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Jessiegirl

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Threesomes
« on: 21 January 2021, 04:17:24 pm »
One of my clients has asked for a threesome with a bi guy. I said fine. I don't know anyone up for it so he suggested a male escort which I was fine with. He wants to watch the male escort have sex with me first.

Now that I've thought about it a bit more the escort is getting it for free with me plus getting paid by my client.

Has anyone done this before and how do you work out what should be charged. Should I charge the escort.

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« Reply #1 on: 21 January 2021, 06:54:19 pm »
Yes, I've done scenes with duo and multi males. I normally charge double. Or for multi males, which you need more time for- a fat lump sum that covers several hours, so whatever we do I'm paid, chilled and not concerned with penny counting.

I'd charge the client a duo fee, for 2 people.
Whatever fee arrangement he has with the 'spare cock' is their business. Not your concern.

Ignore that the mystery cock is 'supposedly an escort', he could be his best mate for all you know. Whatever the reality I agree, giving free fucks isn't professional.
« Last Edit: 22 January 2021, 01:33:52 pm by saltysweet »

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« Reply #2 on: 22 January 2021, 03:48:15 pm »
If the male escort is a professional like you, I assume he'd see having sex with you as part of his job, for which he's getting paid by your client, i.e. it would be a bit bizarre to charge him. You just need to make sure you're happy with your fee.
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« Reply #3 on: 22 January 2021, 04:13:39 pm »
I agree Kay. And just a side thought- if he's a professional I ask the client for his profile/website to check if he's the kind of person I want to interact with.

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« Reply #4 on: 22 January 2021, 04:51:26 pm »
If the client wants to involve another guy then he should be paying you the extra for your interaction with him, if the other guy really is an escort and he has to pay him a fee too that's his problem not yours. Why should he get his fantasy at your expense?
 Special scenarios cost and if that's what he wants to see then he's going to have to pay for it.

Jessiegirl

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Re: Threesomes
« Reply #5 on: 22 January 2021, 04:56:40 pm »
So he has found two male escorts on AW who are both happy to do the job. I haven't checked them out yet but will if i decide to go ahead with this.

I will mention that I want double rate for this. Thanks for advice on this as I never even considered charging double.

saltysweet

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« Reply #6 on: 22 January 2021, 06:52:21 pm »
 :) hope it goes well Jessie!

Jessiegirl

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« Reply #7 on: 22 January 2021, 11:56:41 pm »
He's come back saying he can't afford double rate. He's happy to watch and wank. I think that seems fair. I think he has a bit of a complex about the size of his cock and keeps saying he wants a guy with a fair sized cock to satisfy me. I'm happy with that.

saltysweet

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« Reply #8 on: 23 January 2021, 12:29:52 am »
If you're totally happy with the fee, cool.
If the deal is he's a voyeur who doesn't participate in activity and penetration with you...and he sticks to that agreement without wriggling out of it in the session, cool also.

It's your choices and what you feel comfortable with.
« Last Edit: 23 January 2021, 02:31:45 am by saltysweet »

Jessiegirl

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« Reply #9 on: 23 January 2021, 10:07:20 am »
Initially he wanted to watch but then join in with us both. He says he's happy to watch and wank but I guess I need to remind him on the day as sometimes our best plans go out of the window in the heat of the moment.

He wants time to play with the male escort so I can take time out then and leave them to it or maybe watch.

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« Reply #10 on: 23 January 2021, 11:08:03 am »
I guess I need to remind him on the day as sometimes our best plans go out of the window in the heat of the moment

Yes, I suspect you'll need to do that more than once.

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« Reply #11 on: 23 January 2021, 11:54:01 am »
He wants time to play with the male escort so I can take time out then and leave them to it or maybe watch.

Slightly OT but I always cringe at the term "play with" - just brings to mind taking my son on play dates, I always get a mental picture of the client sitting in a sandpit building sandcastles whilst wearing shorts and velcro trainers :D

I do hope it goes okay Jessie. I get asked for MMF quite a lot but I've never felt comfortable with it. I did once have a completely spontaneous one with my ex-FWB and a client and it was fun. Maybe I need to cultivate a new FWB as I don't think any of my regulars would be up for it.

BTW is this the same regular who wanted the shower sex? If so it sounds like he has a whole fantasy wank bank he wants to work his way through!
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saltysweet

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Re: Threesomes
« Reply #12 on: 23 January 2021, 01:17:00 pm »
A phrase that springs to mind is, 'Champagne appetite on a beer budget'. When a fantasy is modified like this due to financial restraints the punter can set himself up for disappointment. Usually they offload the blame and resentment onto the provider(s).

You know him already, so if you predict him doing a bit of emotional blackmail for unpaid services at the gig...you're probably right.
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« Reply #13 on: 23 January 2021, 04:23:02 pm »
No he wouldn't do anything bad or disrespectful and never have. Yes its the same guy wanting shower sex. He does come up with all those fantasies and I've managed to do a couple of them.A lot of the time once he's here it all goes out the window and we end up doing what we normally do.

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Re: Threesomes
« Reply #14 on: 23 January 2021, 04:29:02 pm »
As your client has suggested a male escort of his choice; I would be charging him for an MMF (i.e. the price you would charge for a 2 guy booking). It's no different than if he invited his mate along.

The client will therefore be paying the 2-guy rate to you, and the male escort will be paying nothing (and possibly be receiving a payment of his own through the client). That's fine, you're still getting paid for two blokes. Don't absorb the costs, or charge any rate, to the male escort. Payment is the client's job; the male escort is a third party like you are.

Charge the client fully for 2 guys, at a rate that will make you comfortable and happy within the booking. It's what he expects and has asked for.