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Kiss

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Re: They think we hide behind the door?
« Reply #15 on: 15 October 2021, 02:23:55 am »
The brain of this punter is very small and has functioning  parts missing !
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Re: They think we hide behind the door?
« Reply #16 on: 15 October 2021, 04:01:43 am »
He just sounds like a twat, to be honest. My front door opens onto the street, and I have neighbours opposite. For new clients, I normally wear a fairly normal dress, so it's OK to open my door normally, but if it's a regular I may only be wearing a babydoll or something, so obviously I stay behind the door!

TBH, I think it's a good idea to dress fairly normally for the first booking with a client, in case anything goes badly wrong and you need to move.
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Re: They think we hide behind the door?
« Reply #17 on: 15 October 2021, 06:43:42 am »
So now they think it's ok to be telling us how we open the door to them! I would have just told him to fuck off!.

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Re: They think we hide behind the door?
« Reply #18 on: 15 October 2021, 08:26:44 am »


He asked you to dress up in seductive clothing and wanted you to stand inthe doorway?   ::)

Do men not know the word "discretion" nowadays? 

Some front doors are on the street level, some are parallel to the neighbours, some are in the direct line of sight of passerbys or pedetrians or even other neighbours higher up one floor level.


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Re: They think we hide behind the door?
« Reply #19 on: 15 October 2021, 11:02:07 am »
I don’t entertain requests to wear specific skimpy outfits or to be semi or fully naked for them when they arrive as it makes me feel really vulnerable. I don’t want to give newbies that kind of power, I like to present as though I’m in control, not them. Im very happy to accept outfit requests for nice regs but ever fully or semi-naked. It used to annoy me when I worked from a flat and used to greet clients from behind the door until they stepped in and I’d get a sarcastic laugh or comment about it from them. It was usually just nerves though. Most knew the score!

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Re: They think we hide behind the door?
« Reply #20 on: 15 October 2021, 01:55:25 pm »
I know Amy said not to mention other forums. But [removed]

I feel to combat this to deter idiots like this I have written in
 the first line of my ad “I DO NOT SEE RUDE,NARCISSISTIC OR BITTER CLIENTS GO TO SOMEONE ELSE” I’ve had someone send me a message about this one saying I sound like a stuck up cow. And you know what he is right I am too good for people like him. People who only think about the negative. If he took offense too what I wrote in my bio it’s because he’s insecure that it’s a direct reflection of him and how others see him.

But yeah I feel like having something like that in my bio has deterred the type of losers who use these forums as most of my clients are nice and I hardly ever get a bad egg.

Don’t worry about being a people pleaser for clients like that [removed]
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Re: They think we hide behind the door?
« Reply #21 on: 15 October 2021, 01:58:20 pm »
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Re: They think we hide behind the door?
« Reply #22 on: 15 October 2021, 02:08:20 pm »
Oops sorry Amy. I was going to say this reminded me of an incident recently on my online platform where someone posted a comment saying. I want to see if you can cum before I come to see you. Obviously I deleted and blocked this person immediately. Imagine someone like that coming to see you. Not a hope in hell.

I never ever do requests. I think that’s degrading especially if it’s something that’s quite subjective like being able to orgasm. That’s a bodily function and I can’t control it always. If someone cannot see that then to me they only see me as a robot that does what they want on command and thats not how I see myself so jog on.

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Re: They think we hide behind the door?
« Reply #23 on: 16 October 2021, 08:22:20 pm »
I stand behind door, seeing as I'm dressed slutty and don't want dog walkers to see me dressed like that.

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Re: They think we hide behind the door?
« Reply #24 on: 17 November 2021, 02:05:35 pm »
I answer the door in a dress and stand behind the door also so they don't see me until I have closed the door. It's my choice but never had an issue with it with clients.

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Re: They think we hide behind the door?
« Reply #25 on: 17 November 2021, 07:20:49 pm »
I don’t entertain requests to wear specific skimpy outfits or to be semi or fully naked for them when they arrive as it makes me feel really vulnerable. I don’t want to give newbies that kind of power, I like to present as though I’m in control, not them. Im very happy to accept outfit requests for nice regs but ever fully or semi-naked. It used to annoy me when I worked from a flat and used to greet clients from behind the door until they stepped in and I’d get a sarcastic laugh or comment about it from them. It was usually just nerves though. Most knew the score!

Requests actually make me mad lol. I hate being told what to wear. I once had a guy who texted 5 minutes before to ask me to wear black tights. I don't bloody own any tights. I've had requests for things I do not own, requests to be naked or just in lingerie on opening the door, I always refuse. My body, my house, my rules.

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Re: They think we hide behind the door?
« Reply #26 on: 17 November 2021, 09:43:50 pm »
I actually get what the guy meant. There are so many fake photos out there and when the bloke arrives, he's met by someone who looks totally different. I think he was just explaining what he's heard from other guys. I open the door in skinny jeans and t shirt though with my kit on underneath so it takes me two mins to go in the spare room to change. But yep I do kind of hide behind the door, even dressed civvie, incase someone walks by.