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EnglishAmy40

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Three hour booking coming up and dreading it.
« on: 23 March 2017, 11:18:33 pm »
I really do prefer the fuck and goes but got talked into a three hour booking coming up this weekend and I'm dreading it. I can be the sexy fake me for an hour tops and have never done a three hour booking before. I wanted to ask if anyone else has done a two/three hour sesh and how do you play it? I imagine it's hard work trying to be a sex kitten for three hours when in reality I'm a slob who can't be arsed with people most of the time.

I spose we will have sesh number 1 and then have a drink, clean up, chat and then onto sesh number two. I'm dreading the inbetween bit though cos I know I'll want to yawn. How did it play out for you?

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Re: Three hour booking coming up and dreading it.
« Reply #1 on: 23 March 2017, 11:29:19 pm »
It really depends on the client. If he is interesting, funny and chatty the time goes very fast. As you can have some really good convo between the sessions. But if he is too demanding and kind of boring it drains me completely. Its bit hard to play sex kitten 3 hours as since I started this job I am less interested in sex (i know it sounds strange but now its just a normal routine involvig alot of acting). But hopefully your client will be nice and chatty guy and you will enjoy your time. Not yawning is very hard tough. I try my best but sometimes cant help it  ;D
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Re: Three hour booking coming up and dreading it.
« Reply #2 on: 23 March 2017, 11:30:44 pm »
If you feel so bad about doing such a long booking then my opinion is you should not do it. You don't say if it is a man you have met before but either way if you hate the idea of it then what if you ask him to cut the booking down by half? You could make up some excuse about family or something.

I have done long bookings in the past and while not hating them as much as you feel you might I did not enjoy them and wished the time would go by faster.  Nowadays I do max 1.5 hours as that is my limit for giving my best.

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Re: Three hour booking coming up and dreading it.
« Reply #3 on: 23 March 2017, 11:32:13 pm »
Have you seen this client before?

It's funny for me because the only client I've ever accepted for more than 2hrs was the one who I promoted to boyfriend status :D All of my other clients, as much as I like them and value their custom, I'm not sure if I'd want to spend more than 2hrs max.

If you're really dreading it, any chance of contacting him and saying "So sorry but I forgot I had a prior appointment, I can only manage 2hrs on Sunday"?
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Re: Three hour booking coming up and dreading it.
« Reply #4 on: 23 March 2017, 11:32:21 pm »
I won't do bookings any longer than 2 hours unless I know the guy well and I know some of it will be chilling and having a drink or whatever.

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Re: Three hour booking coming up and dreading it.
« Reply #5 on: 23 March 2017, 11:41:08 pm »
I'd not have taken the booking unless I'd met him before and knew we would get on: like others above I see new clients for two hours max. I find 1.5h fine, but the last 30m can really drag if you don't get on. Even the only person I regularly saw for 2h, the last 30m - at his behest - would normally be a cup of tea and a natter  downstairs.

Perhaps start off with a drink and a discussion of what he's looking to do. Then a shower for him, and if you have another drink/break midway that's 30m gone already. He may want another shower at the end, or a long chat whilst your cuddling. If he wants e.g. prolonged tie and tease or something that will eat into the time as well.

It should be fine, but I wouldn't put yourself in that situation again!
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Re: Three hour booking coming up and dreading it.
« Reply #6 on: 23 March 2017, 11:45:28 pm »
If he's the kind who loves to hear himself talk then all you have to do is lie draped over him and make encouraging noises and stroke his chest with your fingertips or something. If it looks like he's winding down just ask questions. The old listen, stroke, cuddle or lsc as I call it makes time fly by. If he doesn't like to talk then that's more difficult. It's unlikely though because he wouldn't have booked so long if he didn't want to have a bit of a chat. You can offer him a massage or bath together if you have a bath. You can also put on a show like striptease or masturbate. If he's got the stamina of a bull and intends to fuck for 3 hrs straight then I don't know what to tell you.

If you really don't think you can't do it ask for a shorter booking. Or give him a partial refund and tell him to leave early if you can't do anymore.

