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KimberlyC

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Re: The "sleazy" voice... anyone else notice this?
« Reply #15 on: 21 January 2014, 07:02:43 pm »
I just saw a guy with a sleazy voice. He wasn't a time-waster but fell into the category of boundary pusher. It's hard to describe, exactly. Like he thinks he's really sophisticated and emotionally evolved and so I'm supposed to connect with him on a deeper level. He didn't actually do anything wrong - he just thinks that we're going to have this special arrangement (or he was talking bollocks about such an arrangement) in which we go out to fancy places and he really wants to pleasure ME. Oh! But he must pleasure me. It's crucial that I enjoy myself.

And what does that mean? It means that I am supposed to be pleased by what it is he likes to do. And share a load of horseshit about what a fantastic erotic connection we have.

Because he's not like all those other dirty, shallow punters. Oh, no! He's a sophisticated ladies man of wealth and taste!

I'd rather by fucked doggy style by a lorry driver.

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Re: The "sleazy" voice... anyone else notice this?
« Reply #16 on: 21 January 2014, 08:35:24 pm »
I'd rather by fucked doggy style by a lorry driver.

Your post made me laugh so hard, thank you! And yes, give me a lorry driver any day over a pretentious prat like him..  ;D
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Re: The "sleazy" voice... anyone else notice this?
« Reply #17 on: 21 January 2014, 09:23:34 pm »
I'd rather by fucked doggy style by a lorry driver.

Another vote here for Eddie Stobart's finest :D

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Re: The "sleazy" voice... anyone else notice this?
« Reply #18 on: 22 January 2014, 02:52:03 am »
I'd rather by fucked doggy style by a lorry driver.

Same here. There's something more appealing about it anyway. I much prefer clients who are honest about they really want. Guys who put on all the airs and graces are just trying to be manipulative.

KimberlyC

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Re: The "sleazy" voice... anyone else notice this?
« Reply #19 on: 22 January 2014, 07:58:58 am »
I'd rather by fucked doggy style by a lorry driver.

Same here. There's something more appealing about it anyway. I much prefer clients who are honest about they really want. Guys who put on all the airs and graces are just trying to be manipulative.

And they think they're so clever. They think they're reaching us in a special, deeper place than other punters because they dress it all up as something sophisticated.

I play along as best as possible but sometimes it's really hard to not roll my eyes or something. One time a guy like this was going on and on about how important it is to him "to have that intellectual and emotional connection." Said "what really excited me was we had a true meeting of the minds. You probably don't experience that very often, do you?"

And I couldn't help myself. I said, "Thankfully, no. That would be exhausting."

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Re: The "sleazy" voice... anyone else notice this?
« Reply #20 on: 22 January 2014, 02:03:21 pm »
yep, I know what you mean. It's that slightly "squeezed" sound that comes from the involuntary stress of lying, coupled with having a hard-on while talking   :D

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Re: The "sleazy" voice... anyone else notice this?
« Reply #21 on: 22 January 2014, 08:14:41 pm »
Anyone heard that slow deliberately softly well spoken accent younger asian guys with a street accent try to put on. Why do they bother. They always fall at the last hurdle when pure brum/asian bubbles to the top. Middle aged or older asian guys dont do this. They just speak with their normal accent and get the booking. Why dont the the younger ones just speak in their own accent. They may have a chance of a booking. Other people from other areas dont do it. I never have yorkshire or northeastern or liverpudlian or cockney guys trying to sound like they are not from where they are from. Its a bit funny. If you are not posh?dont put on a fake posh accent.

KimberlyC

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Re: The "sleazy" voice... anyone else notice this?
« Reply #22 on: 22 January 2014, 10:14:21 pm »
I have to say that I haven't noticed that at all. But I'm sort of oblivious to regional accents.

I can only tell "posh" accents from "not-posh" ones.

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Re: The "sleazy" voice... anyone else notice this?
« Reply #23 on: 23 January 2014, 12:02:02 am »
Anyone heard that slow deliberately softly well spoken accent younger asian guys with a street accent try to put on. Why do they bother. They always fall at the last hurdle when pure brum/asian bubbles to the top. Middle aged or older asian guys dont do this. They just speak with their normal accent and get the booking. Why dont the the younger ones just speak in their own accent. They may have a chance of a booking. Other people from other areas dont do it. I never have yorkshire or northeastern or liverpudlian or cockney guys trying to sound like they are not from where they are from. Its a bit funny. If you are not posh?dont put on a fake posh accent.

Perhaps they have in the past and got judged for having a street/chav accent and they are just putting on their telephone voice. Also they might not be as confident in themselves as the older gents are. It must be nerve wracking calling us girls sometimes.

KimberlyC

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Re: The "sleazy" voice... anyone else notice this?
« Reply #24 on: 23 January 2014, 12:06:23 am »
Anyone heard that slow deliberately softly well spoken accent younger asian guys with a street accent try to put on. Why do they bother. They always fall at the last hurdle when pure brum/asian bubbles to the top. Middle aged or older asian guys dont do this. They just speak with their normal accent and get the booking. Why dont the the younger ones just speak in their own accent. They may have a chance of a booking. Other people from other areas dont do it. I never have yorkshire or northeastern or liverpudlian or cockney guys trying to sound like they are not from where they are from. Its a bit funny. If you are not posh?dont put on a fake posh accent.

Perhaps they have in the past and got judged for having a street/chav accent and they are just putting on their telephone voice. Also they might not be as confident in themselves as the older gents are. It must be nerve wracking calling us girls sometimes.

That's what I thought, too. They're trying to sound nice on the phone. I don't see the problem with that.

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Re: The "sleazy" voice... anyone else notice this?
« Reply #25 on: 23 January 2014, 09:03:33 am »
I do. I see the problem because there are a couple of guys who keep changing their number who make fake bookings with me then no show. Different numbers every time. Its a very regular thing. Its always the same accent as described above and I used to kick myself for taking the booking afterwards. Hasn't happened for a few weeks but it happened a few days ago so now I know for a fact x

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Re: The "sleazy" voice... anyone else notice this?
« Reply #26 on: 25 January 2014, 11:14:41 am »
'Can I have some deeeeeetails?'

^YES! This! I know exactly what you mean. It's the worst on those who trying to phone-wank whilst talking to you. They think it's their come to bed voice. Urgh.
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