Hi,  I am very new to this, actually my first appointment is tomorrow.  I am excited and very nervous.  I just wanted to get some good advice from some more experienced escorts on how to be as safe as I can be.  Or just anything that is good to know about escorting.  Thank You!

how to be as safe as I can be.  Or just anything that is good to know about escorting.  Thank You!

One of the best ways to remain safe is to take down the clients number and let a buddy know who and where you are going to be at. Having that info easily identifies and confirms who the person is, which is why many of us dont accept private numbers (in addition to them being BSers). Be sure to tell your buddy to call authorities if and when you dont pick up your phone or call them after a certain amount of time has passed.

Although the above sounds as if something bad is bound to happen, dont worry. These men want you! Enjoy yourself and dont get too hung up on the negative. As you will hear most of us say, most clients are nice and friendly. If they are willing to give you pertinent information such as exact address, phone number and real name (for hotels) then you should be comfortable enough to meet.

Never carry any weapons (well, I dont always follow that one   because they can get taken away or used against you. Pepper spray works a charm though! Dont worry girlfriend, you'll be fine and I highly doubt you'll have to resort to any of those. Just use flattering pictures and you'll be on your way!

Hi,  I am very new to this, actually my first appointment is tomorrow.  I am excited and very nervous.  I just wanted to get some good advice from some more experienced escorts on how to be as safe as I can be.  Or just anything that is good to know about escorting.  Thank You!

Hi and welcome Camron,
What I would tell every new lady is to always follow your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, don't do it. Be as relaxed as you can and try not to let your nerves show too much. I personally wouldn't tell him that he's my very first client, as he might take advantage of you, but that choice is yours.

If it's an incall, welcome him in with a smile, chit chat for the first couple of minutes, it'll give you a chance to overcome your nerves, and if he doesn't give you your fee immediately, discreetly ask for the "paperwork", or say "shall we get the business end out of the way". Discreetly check it to make sure it's all there, offer him a drink. If he says yes, take your fee with you and hide it whilst you go into the kitchen. Even if he says no, ask to be excused and take your fee out of the room and hide it. Somewhere where you wouldn't allow your customers to go. Then you come back in and get down to enjoying yourself.

If it's an outcall, ask for the fee in the first five mins of your arrival and follow the same as above. When you pop off to get changed check your fee at the same time. Then put it somewhere safe and keep where-ever you put your fee in your sight the whole time. If he offers you a drink, make sure it's bottled or still canned and that the top hasn't been tampered with. Don't take anything that's already been poured. Same goes for food.

If you're going to do outcalls, get yourself a buddy. Penny has a successful buddy scheme where she matches ladies up in their areas to be buddies and security for each other. She's in the middle of a revamp at the minute, but you can still write to her at escortbuddy@hotmail.co.uk. See if she can find you somebody in your area. Or in the meantime please feel free to use the buddy link-up forum on here.

Good luck and hope all goes well.