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Re: Text from wife. What should I do?
« Reply #15 on: 15 May 2014, 01:21:16 am »
Someone knew what number to contact to get him where he was going. It's not impossible the partner knew why and was fine with it.

I wonder what he'll say at the next appointment.
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Re: Text from wife. What should I do?
« Reply #16 on: 16 May 2014, 12:27:30 pm »
Quote from: Nia Hope on 14 May 2014, 06:32:43 pm
Happened to me once but she rang me and wasn't that polite understandably! I was furious with the client for being so careless with my details, they expect discretion so do I ,

Ignore it and move on x

She just called me today again. I did not answer but I am afraid she will use other number to get in touch with me.   :FF
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Re: Text from wife. What should I do?
« Reply #17 on: 16 May 2014, 02:14:45 pm »
When you hear a woman's voice, asking for Sonia, tell her it's a wrong number.
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Re: Text from wife. What should I do?
« Reply #18 on: 16 May 2014, 07:46:59 pm »
Quote from: Soniaescort on 16 May 2014, 12:27:30 pm
Quote from: Nia Hope on 14 May 2014, 06:32:43 pm
Happened to me once but she rang me and wasn't that polite understandably! I was furious with the client for being so careless with my details, they expect discretion so do I ,

Ignore it and move on x

She just called me today again. I did not answer but I am afraid she will use other number to get in touch with me.   :FF

It's just a case of avoiding and dealing with it as it comes, hopefully she'll get bored? I was so affected by this women calling me so I know how you feel, never get abusive towards her or she'll get vindictive, do you know which client it is? X
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Re: Text from wife. What should I do?
« Reply #19 on: 17 May 2014, 01:13:50 am »
Quote from: Nia Hope on 16 May 2014, 07:46:59 pm
Quote from: Soniaescort on 16 May 2014, 12:27:30 pm
Quote from: Nia Hope on 14 May 2014, 06:32:43 pm
Happened to me once but she rang me and wasn't that polite understandably! I was furious with the client for being so careless with my details, they expect discretion so do I ,

Ignore it and move on x

She just called me today again. I did not answer but I am afraid she will use other number to get in touch with me.   :FF

It's just a case of avoiding and dealing with it as it comes, hopefully she'll get bored? I was so affected by this women calling me so I know how you feel, never get abusive towards her or she'll get vindictive, do you know which client it is? X
Yes I know him. Do you think I should contact with him?
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Re: Text from wife. What should I do?
« Reply #20 on: 17 May 2014, 09:38:41 am »
If it continues then maybe you should? If I had known which client it was I would have, it's really your decision but I'd consider it , just politely tell him that you're not willing to get involved in his domestics xxx
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Re: Text from wife. What should I do?
« Reply #21 on: 17 May 2014, 10:00:23 am »
Im with everyone else here IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE ..BUT if this wife is not contacting you more than once then you need to answer the phone and just tell her "I'm sorry this is a private number, please do not contact me again" and hang up. If she continues to call from that or other numbers then yes, I would contact him and tell him to sort his fucking home situation out and to keep me the hell out of it. At the end of the day its not your fault, its a situation of his making for not being careful with your number, imagine the song and dance that would be made should someone on your end start phoning him and saying "i know you fucked my girlfriend" or something similar?it would be all over the bloody internet with you being named and shamed probably.

I have had a couple of calls like this and I just told them sorry, it must have been a wrong number and then hung up. I did have one keep calling back shouting so I sent her a text telling her i have no idea who or what she is talking about but if she continued to harass me, a stranger, then I would contact the police?the calls stopped. Its not your problem x
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Re: Text from wife. What should I do?
« Reply #22 on: 17 May 2014, 11:21:06 am »
This hassle after just one booking for a guy who you are never going to see again is ridiculous.  If he continually flits from one girl to the next I wonder if she is contacting other girls too in the hope that one will say something.  I would ignore and if she calls again and gets through I would tell her to sort out her own mess. 

Ignore and deny.  Your number doesn't come with a google search does it OP?
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Re: Text from wife. What should I do?
« Reply #23 on: 17 May 2014, 01:52:10 pm »
Quote from: Nia Hope on 14 May 2014, 09:34:11 pm


So he actually told his wife who was obviously on or past her due date that he would be with a hooker at a specific time? And gave her the number just in case! Really? X

No she had been checking his phone for weeks as thought he was having an affair so knew when he had text for a booking and wrote my number down so when she felt the time was right she could confront him.  Guess she chose last stages of labour for that although pretty sure it was not meant to be that way and think she wanted to get the birth out of the way before shoving all the proof in his face.

She did ring me a few weeks later to apologise (no idea why she felt the need to apologise) and said she handled it the wrong way but the idiot had been given his marching orders.

I am sorry but if your wife is about to give birth you cancel your weekly escort booking and sure as hell are not selfish enough to miss the birth of your first child just for sex.  I refused to see him again as I just felt disgusted with him.  I know we should not judge but I did as just could not believe he was such an arsehole
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Re: Text from wife. What should I do?
« Reply #24 on: 17 May 2014, 02:03:48 pm »
Quote from: Lady_Lust_XXX on 17 May 2014, 11:21:06 am
This hassle after just one booking for a guy who you are never going to see again is ridiculous.  If he continually flits from one girl to the next I wonder if she is contacting other girls too in the hope that one will say something.  I would ignore and if she calls again and gets through I would tell her to sort out her own mess. 

