Author Topic: Text from wife. What should I do? (Read 8624 times)

Soniaescort · « **on:** 14 May 2014, 04:50:22 pm »

I just got a text from wife of men which I saw few weeks ago:

" please I really need your help, I do not blame you as you are just doing a job, my husband came to see you on 27/3 at 12.30 his number is 07xxxxxxxx. I need to know if he's lying to me when he says it was only once. Please replay just once or more. I would really apprecite it. "

I feel so bad at the moment but I did not replay anything because people pay me to be disscreet. Anyway any advice will be really great because first time I do not know really what to do

BibiofLeeds · « **Reply #1 on:** 14 May 2014, 04:52:18 pm »

Ignore and block as you say you are paid to be discreet and for all you know it could be a bloke messing about.
As harsh as it sounds it is nothing to do with us if he has been caught out and it is not your problem.

KimberlyC · « **Reply #2 on:** 14 May 2014, 04:52:27 pm »

You can't reply. Don't do it. Just ignore it. My heart goes out to her, as well. I can feel her pain. But no good will come of your getting dragged into this.

Jenny 2 · « **Reply #3 on:** 14 May 2014, 04:53:26 pm »

Personally I would just ignore it and have done in the past on such matters.

It's not your place to get involved and we never know the circumstances or how she would have got the number etc...........

It's his problem, his phone and his wife and I would strongly advise to do nothing.

It's a horrible feeling I know but rest assured it's not your fault.

Take care
Jenny x

BibiofLeeds · « **Reply #4 on:** 14 May 2014, 04:56:30 pm »

Aside from that.Even if it was just once with you it probably isn't just one time with an escort in total.You cannot give her reassurance even if it really is a clients wife.So just delete the text.

Soniaescort · « **Reply #5 on:** 14 May 2014, 04:59:30 pm »

Quote from: bibi on 14 May 2014, 04:56:30 pm

Aside from that.Even if it was just once with you it probably isn't just one time with an escort in total.You cannot give her reassurance even if it really is a clients wife.So just delete the text.

I will do.
By the way he just called me yesterday again to make a booking but when he found out he was with me before then he was not interested because he was looking for a new girl. So for sure it was not only once.

Starbucksgirl · « **Reply #6 on:** 14 May 2014, 05:16:48 pm »

Nothing. Is not your problem. Dont get involved.

Dani · « **Reply #7 on:** 14 May 2014, 05:51:49 pm »

You dont even know if it was his wife or him trying to find out if you would be discreet or not. It sounds silly but I had this two weeks on the trot so I called the number from mine withheld and it was the clients phone. I was less than happy and told him where to go

However even if it is a wife, don't get involved. I had a crazy one stalk me on twitter saying she saw her husbands AW and saw he visited me 9times (it was more but that was how many he booked me online) and he told her I forced him to see all the other girls he had seen even though some of them were before I had even started escorting as his went back to 2006 and I started in 2009. she made my life hell on twitter and I had to delete my account as she really believed I forced him to pay other women in different areas for sex.
Some of these women say they don't blame you until they get you on the phone then god help you or if they find out more about you and stalk you online

The only time I actually talked to someone about it was when a midwife called me from the hospital to say Mrs so and so was in the last stages of labour and her husband is due with me in ten minutes can I tell him to get straight to the hospital. I told her I would ring her back and rang the maternity unit with the number online and spoke to the same nurse so knew it was true and when he turned up I told him where to go

Feltipen · « **Reply #8 on:** 14 May 2014, 06:09:10 pm »

Ignore. My first thoughts was it could be a client texting to check that you wouldn't grass him up.

Either way it's him that's paying not her. Sounds harsh and I know it's upsetting for her but she's not paying our wages and we get paid a lot of money to be discreet. I'd probably mention this to the client when I saw him next but then again I'd be worried that she would be making the next booking to get in touch.

Maybe I'm just super paranoid but you know how women get when they think their partner is cheating.

Nia Hope · « **Reply #9 on:** 14 May 2014, 06:32:43 pm »

Happened to me once but she rang me and wasn't that polite understandably! I was furious with the client for being so careless with my details, they expect discretion so do I ,

Ignore it and move on x

Soniaescort · « **Reply #10 on:** 14 May 2014, 06:45:10 pm »

Thanks for all advice. Made me feel better now :-)

xw5 · « **Reply #11 on:** 14 May 2014, 07:05:24 pm »

Quote from: Soniaescort on 14 May 2014, 04:59:30 pm

By the way he just called me yesterday again to make a booking but when he found out he was with me before then he was not interested because he was looking for a new girl.

With that attitude to keeping track of things, you can see how he was caught, really.

Quote from: Dani on 14 May 2014, 05:51:49 pm

he told her I forced him to see all the other girls he had seen even though some of them were before I had even started escorting as his went back to 2006 and I started in 2009. she made my life hell on twitter and I had to delete my account as she really believed I forced him to pay other women in different areas for sex.
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The only time I actually talked to someone about it was when a midwife called me from the hospital to say Mrs so and so was in the last stages of labour and her husband is due with me in ten minutes can I tell him to get straight to the hospital. I told her I would ring her back and rang the maternity unit with the number online and spoke to the same nurse so knew it was true and when he turned up I told him where to go

! at the first, and the second could almost be quite sweet.

mssa · « **Reply #12 on:** 14 May 2014, 08:57:23 pm »

Quote from: Dani on 14 May 2014, 05:51:49 pm

The only time I actually talked to someone about it was when a midwife called me from the hospital to say Mrs so and so was in the last stages of labour and her husband is due with me in ten minutes can I tell him to get straight to the hospital. I told her I would ring her back and rang the maternity unit with the number online and spoke to the same nurse so knew it was true and when he turned up I told him where to go

Oh my gosh, I can't think of anything more heartbreaking for his wife

Nia Hope · « **Reply #13 on:** 14 May 2014, 09:34:11 pm »

Quote from: mssa on 14 May 2014, 08:57:23 pm

Quote from: Dani on 14 May 2014, 05:51:49 pm
The only time I actually talked to someone about it was when a midwife called me from the hospital to say Mrs so and so was in the last stages of labour and her husband is due with me in ten minutes can I tell him to get straight to the hospital. I told her I would ring her back and rang the maternity unit with the number online and spoke to the same nurse so knew it was true and when he turned up I told him where to go

Oh my gosh, I can't think of anything more heartbreaking for his wife

So he actually told his wife who was obviously on or past her due date that he would be with a hooker at a specific time? And gave her the number just in case! Really? X

roseanna · « **Reply #14 on:** 15 May 2014, 01:13:53 am »

Quote from: Nia Hope on 14 May 2014, 09:34:11 pm

Quote from: mssa on 14 May 2014, 08:57:23 pm
Quote from: Dani on 14 May 2014, 05:51:49 pm
The only time I actually talked to someone about it was when a midwife called me from the hospital to say Mrs so and so was in the last stages of labour and her husband is due with me in ten minutes can I tell him to get straight to the hospital. I told her I would ring her back and rang the maternity unit with the number online and spoke to the same nurse so knew it was true and when he turned up I told him where to go

Oh my gosh, I can't think of anything more heartbreaking for his wife

So he actually told his wife who was obviously on or past her due date that he would be with a hooker at a specific time? And gave her the number just in case! Really? X

I read that as being the midwife knew the husbands details - as they do - but not precisely what they are doing. She may not have been the slightest bit aware that dani was a hooker.

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