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Veronicavice

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Thinking of flat share with 2 guys and 1 gal
« on: 02 July 2020, 11:29:07 pm »
To save money im thinking of moving into a flat share as mentioned above.

I know these people as mates and I fancy one of the guys.  I actually had set with him post lockdown as a 1 night stand.  They don't know im an escort and I would never tell them.

They all work during office hours so incalls are fine but im scared they may catch me out.  Also the guy I fancy and had sex with wants to sleep with me and be a couple but i don't know if he would accept my job.  I know I could save a lot of money paying shared rent and I would appreciate your advice.   X

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Re: Thinking of flat share with 2 guys and 1 gal
« Reply #2 on: 03 July 2020, 12:18:17 am »
I think it sounds like a recipe for disaster.

You will save money but at what cost? It only takes one of your flatmates to come home early and you could be out on your ear.

I can't advise on the relationship side of things.

Obviously, I don't know your situation and apart from saving money you might have other reasons for wanting to move. On a positive note,  if you are willing to take a chance and save up for a work flat then the benefits might outweigh the risks.

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Re: Thinking of flat share with 2 guys and 1 gal
« Reply #3 on: 03 July 2020, 09:45:40 am »
Thanks.  I'm thinking maybe if the guy i fancy just move in together and forget the other 2 flat mates will make it easier for me.  We both spoke about it last night and he is willing to sleep in the same room as me which I'm happy with because he is gorgeous.  I'm scared he may findt what i do so I'm also thinking of just telling him I'm an escort and he may accept it.

I tend only to see 3 or 4 clients a day and having him help share the rent is a bonus.  But what you people think? X

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Re: Thinking of flat share with 2 guys and 1 gal
« Reply #4 on: 03 July 2020, 11:22:49 am »
This is definitely a recipe for disaster. I would be totally pissed if I found out someone was bringing complete strangers to my home on a daily basis, I mean that's my safe place. Plus as has been said it only takes someone coming home early and the gig is up. Or an idiot client randomly turning up and your caught

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Re: Thinking of flat share with 2 guys and 1 gal
« Reply #5 on: 03 July 2020, 12:15:42 pm »
I would be totally pissed if I found out someone was bringing complete strangers to my home on a daily basis, I mean that's my safe place.

So would I. Even assuming this would be a two bed flat and you wouldn't actually be fucking punters in/on this man's bed where he sleeps, will they have access to other areas where personal belongings are kept - a bathroom, for example?
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Re: Thinking of flat share with 2 guys and 1 gal
« Reply #6 on: 03 July 2020, 12:46:26 pm »
It's sounds like a script for a movie: you're in bed having sex with a client and "gorgeous guy" walks in teh room he shares with you because he forgot his glasses/wallet or he got out of work earlier. From all the crazy stuff I've seen written on threads here yours wins the "recipe for disaster award of the year".

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Re: Thinking of flat share with 2 guys and 1 gal
« Reply #7 on: 03 July 2020, 02:14:28 pm »
Moving in to this flat, with or without this bloke as a bed partner, might work, but whoring from there would be madness IMO.
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Re: Thinking of flat share with 2 guys and 1 gal
« Reply #8 on: 03 July 2020, 02:51:12 pm »
Thanks hunnies.  I'm pretty good at disguising my job so I'm fairly confident I can hide this from him.  But I think I might just tell him im an escort and just maybe he will be OK with it.  I know the bed will be noisy while I'm whoring but I need the money.  I'm going to think this over.

Thanks for your advice sweeties x

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Re: Thinking of flat share with 2 guys and 1 gal
« Reply #9 on: 05 July 2020, 06:34:27 am »
What happens if any one of the 3 takes a day off, goes in late, has a medical appointment, or annual leave?  You cannot guarantee this will never happen.

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Re: Thinking of flat share with 2 guys and 1 gal
« Reply #10 on: 05 July 2020, 02:26:50 pm »
Thanks hunnies.  I'm pretty good at disguising my job so I'm fairly confident I can hide this from him.  But I think I might just tell him im an escort and just maybe he will be OK with it.  I know the bed will be noisy while I'm whoring but I need the money.  I'm going to think this over.

Thanks for your advice sweeties x

Remember you'll also need to make sure clients stay out of the other people's rooms, and that you'll have to do a lot of cleaning in the bathroom, also possibly hiding other people's toothbrushes, towels, shower gels etc. to make sure clients don't use them.
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