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seraphine

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Tie & Tease ideas
« on: 02 April 2018, 12:09:08 pm »
I used to offer Tie&Tease in the past, but haven't done many such sessions and didn't really put my heart into it.
I'd like to expand my massage repertoire now, so would appreciate any ideas and comments.

My understanding is that it's a process of gradually waking up the body and building up pleasure/ tension.
If you disable some senses, it heightens others, right? So you can blindfold (sight), put on ear defenders (hearing).
Stimulate the senses: touch, smell, taste.

Switching from hot to cold (ice cubes/ hot oil?), pleasure/ denial.
Breath play combined with smell?? (a cloth with drops of essential oils?)

In terms of equipment:
- Whips, feather ticklers, pin wheels (you can get them with 1 or 5 rows; I'm thinking of having 2 pin wheels so that I can move them on both sides of the body simultaneously)
- Few times I used massage candles from Lovehoney but one costed like ?5, smelled lovely and was great but only lasted for one session.
I had 'dripping candles' used on me but they leave such a mess.
- I'm really tempted by kinklab electrical wand!
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Re: Tie & Tease ideas
« Reply #1 on: 02 April 2018, 07:07:29 pm »
I think the requirements vary from client to client. I've not had many of these bookings but every one of them has asked for something different.

One guy asked me to blindfold him as soon as he came in the room (he had the fee in his hand ready for me) and then basically give him a fantasy of being totally controlled by an anonymous woman.

One guy asked me to tie his hands and feet so he couldn't touch me, and I was to hover my boobs and pussy millimeters from his face, and my mouth millimeters from his cock, until I decided he'd been good enough to be rewarded.

Another guy brought his own restraints and he wanted me to tie him really tight and then roleplay that I was going to make him cum, but he didn't want to. He was saying "no, let me go" throughout (we had a safe word.) That was actually hot as balls!

I only work from hotels so I'm limited in terms of equipment. Which is a shame because I'd like to do more domination bookings. I'm not into inflicting pain but I really like bossing them around :D
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Re: Tie & Tease ideas
« Reply #2 on: 02 April 2018, 07:17:08 pm »
I used to offer Tie&Tease in the past, but haven't done many such sessions and didn't really put my heart into it.
I'd like to expand my massage repertoire so would appreciate any ideas and comments.

My current understanding is that it's a process of gradually waking up the body and building up pleasure/ tension.
If you disable some senses, it heightens others, right? So you can blindfold (sight), put on ear defenders (hearing).
Stimulate the senses: touch, smell, taste.

Switching from hot to cold (ice cubes/ hot oil?), pleasure/ denial.
Breath play combined with smell?? (a cloth with drops of essential oils?)

In terms of equipment:
- Whips, feather ticklers, pin wheels
- Few times I used massage candles from Lovehoney but one costed like ?5, smelled lovely and was great but only lasted for one session.
I had 'dripping candles' used on me but they leave such a mess.
- I'm really tempted by kinklab electrical wand!
I was thinking of offering the same too with my massages, youv asked all the questions I was thinking about and Im going to do some research on the linklab electrical wand you have mentioned  ;)

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Re: Tie & Tease ideas
« Reply #3 on: 03 April 2018, 01:39:14 am »
I tie my gents up with hold ups/stockings and tell them if they get loose or undo the loose knots I made, they have to do a forfeit.  Now depending how kinky or twatty the client is, it could be a sexual forfeit or for the twatty ones financial 😇

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Re: Tie & Tease ideas
« Reply #4 on: 03 April 2018, 09:14:08 am »
I used to offer Tie&Tease in the past, but haven't done many such sessions and didn't really put my heart into it.
I'd like to expand my massage repertoire so would appreciate any ideas and comments.

My current understanding is that it's a process of gradually waking up the body and building up pleasure/ tension.
If you disable some senses, it heightens others, right? So you can blindfold (sight), put on ear defenders (hearing).
Stimulate the senses: touch, smell, taste.

Switching from hot to cold (ice cubes/ hot oil?), pleasure/ denial.
Breath play combined with smell?? (a cloth with drops of essential oils?)

In terms of equipment:
- Whips, feather ticklers, pin wheels
- Few times I used massage candles from Lovehoney but one costed like ?5, smelled lovely and was great but only lasted for one session.
I had 'dripping candles' used on me but they leave such a mess.
- I'm really tempted by kinklab electrical wand!

This is excellent helpful thanks for some tips to try  :)

seraphine

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Re: Tie & Tease ideas
« Reply #5 on: 03 April 2018, 11:57:13 am »
I was thinking of offering the same too with my massages, youv asked all the questions I was thinking about and Im going to do some research on the linklab electrical wand you have mentioned  ;)
This Kinklab wand costs almost ?100 at Lovehoney, ?90 on Amazon but might be a good idea.

Does anyone have a tried method of tying a client to the massage table?
I'm thinking of buying velcro tape.

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Re: Tie & Tease ideas
« Reply #6 on: 03 April 2018, 01:15:02 pm »
I bought one of those wands and it was a total waste of money, and went down like a lead balloon with my clients.  I ended up giving it away in the end.  It was not sensual at all, and ruined the mood, others may find different, but I would not bother with one.


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Re: Tie & Tease ideas
« Reply #7 on: 03 April 2018, 06:50:02 pm »
I tie my gents up with hold ups/stockings and tell them if they get loose or undo the loose knots I made, they have to do a forfeit.  Now depending how kinky or twatty the client is, it could be a sexual forfeit or for the twatty ones financial 😇
Haha that's brilliant   ;D

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Re: Tie & Tease ideas
« Reply #8 on: 03 April 2018, 06:56:25 pm »
In hotels what I do for tie and tease ( and I do a lot of it ) is I have a set of 4 long Velcro hand & feet restraints
I always keep my old stockings and I tie a stocking to to each restraint and then I can tie the stocking  to the bed legs

It means that there is some give in the restraints because of the stockings and I can just cut the stockings when I want to remove the restraint otherwise the restraints  just aren't long enough
To tie someone up effectively
This way I can tie them up as tight or as lose as I want to.

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Re: Tie & Tease ideas
« Reply #9 on: 04 April 2018, 10:57:14 am »
A few times for tie and tease I have used clingfilm. I wrap them all up and cut a hole for their cock. And they love it.
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Re: Tie & Tease ideas
« Reply #10 on: 17 August 2018, 04:33:01 pm »
something Ive done now and again, not overly requested but usually with some regular clients who love that stuff!
I keep a spare bag full of bits and pieces for just that type of scenario; some cuffs, silk scarves, blindfold and ballgag. Must admit I do like playing mistress, taking control, teasing a client whose bound, gagged and helpless. I've had some pretty full on requests over the years but I always keep it simple. Besides Im not the best knot tier; once a tied a client to a hotel bed with stockings and had to use scissors to cut them off! silk scarves and stockings will knot like buggery if youre not careful!

When I was escorting full time I always used to get requests for the reverse. But no way would I let a complete stranger restrain me regardless of what he offered. I have been softly bound and gagged by one very trusted client and in model shoots which is totally different with professional photographers. But it is fun when youre working and get to take control from time to time! I enjoy it :)