Ignore and deny.  Your number doesn't come with a google search does it OP?

If you put my number to google you can see just all of my adverts like independent escort
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Re: Text from wife. What should I do?
« Reply #25 on: 17 May 2014, 02:56:04 pm »
Hi Dani I just had to say good on you and his wife for kicking him into touch. Like you say shouldn't judge but his behaviour I think is an exception. What a bastard to think that it's ok to miss the birth of his child and also not to be there for his wife. I know there are two sides to everything and should never be judgemental but you're right, what an arsehole.
Sorry I know this isn't to do with OP.
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Re: Text from wife. What should I do?
« Reply #26 on: 17 May 2014, 06:30:16 pm »
Quote from: Dani on 17 May 2014, 01:52:10 pm
Quote from: Nia Hope on 14 May 2014, 09:34:11 pm


So he actually told his wife who was obviously on or past her due date that he would be with a hooker at a specific time? And gave her the number just in case! Really? X

No she had been checking his phone for weeks as thought he was having an affair so knew when he had text for a booking and wrote my number down so when she felt the time was right she could confront him.  Guess she chose last stages of labour for that although pretty sure it was not meant to be that way and think she wanted to get the birth out of the way before shoving all the proof in his face.

She did ring me a few weeks later to apologise (no idea why she felt the need to apologise) and said she handled it the wrong way but the idiot had been given his marching orders.

I am sorry but if your wife is about to give birth you cancel your weekly escort booking and sure as hell are not selfish enough to miss the birth of your first child just for sex.  I refused to see him again as I just felt disgusted with him.  I know we should not judge but I did as just could not believe he was such an arsehole

What a total cunt! Sorry is that word allowed? Couldn't think of a more appropriate alternative x
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Re: Text from wife. What should I do?
« Reply #27 on: 17 May 2014, 08:47:31 pm »
Quote from: Nia Hope on 17 May 2014, 06:30:16 pm
Quote from: Dani on 17 May 2014, 01:52:10 pm
Quote from: Nia Hope on 14 May 2014, 09:34:11 pm


So he actually told his wife who was obviously on or past her due date that he would be with a hooker at a specific time? And gave her the number just in case! Really? X

No she had been checking his phone for weeks as thought he was having an affair so knew when he had text for a booking and wrote my number down so when she felt the time was right she could confront him.  Guess she chose last stages of labour for that although pretty sure it was not meant to be that way and think she wanted to get the birth out of the way before shoving all the proof in his face.

She did ring me a few weeks later to apologise (no idea why she felt the need to apologise) and said she handled it the wrong way but the idiot had been given his marching orders.

I am sorry but if your wife is about to give birth you cancel your weekly escort booking and sure as hell are not selfish enough to miss the birth of your first child just for sex.  I refused to see him again as I just felt disgusted with him.  I know we should not judge but I did as just could not believe he was such an arsehole

What a total cunt! Sorry is that word allowed? Couldn't think of a more appropriate alternative x

I don't think there's is a better word to describe that man to be honest. x
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Re: Text from wife. What should I do?
« Reply #28 on: 17 May 2014, 09:19:23 pm »
Quote from: Nia Hope on 17 May 2014, 06:30:16 pm
What a total cunt! Sorry is that word allowed? Couldn't think of a more appropriate alternative x

I've just looked it up in the Big SAAFE Book Of Rules, and it says he's definitely a cunt :D.
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Re: Text from wife. What should I do?
« Reply #29 on: 17 May 2014, 10:11:16 pm »
Quote from: amy on 17 May 2014, 09:19:23 pm
Quote from: Nia Hope on 17 May 2014, 06:30:16 pm
What a total cunt! Sorry is that word allowed? Couldn't think of a more appropriate alternative x

I've just looked it up in the Big SAAFE Book Of Rules, and it says he's definitely a cunt :D.

It's not just punters that are c*nts. I hate using that word!Some working girls can be just as bad. An independent escort I worked with, lets call her "sarah" done some really hard strap on with a regular client to the point he was bleeding. He went home to the wife and she must have noticed and got the details out of him. I was having a drink with "sarah" and her phone went, there was a woman on the phone and she put it on loud speaker so I could hear. This poor woman (the wife) was in tears and sounded an emotional wreck on the phone. She asked sarah if it was true and she was seeing her husband. The nasty cow (as in Sarah) went into great detail on the phone to the wife about all the intimate details, if getting off on a power trip. The poor wife wasn't angry or aggressive, was just distraught on the phone. When the phone call was over, i asked Sarah why did she do that to the wife? Her reply was well it's the punters fault, he shouldn't have got caught!

But sarah just seemed to get off on the fact that she had just destroyed  marriage. It was awful.

I think the number one rule if the wife/ girlfriend calls is deny, deny and ignore! If the wife/ girlfriend has evidence just refuse to get into an sort of communication with her such as phone calls/ emails etc.



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