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amy

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Re: Thinking to go back to escorting but maybe I am too old?
« Reply #15 on: 13 April 2024, 01:51:09 pm »
Quote from: Tina Sparx on 13 April 2024, 01:43:51 pm
Same! xx

So if we put a photo of you from ten years ago next to one that was taken today, you would look exactly the same with no difference at all?

Anybody can claim to be whatever age they like, but to say that you look ten years younger than you are is ridiculous - it isn't possible because you look like you at X age regardless of what that age is. I look like me at 51, which isn't the same as how anybody else looks at 51, and to equate 'younger' with 'better' is just lazy, toxic horseshit.


Edit: I'm probably not the only person who remembers a very well thought of lady who was still insisting she 'looked 35 ' even at around fifty. She was very attractive and more so than many people are at twenty five, but (having met her in person several times) she wouldn't have passed for thirty five at midnight in a blizzard and was patently much older.

Unfortunately people who are crap at compliments had obviously thought that instead of just saying she was beautiful (or whatever) that it couldn't be possible for a fifty year old woman to just look great, and they needed to make up some cobblers about her also looking younger even though she didn't. But just because some people.are stupid doesn't mean we have to indugle them.
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Re: Thinking to go back to escorting but maybe I am too old?
« Reply #16 on: 14 April 2024, 05:35:15 pm »
A client told me that I look like I'm in my 20ties. It was dark and he was stoned though.

Ageing sucks and ageism is brutal in so many industries.
Luckily, sexuality is a complex thing and not based on looks alone.
Everyone grows old. Their balls sag too.

Having said that, I'm not planning to advertise my actual age, no way :P
I might change my mind in the future but not now.
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amy

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Re: Thinking to go back to escorting but maybe I am too old?
« Reply #17 on: 14 April 2024, 06:14:45 pm »
Yeah, I've had similar - I also once got told I looked like Christina Hendricks, which I most certainly don't :D.

Ageing definitely sucks - my eyesight is terrible, my hearing is virtually non existant now, my back hurts and I can't go running any more unless I shuffle along like a tortoise. I look better than I did thirty years ago though, mostly because I'm not poor.

Of all the sectors to work in ours is pretty egalitarian; for every conceivable age group (and size, height, build, ethnicity, hair colour etc etc) there are punters who will rush to book, and punters who would rather flush their money down the bog. Suggesting to other women that our value and desirability diminishes with age is not just twattish, it isn't even slightly true.

I'll be happy to hit 60 - I'll be in a whole new search category and I suspect there won't be that many others to stand out from if everybody else is still claiming to be 48 ;D.
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Re: Thinking to go back to escorting but maybe I am too old?
« Reply #18 on: 14 April 2024, 09:50:18 pm »
Aging does suck because by the time you get yo your forties your kids are older, You've grown as a person and get more confident but that number of years you've even here means more than the age you look. Now I've got a better body at 43 than I did at 23 when I had very angry stretchers and shrunken boobs but at 43 I've barely visible stretchers, My boobs are full after having 6 years on HRT and I look younger but one oersons 40 or 50 is not anothers because we all age differently. I remember when j was 35 and a very slim size 8 and a guy on a date told me I was too thin, Another 3 years later and a size 12 I was told by a guy I was a bit to curvy lol. With Escorting with our bodies displayed and age, Guy's who like young or older or thinner or curvier or bigger can choose. Before escorting I was nieve and thought guy's only paid to see escorts that are young and look like models, Seeing women all all shapes and sizes on AW I got more comfortable with my body and wasn't so hard on myself.
With getter older and escorting I worry more about my energy and what my body can do so it's more effort now to eat healthy and do some strength exercise.

And my mum is 63 and she still gets guy's as young a 50 flirting with her, So age is not then end of being seen as sexy, Attractive and with age comes confidence and experience.

Now I've been Alcohol free gor 13 months I sleep better and have more energy and my weight is more stable probably because I'm not spiking my blood sugar.

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Re: Thinking to go back to escorting but maybe I am too old?
« Reply #19 on: 23 April 2024, 05:48:03 pm »
This thread has cheered me up I’m 36 and thought I’d probably have to quit in a couple of years but I think I’ll go another 5 at least now :) thanks girls xx
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Re: Thinking to go back to escorting but maybe I am too old?
« Reply #20 on: 23 April 2024, 06:07:44 pm »
Quote from: Princesslucy on 23 April 2024, 05:48:03 pm
This thread has cheered me up I’m 36 and thought I’d probably have to quit in a couple of years but I think I’ll go another 5 at least now :) thanks girls xx

Haha you have loads more years in this game than that if you want them, you are absolutely in your prime.
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Re: Thinking to go back to escorting but maybe I am too old?
« Reply #21 on: 23 April 2024, 08:12:30 pm »
Quote from: MissElvira on 14 April 2024, 09:50:18 pm
Now I've been Alcohol free gor 13 months I sleep better and have more energy and my weight is more stable probably because I'm not spiking my blood sugar.

That is the one thing that has made the biggest difference to how I feel in recent years. I used to open a bottle of wine three or four times a week and sometimes more. But around the time covid came in I just stopped completely. After a few weeks I didn't miss it and now I find it a bit odd that my friends drink so often. I feel so much better and more aware these days. I do have an occasional drink in company, but that is all. Too much in one go tastes like poison now.

Probably sounds not much to do with escorting, but that's not so. Problem clients are rarer because I pick up on the warning signals more quickly, and I feel fitter and more healthy. The difference is quite noticeable when I think about it.
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Re: Thinking to go back to escorting but maybe I am too old?
« Reply #22 on: 23 April 2024, 09:45:22 pm »
Well I'm 58 and I advertise as 58, I can't be arsed to lie and I'm no good at it anyway, lots of guys tell me I don't look it and that's fine.

I'm as busy as I want to be and guys book me because they want to see a woman of my age, my clients range from 28 to 80+ (I done see under 28s that I know of) but I get a lot of enquiries from 18 to 28yo guys who want the older woman experience

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Re: Thinking to go back to escorting but maybe I am too old?
« Reply #23 on: 23 April 2024, 09:47:05 pm »
Quote from: roseanna on 23 April 2024, 08:12:30 pm
That is the one thing that has made the biggest difference to how I feel in recent years. I used to open a bottle of wine three or four times a week and sometimes more. But around the time covid came in I just stopped completely. After a few weeks I didn't miss it and now I find it a bit odd that my friends drink so often. I feel so much better and more aware these days. I do have an occasional drink in company, but that is all. Too much in one go tastes like poison now.

Probably sounds not much to do with escorting, but that's not so. Problem clients are rarer because I pick up on the warning signals more quickly, and I feel fitter and more healthy. The difference is quite noticeable when I think about it.

Me too i gave up drinking in 2022 and omg i dont know how i used to function after drinking. You’re right you do use your intuition, more clear headed making better decisions.
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