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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: gorgeoussexysam on 07 March 2011, 07:06:06 pm
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Hi girls, need some advice.
New client wants tie and tease on wed morning and ive not done it before. Trying to branch out from just the usual GFE i provide. Can you give me any tips on what to wear and what to do? I have a sort of idea but i want to be confident with it as if ive always done it as he says he may want to make it a regular thing if he enjoys our time together. Wasnt able to find an existing thread on this. Any sort of help on this would be great.
Love Sam x
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erm, i assume it's what it says on the tin, but i wouldn't mind a little help with this one. in particular what you advise using for the tie bit (if poss without spending on specialist stuff)
sorry thats no help to you Sam. :-[
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Actually not as scary it seems, simply blindfold him and tie him up. You might find once he's blind folded you will feel more confident with him not watching and your free to be yourself as it where. You're simply trying too stimulate his senses, by taking some away it heightens others. This includes his hearing so you can play with that too
It can be lots of fun, so see it as game you're playing and enjoy ;)
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This is a speciality of mine and I always liken it to playing the guy like a sexual instrument. Having him loosly tied and blindfolded naked on the bed. Do ask if he has any allergies before you start.
Think of the film nine and a half weeks. Think of what you can stimulate his senses with. Feathers, leather, soft whips, silk gloves, chocolate, fruit, ice. Progress slowly and slowly build it up so that you stimulate his body first and then his nether regions. Dont forget to use your body too. I dont get naked until he is blindfolded then brush my body on his to let him know that I am now naked. I usually finish off with letting them go so they can get their hands on me or a baby oil hand job, depending on his preference.
Good luck and enjoy.
Penny x x
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I like to strip during the session, so to start with I'm brushing against them with say a silky nightie, then undies, then naked. Let him hear or feel you removing your clothes.
Don't be afraid to pause sometimes. Have a little think about what you're going to do next and build tension.
You can pass liquid from your mouth to his, so you could give him a taste of wine or something, and also give him a mouthful of water now and then so he stays comfortable.
Silk scarves are poplar as ties. Personally, I use strips of jersey fabric since that's what I already had (I made them as my first bondage toys when I was 17). They're soft and slightly stretchy which is good for soft bondage; with a bit of looping they feel secure, but they still slip off at the end so I can leave dealing with the knots for later.
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I just use old stockings. Very economical and stretchy and soft.
I am not a fan as I like hands on me, so I make sure they are very loosely tied and can escape!
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lol i love tie and teas as my flat is my own i went to b&Q and bought four little metal plates with d hook on them i got them screwed into the floor on all four sides of the bed
then it was off to pet city for lots of choke chain dog collars and leads and some small d rings and mountain clips
for 30 quid i have the best set of tie and tease equipment
i even took my dogs collar which has lots of studs so that i can put it on there necks and restrain them like that as well my doggy has a new collar though
i can put the dog chain on the metal hook/plate on the floor then attach the collars for wrist and feet restraints and it works brilliantly
then when they are tied up like a chicken i can nip of to harvy nick and do some shopping ;D
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then when they are tied up like a chicken i can nip of to harvy nick and do some shopping ;D
I feel like a spoilsport here, but I don't want anyone getting dangerous ideas so: folks, the above is a joke. Never leave a physically restrained person unattended. (Also, most tie & tease clients aren't proper subs, so try not to scare them.)
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I have an underbed restraint thingy for those who like to be tied properly, which is great, for the softer I have this: http://www.annsummers.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?productId=95651&storeId=10001&catalogId=40151&langId=-1 which feels lovely.
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lol yeah it was definatly a joke - although sometimes tempted
then when they are tied up like a chicken i can nip of to harvy nick and do some shopping ;D
I feel like a spoilsport here, but I don't want anyone getting dangerous ideas so: folks, the above is a joke. Never leave a physically restrained person unattended. (Also, most tie & tease clients aren't proper subs, so try not to scare them.)