LadyJ, if this is the guy after just two months, just how bad would it be after six months/one year ....................
Ive put that in the past tense as he would be in my past if I was going what you were going through and he was causing you more grief than support.
Unfortunately, with his outburst in wine bar, I wouldnt be surprised if he 'causes problems' for you. I hope you are not in the position of no one knowing what you do, for I am sure he would get great pleasure in telling everyone.
He is like a two year old with a dummy and a big petted lip trailing along the ground. Like Taylor I would get rid asap, he is an immature nightmare .................. and moved in after just two months
- you have hardly had time to get to know each other never mind anything else.
Please take care of yourself, I'm so sorry you have been going through this traumatic situation, but its up to you to end it for yourself. He has latched on like a clingon and is probably enjoying spending your money too.
There is also the point that in our job we need ME time, are you getting any of that. He is not even giving you time to work and relax WHEN you choose, is he.
Sorry Ive gone on so much but he sounds such a nightmare, you need to get rid and enjoy your life, he is draining you of any quality of life you have just now due to your health problems.
TC xx