Hi!
I?m new here. I?m thinking of starting as a Pro Domina, but can?t find any advice on how to start, where to advertise, how to do it safely etc.? Does anyone have experience with being a Pro Domina?
Best wishes,
Maria

Someone doing domination / sadism for cash.

While there is a niche market for selling your sexual services despite being a virgin / very inexperienced, there really isn't one for prodommes who don't know what they are doing. So if the 'how to do it safely' applies to what you are charging for, the answer is 'learn, learn, learn before charging for it.

If it's about how to run the business safely, see the rest of the site.

I made a fetish profile a while back when I first started, Im bossy and naturally love being in charge, the phone went mad, and bookings were fast, and I was amazed how eager clients were to help me, I got too busy with my massage profile to keep up with it, then lost the login details bla bla bla....... maybe try a trainee dom profile ? dont forget subs live to please, and if they can be your minions whilst paying you to help you, they will x

Oh! A pro Domme! Sorry, having a bit of a senior moment. Im naturally a submissive woman but i kept getting requests from guys for me to dom them. So, i thought i would offer it as a service. I thought i could kinda copy how my master is with me, and just act and pretend to be dominant. Oh my goodness!! I hated it! It was false, i didnt really know what i was doing, it just felt wrong.  For me, there is nothing worse than offering a service that im not 100% sure its correct.  I only saw a few guys before removing it as a service. Also, a couple of the guys i saw had seen 'proper' pro dommes in the past. Im sure they must have been dissappointed x

I don't agree, I think even if you advertise as a Domme you still have to give clients what they want and they expect you to know what you're doing, yes you get the really sub/slave clients but most clients are run of the mill guys that are paying for a service that is delivered well they are not all gonna want to kiss your feet while you whip them.

I guess we will have to agree to disagree, obviously nobody would go into it completely blind and there is plenty of  domme porn and websites to get the general gist of things, everyone has to start somewhere, nobody was born with a whip and a wicked mind, my experience was that clients loved the idea of helping, same as any service provider they improve as they go along, feedback and reviews will get them more clients, more clients will get them more experience.

Apart from it being handy if you are naturally dominant it's a good idea to get some training from a pro Domme in certain practices

Yes I think you need to have a bit of a dominant streak to start with and also a lot of it is being a good actress ie; playing the role. I worked alongside an experienced dominatrix for a while before offering it.  Probably about half of my clients come for 'domination; But it means different things to different people, a lot just want to be fucked up the ass with a strap on, others choose tie and tease because they don't know how to be with a woman and they're lazy.  I only do fairly mild stuff anyway and don't have a dungeon. I don't get paid enough to be extreme, I'd want double the fee for that as I also find the GFE to be a lot easier than dom.

Yes I think you need to have a bit of a dominant streak to start with and also a lot of it is being a good actress ie; playing the role. I worked alongside an experienced dominatrix for a while before offering it.  Probably about half of my clients come for 'domination; But it means different things to different people, a lot just want to be fucked up the ass with a strap on, others choose tie and tease because they don't know how to be with a woman and they're lazy.  I only do fairly mild stuff anyway and don't have a dungeon. I don't get paid enough to be extreme, I'd want double the fee for that as I also find the GFE to be a lot easier than dom.

Fucking clients is far from easier than domination, it's mentally draining.

Fucking clients is far from easier than domination, it's mentally draining.

Definitely! Especially when the client isn't really sure what he wants...It also attracts a lot of timewasters wanting to discuss details before, I just say that I won't talk about services before the booking but we can have a few minute chat at the start to clarify the type of session he's looking for, then he has to leave it to me.