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Lingerie shopping with clients
« on: 17 May 2024, 05:05:54 pm »
This comes up fairly regularly (usually from more of the old timers) who want to include lingerie shopping as part of a booking. I have done it a few times over the years, visiting a sex shop, a department store and Agent provocateur but I just found the whole experience totally draining cooing over lingerie ??? and admittedly, I am probably not a natural at it, expecting men to pay for my shopping etc.
Anyway it has come up again and I know it sounds a silly question but am I missing a trick? What is the client actually expecting in this scenario?
Do any escorts out there actually enjoy this as part of a booking and how do you go about it? Do you ask the client how much they are willing to spend beforehand or just 'try your luck? and head straight to the expensive section  ;D
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Re: Lingerie shopping with clients
« Reply #1 on: 17 May 2024, 10:06:30 pm »
This comes up fairly regularly (usually from more of the old timers) who want to include lingerie shopping as part of a booking. I have done it a few times over the years, visiting a sex shop, a department store and Agent provocateur but I just found the whole experience totally draining cooing over lingerie ??? and admittedly, I am probably not a natural at it, expecting men to pay for my shopping etc.
Anyway it has come up again and I know it sounds a silly question but am I missing a trick? What is the client actually expecting in this scenario?
Do any escorts out there actually enjoy this as part of a booking and how do you go about it? Do you ask the client how much they are willing to spend beforehand or just 'try your luck? and head straight to the expensive section  ;D
Many thanks

I've had a few that want to do this, it seems to turn them on and they think that they are buying something for "you"..... I have no interest but as long as the time is paid... it's not Xmas is it?

Take the gifts, I say but don't feel obliged.
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Re: Lingerie shopping with clients
« Reply #2 on: 17 May 2024, 10:07:42 pm »
OOOHHH, or the other thing that's working well for me is my Wishlist!!!
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Re: Lingerie shopping with clients
« Reply #3 on: 17 May 2024, 10:12:56 pm »
Oh, and I take them directly to Kurt Geiger, my favourite, All Saints and the designer shops.

If you want to take me shopping, you asked for it!!!

I had one who thought that we'd be going to Dorothy Perkins and I'd be grateful... not on your nelly, I wouldn't wear that stuff, so I'm not playing along if you want to spend £30 on a dress and feel like a hero!
« Last Edit: 17 May 2024, 10:18:30 pm by Serendipitydo »
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Re: Lingerie shopping with clients
« Reply #4 on: 17 May 2024, 10:16:19 pm »
.....I'd rather you paid my electric bill!!!! ;D
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Re: Lingerie shopping with clients
« Reply #5 on: 18 May 2024, 08:27:55 am »
No chance I'm not doing that  :)

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Re: Lingerie shopping with clients
« Reply #6 on: 18 May 2024, 11:13:32 am »
I don't recall any client wanting to take me shopping for anything!  My answer would be no thank you anyway.

Quite a few very nice gifts have arrived with clients though. 👍
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Re: Lingerie shopping with clients
« Reply #7 on: 18 May 2024, 02:55:53 pm »
I've just said I like surprises and given them my sizes. If the receipt is in the bag I can change it, if not I'll put it in a charity bag.
I'd rather just have a tip though so I can buy what I actually like.