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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: igraine on 02 September 2014, 11:27:00 pm
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Hi
Got my first T and T in a few days, I have seen him before a few times, he is gorgeous. He wants me to tie him up and edge him til he screams (his words), I work out of a place where the beds have posts so that is helpful. Stockings? Silk scarves? I have both.......I am more concerned about how to tie the wrists, (should I do ankles as well?), knots and so forth not being my thing, I want to do it right so he cant get free. Any tips really appreciated.
Thanks.x
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If you have the time and the money, look into velcro bondage cuffs. Just tie something to them and the bed, then use the cuffs on them - they can't get out, it can't get too tight, and it's easy for you to do and remove.
Otherwise, tie a bow, then pull one loop through. That leaves a knot with one loop which is easy to undo (just pull that loop through too). You do need to be more careful with the tightness on wrists and ankles though - if you can't get a finger between whatever and them, it's too tight. A pile of sites will give more clues.
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Use handcuffs tie with ropes together, then press down under mattress or tie with the bed. Make sure you have enough ropes x
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Metal handcuffs tend to be uncomfortable if not actively risky -make sure that they cannot be tightened further once on.
Other bondage cuffs exist, but the fabric velcro ones tend to be lighter and cheaper than the butch leather and rubber ones with straps.
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Thanks. I did see the Velcro cuffs as part of a whole kit which was quite expensive, thought I would see how it goes before investing but in the meantime I will see if i can find just the Velcro cuffs in time for the appointment, failing that i will start practising my bows! The rope scenario might be a bit beyond me but thank you.x
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I have these Velcro restraints but you can actually tie them to the bed post /legs I have four of them so I can also tie together and slide under the bed if there are no post
Paid ?30 from love honey and had them years
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You can also get velcro wrist and ankle cuffs that have an attachment that go under the mattress too. Cost about ?20/?40.
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You can also get velcro wrist and ankle cuffs that have an attachment that go under the mattress too. Cost about ?20/?40.
I have these as well they have a D ring in the middle but I find the other better for touring
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I know it's simple but literally eye contact is the best in tie and tease. Sort out a basic routine. Maybe watch porn of tie and tease (be warned not full on bondage stuff)