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Re: Three hour booking coming up and dreading it.
« Reply #7 on: 24 March 2017, 08:46:56 am »
Nearly all my bookings are between 2-5 hours because i market myself as a gfe. I usually just have a glass of wine or two and have a few conversation starters up your sleeve. Be prepared to talk more than him but you can just make stuff up or pretend you went to a holiday destination (you went to lile 2 years ago) more recently and talk about that etc.
If i get a booking longer than an hour we ususally chat for an hour or so before and then go to bed and then chat for a bit afyer! I'm sure youll be fine xx

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Re: Three hour booking coming up and dreading it.
« Reply #8 on: 24 March 2017, 08:59:46 am »
I had a 4 hr booking not long ago and I mentaly divided it up into hourly slots. The first hour was just as a typical booking would have been, the second hour we chatted and after about 45 mins started with the sexy stuff again but slowly. Then the third hour I gave him a massage which made him really zone out then a quicky to finish.

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Re: Three hour booking coming up and dreading it.
« Reply #9 on: 24 March 2017, 09:36:29 am »
Oh dear.
You will be fine.
Maybe, if you're really lucky, he will leave early lol.
Ok. I do them like once every couple of months. When the guy is fun time flies by and you don't even notice it, really. It's just sex, chat, offer a shower together maybe, throw in a bit of massage.
I always have something like grapes or strawberries ready (that's because fuck me i get hungry lol) and they really appreciate it.
Worst types are guys who don't talk. That's just mentally draining. I never understood why they book that long. Or guys who just talk about themselves.

If it comes to the worst you can always cut it short to 2 hours. I did it once and offered refund for the rest of the time. Some guys have eyes bigger than stomach so they don't realise at all how long 3 hours is. Good luck xxx

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Re: Three hour booking coming up and dreading it.
« Reply #10 on: 24 March 2017, 10:30:02 am »
I find that worrying about it doesn't help, and a positive mind set does help. Also not looking at the clock, and enjoying it - it's not everyone who gets paid hundreds for a few hours really helps me. As does remembering some of the really tedious nobe sex work jobs I've done.

Easy to get resentful, when really it can be enjoyable if you make it that way.

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Re: Three hour booking coming up and dreading it.
« Reply #11 on: 24 March 2017, 11:07:41 am »
I find that worrying about it doesn't help, and a positive mind set does help. Also not looking at the clock, and enjoying it - it's not everyone who gets paid hundreds for a few hours really helps me. As does remembering some of the really tedious nobe sex work jobs I've done.

Easy to get resentful, when really it can be enjoyable if you make it that way.

It's true. I have my playlist that sets me in good mood anyway. Worst that I had was the guy next to me and me just sitting there chatting away through the whole booking time. Because some of those guys don't really want sex. Some are just lonely and want company. And some people just like silence.
It's hard when you get someone who's "obnoxious", that's hard to work with. It's impossible, at least for me, when you get someone who thinks they can pound you for 3 hours non stop (which is why it has been made clear on the phone before meeting that no, no way). I had a few long bookings that were awesome fun, they were still draining just because they were long.

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Re: Three hour booking coming up and dreading it.
« Reply #12 on: 24 March 2017, 12:52:19 pm »
I had a 3hr booking recently and as it was early evening I made it clear to the guy that I'll have to have a break midway to order room service as I won't have eaten before the visit.
He was fine with that and it broke up the booking, but he was a nightmare.
Kept going soft and having to work hard to get him up again and constant shagging, well attempting too.
I hated it and just the thought of that big wedge of notes in my bag got me through it.

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Re: Three hour booking coming up and dreading it.
« Reply #13 on: 24 March 2017, 01:12:36 pm »
When I started, my second booking ever was a 3 hour outcall. It was summertime, early afternoon. The guy went grocery shopping after talking to me on the phone and we cooked lunch together and had sex and sat in his garden. That was probably the best booking I ever had  ;D If only I could get more of these haha!

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Re: Three hour booking coming up and dreading it.
« Reply #14 on: 24 March 2017, 01:33:27 pm »
Many years ago I used to have a regular who kept booking me for 3 hour outcalls and it was dreadful, He was old late 70's and couldn't get a hard on never mind keep one and he smelt of cabbage.
He was pleasant enough but the time seemed to drag.
It felt like the longest hour was the first hour, when I got into the second hour I used to think Okay I'm half way thought I can do this then I'd count down the minutes of the last hour.
I hated the booking but I had to act like I was enjoying it, I'd grit my teeth, think of the money and somehow get though it.