what happened to the "mutually enjoyable experience" that most clients are after? Any bigger guys that I've met are usually very aware of it (although they make the usual "you say that to everyone!" jokes, bless 'em) and of the associated potential limitations. As in, they don't just watch a bunch of porn and then try to do the same shove-huge-thing-into-small-space-without-any-preparation thing and then get all offended about you being an actual human being. I think you're quite right to avoid this guy in future - try to forget his obnoxiousness, too! I know it's always annoying when someone makes a totally irrational accusation and you can't even risk correcting them lest they get even more insane and start doing business-damaging things like leaving bad reviews. Any service provider is a bit powerless here - "customer is always right", etc etc. Not that he's right, cos he's not! But it might help you to think of it as taking the high road (i.e. politely apologising and then blocking and ignoring him forever) to protect your business.

Thankyou girls. I think unintentionally he made me feel like something was wrong with me because he said it's the first time it's been a problem. It surprised me so much!(He has a BIG dick!)

It was like as soon as he realised I couldn't fuck him all how he wanted, he said he was dissapointed. And in the booking from then on, even though it was only 20 minutes,  it was as though everything was dissapointing and he couldn't 'get back in the mood'.

I didn't mention that this was his second booking with me that week! So i think because the first booking was shorter and all 'new' and that he didn't realise how much of a problem it was!
As he was leaving he said how 'it's kinda boring  only being able to be in the same position'. It annoys now I think about it because I tried SO hard to make it work, and explained very politely when it was too painful. And also that his 'dissapinment' stems from the fact I could feel pain, and trying to make me feel bad about it.

It surprises me because these types of people are so nice, or come accross as it, all until something goes a way they don't like, then they become fake, and snide and slyish in their comments, while keeping that 'nice' demeanour.

Anyway, that was a rant! WHile I'm here, with you girls who experience the pain thing extremely badly with certain clients, what various positions are there that can provide more comfort from when it's too long?

I had a regular, who would come to see me once or twice a month for a couple of years. He was a really lovely, polite and kind chap, the only trouble was the size of his willy, it was massive! I never had an intercourse with him, and had made it perfectly clear from the first meeting that sex was not an option. Now, I am 100% sure that he was used to getting that kind of reaction, but ALWAYS pointed out afterwards how much of a disappointment the encounter turned out to be for him. And he would always make it sound as if I was the one to blame! I got quite upset the first time, and started questioning myself. But when he came back again and again I realised that people like him simply can't resist having a moan, it's just the way they are. And all the positive feedback he had from other escorts... well, we have no way of knowing what they really thought, but I am convinced that those who agreed to have sex with him must have experienced at least some degree of discomfort, yet they never mentioned it in the fb...

My guy last night was huge,too painful.Give me little short uns anyday 

Quite frankly if its too big......its too big, simple as.  No one should have to put up with painful sex and big guys DO usually know there might be a problem so they shouldnt make you feel bad about it.

The only guy who's been too big for me........well one of those funny cone shaped willies....OMG it was so painful inside for just 2 minutes, he realised this (if he hadn't I would've told hiim) and he was perfectly happy to finish off with oral/HJ.

Many years ago I had a partner who had 11.5" and    ................................................ I'm saying no more but since him I've only had a handful of 'big boys'.

Or should that be 2 handfuls! lol