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eastkate

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TMI?
« on: 30 November 2020, 01:04:05 pm »
So yesterday I spent the whole day arranging a booking with a couple for a threesome - had some mixed reviews on AW, really great and some really bad but was happy to make my own opinion.

This morning I sent over a breakdown over the fees involved, obviously a haggle in price which I said I would meet in the middle - came back confirmed we were all good to go. He then said he would be free tonight if I were for an 'audition' paid of course doing this at the same time as getting out of bed putting the kettle on and then having a wee - I reply to him and say can we have a chat on the phone as I do this before all client meets he then rings straight away I answer and as I wipe....I've come on my period.

Genuinely, say hello introductions, profusely apologise and explain - he says he will discuss with his partner and puts the phone down. I mean it might sound bait, but it was genuinely a shock as I'm not even due on yet so wasn't expecting it. I follow up with a text again apologising and suggesting we rearrange for the weekend or the same time next week - response 'No thanks'

So I know I'm probably about to get a bad reaction, but a. it genuinely wasn't a lie, and b. THESE THINGS DO HAPPEN. What was I meant to do or say? So I *Germaine Greer* sent a photo of the toilet paper that I had just wiped with blood. I know I know I know, but I felt I had to really prove myself

'Please don't send me this

It's disgusting

Definately not seeing you now

Bye'

Tell me what I should have done? Also, PERIODS ARE NOT A THING ANYMORE. IT IS NOT DISGUSTING. IT HAPPENS.


HiddenTalents02

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« Reply #1 on: 30 November 2020, 01:33:03 pm »
After the no thanks response I would of just moved on. Some are understanding, some aren’t. You explained, you apologised. Nothing else you can do.

I don’t think he was saying periods are disgusting, more he thinks you sending him a photo of that is. (Could be completely wrong though)

Miffy

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« Reply #2 on: 30 November 2020, 01:45:38 pm »
It is a client's prerogative to cancel for whatever reason, just as it is your prerogative to do the same. On this note alone, you should have just dropped it when he declined to meet after your admission.

I mostly think you broke the fantasy of it and showed yourself to be a real human being. 

I absolutely concur with HiddenTalents, I don't think he was saying periods are disgusting, it was more your decision to send the bloody toilet roll.


eastkate

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« Reply #3 on: 30 November 2020, 02:07:56 pm »
Yes you're both right, but I just felt backed into a corner and that I had to prove myself. It wasn't a disgusting image it was faint blood on tissue.

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« Reply #4 on: 30 November 2020, 04:39:59 pm »
You should never feel backed into a corner or guilty for not fulfilling plans made. You’re human  :-*

Sending the used tissue picture is probably definitely TMI but I giggle at the thought of his face opening it.  ;)

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« Reply #5 on: 30 November 2020, 04:46:02 pm »
Ugh I would have probably done the same! move on and forget about it x.

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« Reply #6 on: 01 December 2020, 12:47:53 am »
Sounds like you probably panicked. Whenever I have a period and it can come on on the day I just apologize and am just honest about it. They are all ok with it and I just rearrange the booking in a few days time.

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« Reply #7 on: 01 December 2020, 08:48:39 am »
Honestly, I would have reacted the same way as him. I don't want to see anyone's blood, menstrual or otherwise. I can't blame him for his response,  a big turn off. Way too much information!

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« Reply #8 on: 01 December 2020, 09:21:51 am »
I would be very put off by anyone sending me a bloody tissue paper, not only is pretty gross but it's slightly creepy. On the other hand I believe you dodged a bullet with him, he seems like a dominant type that "audition" thing which sounds more like submissive roleplay stuff that should have been properly discussed beforehand. The thing is that this couple wanted a girl for that evening, you were not available so they called someone else. That's the way it works. Don't brainstorm about it.
« Last Edit: 01 December 2020, 10:35:48 am by ana30 »
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« Reply #9 on: 01 December 2020, 10:17:20 am »
Yeah it was probably a bit much to send the picture, but to be honest if they've already haggled and he wants to 'audition' you (eurgh) I wouldn't lose any sleep over not having him as a client. I'd just try to forget about it.

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« Reply #10 on: 01 December 2020, 11:16:33 am »
I love that you sent the ignorant cunt this. No less than it deserved!  :D

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« Reply #11 on: 01 December 2020, 12:01:22 pm »
I agree the haggling is a no. And when I hear the word 'audition'...it's a no. This ain't the X factor.
Their bad reviews are a no too. Lucky escape.
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« Reply #12 on: 01 December 2020, 12:07:46 pm »
I think they would have been hard work and rude if you done the booking. They do not sound like decent people well the man doesn't anyway. If they had some bad reviews too that speaks volumes. Sending blood tissue was certainly a controversial thing to do but funny as well. Who cares if he was disgusted by it he obviously has bad manners himself and i bet has been rude or boundary pushing with past escorts as to why his reviews are mixed.

It might even be a situation where his partner is pushed into doing threesums as he is dominating i have heard of this happening before.

eastkate

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« Reply #13 on: 01 December 2020, 01:56:45 pm »
I would be very put off by anyone sending me a bloody tissue paper, not only is pretty gross but it's slightly creepy. On the other hand I believe you dodged a bullet with him, he seems like a dominant type that "audition" thing which sounds more like submissive roleplay stuff that should have been properly discussed beforehand. The thing is that this couple wanted a girl for that evening, you were not available so they called someone else. That's the way it works. Don't brainstorm about it.

I don't think its gross or creepy, the guy got in a strop because he either thought I was lying or was annoyed at the fact that I had a period, the fact that there is stigma around period's anymore is archaic and in no way are they gross, I wish this whole blue liquid advertising would change and then maybe entitled guys like this wouldn't exist. I just feel sorry for his girlfriend and actually don't regret sending him the picture at all. In fact I think it was artistic but maybe that's because I'm a huge Emin fan.

You're probably right, I shouldn't brainstorm it at all. And yes from the videos he sent me it looked at tho their previous threesomes had been aimed in his direction so probably right there too.

BURN THE BRAS   * edit - not my La Perla, Agent Prov or VS ones for the record
« Last Edit: 01 December 2020, 02:03:12 pm by eastkate »

Sugarx23

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« Reply #14 on: 01 December 2020, 02:14:59 pm »
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I don't think its gross or creepy, the guy got in a strop because he either thought I was lying or was annoyed at the fact that I had a period

Periods happen! It happens  :) Honestly I wouldn't feel weird about it. If he wants to insinuate you are lying then you have deffo provided perfect evidence.
More power to you - let's normalise our bodily functions. My blood isn't blue :)  :angel: The audition part was puuuure crap - I think your image brought Mr high & mighty back down to Earth.

Bollocks to him, I think you have dodged a bullet massively.  :)
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