See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

« previous next »
Pages: [1]

Author Topic: After advice please  (Read 2037 times)

Kinkyink

  • New Member
  • *
  • Posts: 2
After advice please
« on: 01 May 2024, 06:49:53 pm »
Hi Guys

I've been camming on adultwork for a while now and slowing becoming intrigued with starting escorting when i have regulars asking me.
i joined here a few weeks ago and read a fair few topics and the warnings tab and it kinda scared me a bit but i guess my question is, can you have a option to pick and choose on AW who you'd meet?
Would i change my profile to seeking services so i can then chat during cam about meeting as at the moment my camming agency said you can get your account suspended if you do talk about it but dont offer it on your profile?
I'd only be able to offer out calls to so do you think that would hinder my client base?
I'm just trying to research as much as i can before taking the plunge xx
Logged

amy

  • Administrator
  • Sr. Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 15,742
Re: After advice please
« Reply #1 on: 01 May 2024, 09:06:23 pm »
Hi Kinkyink and welcome :)

First and foremost you can (and will) turn down a punter for any reason you like; not wanting to see them is a reason. Adultwork is just one of many advertising platforms, and how you choose to work is nothing to do with them. I have idea idea about anything to do with webcamming though, so I'll leave that for somebody else.

Being outcall only will limit things a bit, but a lot depends on where you are and when you're available. If you have other sources of income then I'd give it a go and just be very picky - you might want to stick to hotels for starters rather than private residences but either way, make sure you have a security buddy who knows where you are and is expecting to hear from you.
Logged

Jessiegirl

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 935
Re: After advice please
« Reply #2 on: 11 May 2024, 03:46:46 pm »
Even if you see someone and don't enjoy his company for whatever reason and don't want to see them again I normally say I don't think we are compatible .

Also might be an idea to restrict booking time to say an hour max so you can see if you get on with an option to extend if you enjoy their company.

As mentioned above get a security buddy and call or text them once you arrive.
Logged

GucciGang

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 876
Re: After advice please
« Reply #3 on: 11 May 2024, 05:28:24 pm »
This is why you see a lot of beautiful cam models rates as £500 an hour. So they can lure men in on cam thinking they are going to sleep with them but at a really high rate.

You can only vet your clients over text to get an idea of what they are like IE age,ethnicity, nationality. But this doesn’t guarantee a good client. A lot of clients don’t like paying deposits but you could add a low deposit of £20 to avoid time wasters.

Be careful working from your own home I’ve known clients who get obsessive to out girls to neighbours or turn up unexpected. Would suggest starting in a hotel to make yourself safer.
Logged

Serendipitydo

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 221
  • Nobody's rules but my own.
Re: After advice please
« Reply #4 on: 11 May 2024, 11:31:22 pm »
Quote from: GucciGang on 11 May 2024, 05:28:24 pm
This is why you see a lot of beautiful cam models rates as £500 an hour. So they can lure men in on cam thinking they are going to sleep with them but at a really high rate.

You can only vet your clients over text to get an idea of what they are like IE age,ethnicity, nationality. But this doesn’t guarantee a good client. A lot of clients don’t like paying deposits but you could add a low deposit of £20 to avoid time wasters.

Be careful working from your own home I’ve known clients who get obsessive to out girls to neighbours or turn up unexpected. Would suggest starting in a hotel to make yourself safer.

All of the above is great advice, I'd like to add that when I see a new person at home, even after my vetting, I only give them the postcode. I tell them where to wait and if I look out of the window and it doesn't look like something I want to do, I just f it off!

Plus, if it doesn't feel right, don't go there.

As working ladies, we have to attune our "spider senses"... you know in your soul if something isn't right, listen to that instinct, it's there for a reason and it will keep you safe.
Logged
More Fatass than Badass!

amy

  • Administrator
  • Sr. Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 15,742
Re: After advice please
« Reply #5 on: 12 May 2024, 12:22:19 am »
Quote from: Kinkyink on 01 May 2024, 06:49:53 pm
I'd only be able to offer out calls

For those who missed it :)
Logged

Serendipitydo

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 221
  • Nobody's rules but my own.
Re: After advice please
« Reply #6 on: 12 May 2024, 12:23:54 am »
Quote from: amy on 12 May 2024, 12:22:19 am
For those who missed it :)

Noted, but I still think that it was worth saying x
Logged
More Fatass than Badass!

amy

  • Administrator
  • Sr. Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 15,742
Re: After advice please
« Reply #7 on: 12 May 2024, 12:25:35 am »
Quote from: Serendipitydo on 12 May 2024, 12:23:54 am
Noted, but I still think that it was worth saying x

It wasn't just you SD :)
Logged

Serendipitydo

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 221
  • Nobody's rules but my own.
Re: After advice please
« Reply #8 on: 12 May 2024, 12:26:54 am »
Quote from: amy on 12 May 2024, 12:22:19 am
For those who missed it :)


... and even for outcalls, I still do the same. Vague address and a damn good look at em
Logged
More Fatass than Badass!

Serendipitydo

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 221
  • Nobody's rules but my own.
Re: After advice please
« Reply #9 on: 12 May 2024, 12:28:09 am »
Quote from: Serendipitydo on 12 May 2024, 12:26:54 am

... and even for outcalls, I still do the same. Vague address and a damn good look at em

Sorry, I mean on tour
Logged
More Fatass than Badass!

Serendipitydo

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 221
  • Nobody's rules but my own.
Re: After advice please
« Reply #10 on: 12 May 2024, 12:33:58 am »
I've had times when I have looked out of my touring apartment and thought to myself, NO WAY, there have also, admittedly not many times, but there's been more than one turn up...only in Birmingham, but you have to keep on your toes
Logged
More Fatass than Badass!

Kinkyink

  • New Member
  • *
  • Posts: 2
Re: After advice please
« Reply #11 on: 26 May 2024, 05:54:23 pm »
Thank you so much for the replies guys! Sorry i've only just seen them.
I'm still highly considering it, i've got a few regular camming clients who have been asking for meets, and tbh i do find camming a chore sometimes as my agency take 50%!

x
Logged

Mirror

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 7,012
Re: After advice please
« Reply #12 on: 26 May 2024, 08:58:50 pm »
Quote from: Kinkyink on 26 May 2024, 05:54:23 pm
Thank you so much for the replies guys! Sorry i've only just seen them.
I'm still highly considering it, i've got a few regular camming clients who have been asking for meets, and tbh i do find camming a chore sometimes as my agency take 50%!

x

Do be aware many cam clients will talk about in-person bookings (on the sites that allow talk about physical meetings or clients who book cam directly) but never get around to it. However some do follow through.
Logged

LLucyWx

  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 10
Re: After advice please
« Reply #13 on: 02 June 2024, 10:56:14 pm »
Hiii kinkyink,

I’ve just recently started escorting (6ish weeks ago) after doing cam and phone calls for nearly 4yrs.
I know it won’t be the same for everyone, but I personally find it the best decision I have ever made. I am outcall only, and still get asked daily if I’m available for incalls which is irritating, but I do still get clients.
I also won’t see people in their homes if they have no feedback (good excuse to turn people down if they give me bad vibes, which is usually validated when they get pushy after)

As long as you stay safe, I’d definitely say give it a go!x
Logged
Pages: [1]
« previous next »