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Title: This is weird and I need advice
Post by: luciefate on 23 June 2014, 09:07:39 pm
I have only just started advertising and haven't even been on an outcall yet although have a few bookings,

I have taken a call from a lady in London who is looking for fun in my area when she's on business. She has phoned me several times totalling a good two hours! She wants a scenario with her father who she will invite to our meeting and asks me questions about intimate scenarios. I honestly reckon she is getting off on this. She directed me to an xhamster vid of her to show me what she looked like. She is bi and wants that experience too.

She calls on a private number and I don't want to block a I receive other calls. Is she a fantasist?

L x
Title: Re: This is weird and I need advice
Post by: amy on 23 June 2014, 09:50:25 pm
If it's the one I think it is, she's been around for years and there's plenty of references to her in the How Not To Book... thread. She must think it's Christmas if she got two hours of free sex chat from you, but whilst you'll never get that bit of your life back for God's sake don't answer any more withheld calls.

I'd recommend getting a phone that automatically blocks withheld numbers, then you won't even be tempted :).
Title: Re: This is weird and I need advice
Post by: Pink~Princess on 23 June 2014, 10:05:11 pm
More incest stuff  :-X

It's all getting a bit much now lol.

OP answer to your question is yes, she's a fantasist and I think you'll find that others using this forum have had dealings with her.

Never entertain private numbers. They are always non genuine. If you insist on answering a private number then tell them to phone you back with a visible number that you can contact them on, the genuine ones will do this.

xx
Title: Re: This is weird and I need advice
Post by: tvhappiness on 23 June 2014, 10:21:50 pm
If it's the one I think it is, she's been around for years and there's plenty of references to her in the How Not To Book... thread. She must think it's Christmas if she got two hours of free sex chat from you

LOL Oh Amy, you kill me ;D
Title: Re: This is weird and I need advice
Post by: IvyAnarchy on 26 June 2014, 04:21:46 am
You talked to her for two hours?!?! Forget her, get rid of her, and like the other ladies said: don't answer private numbers.
Title: Re: This is weird and I need advice
Post by: Caledonia on 26 June 2014, 10:37:06 am
Or if you do answer withheld numbers, then answer and go "You need to call from a non-withheld number" and hang up, don't even give them the opportunity to get into a meaningless conversation.

If it's a genuine client they will phone back on a non withheld and if they don't phone back well you have saved yourself 2hrs of crap.
Title: Re: This is weird and I need advice
Post by: BibiofLeeds on 26 June 2014, 10:58:41 am
No genuine client wants to yack for 2 hours on the phone, you are an escort not a sex chat line.The genuine ones with an unusual request will usually email a brief outline rather than ring and whitter on about it.
Yes private numbers are best ignored or at best if you answer say immediately that they need to ring back on a number that is not hidden.
This woman is infamous...she got me when I firs started and she went on about having a girlfriend who was an actress in a soap..total nutcase.
Title: Re: This is weird and I need advice
Post by: Grumpy Cow on 26 June 2014, 08:45:17 pm
Yep any call lasting for more than a few minutes tends to be from a time waster.  I answer about half of the calls from private numbers and tell them to call back with the number showing.  Most don't and were not genuine but a few for example had not realised or forgotten about their privacy setting.  In my private life, I never answer withheld numbers.