So I recently (about 6 weeks ago) moved into a student house share with 4 other girls.
None of them know I'm an escort, they just think I have sex a lot and are fine with it.
But my life would be so much easier if they knew and were accepting although I am not sure I'm willing to take the risk...
Has anyone else been in this situation too? How did you deal with it? I try to mostly do out-calls but majority of my clients want in-calls.
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If I were you I wouldn't tell them, you've only been there 6 weeks and I'm assuming you may not have known these girls long? So I would keep it to yourself.

And like Kay said get yourself a hotel and save yourself the hassle of them asking what you're up to!

I'm also an outcall only girl, and cannot do in calls from my home. I get good business from outcalls but occasionally do hotel incall days as well because I have several clients who want to book but can't as they cannot accommodate and don't want to book a hotel for various reasons.

You'll be surprised how quickly your hotel incall days get booked up! My slots can be gone within days, I'm not sure where you are in the UK but get yourself a Holiday Inn (I find they are the best and reasonably priced) advertise you are doing in calls a few weeks before the date and watch how the business comes rolling in! Much more discrete x

Yes, I agree with the others. I wouldn't be telling flat mates. That will give them ammunition against you if you do.

Best to stick to out calls and book a hotel regularly for in calls. 

Part of our business is about what the guys want but primarily it is about what you want and can manage. There are more likely than not plenty of permanent incall girls available if that's what they want.

Don't sacrifice your own life for clients, they certainly wouldn't do it for you.

You really shouldnt be offering incalls from a shared house without others knowledge. Its just a matter of time before one of the clients turns up at the door without an appt and will ask of your housemates how much she charges! Or a client will tell some other mate/ guy down the pub theres students whores at such and such house/ street and random guys might just turn up expecting a booking.

Or clients are going to assume the house is a brothel or worse some punter puts your address on the internet as a brothel. So many problems with this situation. And as soon as your flatmates know your a working girl, they will fling you out of the house!

If i was your housemate I'd be fuming and be concerned that some pervert client was in my house.

So stop any incalls from the shared house asap, just do outcalls or get a cheap hotel for incall days.Why dont you set a day or two a week for incalls and just roatate around the hotels in the area. Much safer for all concerned.

Hey, I lived in a house of 7 girls at uni, and I told them after a few weeks. They were all very non judgmental people and as far as I know they didn't tell anyone else. (Apart for one who told their boyfriend who then told his friends, but i didn't really know those people so I didn't care what they thought of me). It didn't change my life at all, but I know not everyone is so understanding, and I was lucky that they all were. I never made out that I was ashamed or it was wrong, I answered any questions they asked, and was confident about it. However, I never took incalls at our student accommodation. You share the house, yes you pay for your room, so it's up to you what you do in it, but they might see that as a bit disrespectful (not saying it is, just that people who don't live in this world might not want people in there house paying for sex or being branded as a 'brothel' if word gets out).

when you let clients in the house don't forget they are strangers who might steal belongings as well. imagine some students' laptops are gone because you did not pay attention for a minute, for example you went to the kitchen for a glass of water for the client. during which he stormed through some rooms and got 3 laptops and then run off... how will you explain that?
personal experience clients ran off with a laptop, phone, dior perfume etc similarly annoying.

That would be my concern - it's bad enough when your own things get stolen or just interfered with, but assuming punters are going to be using rooms like the bathroom (which your housemates share and probably leave personal possessions in) I don't think it's acceptable to compromise their privacy and security without their knowledge or permission. At least if they knew they could take appropriate steps to protect their private space and their belongings.

That said, it doesn't mean you have to mention money changing hands if you can come up with another way of explaining why men occasionally turn up, have sex and then go again; the issues with inviting strangers into somebody else's home are the same whether you're being paid or not. Personally though, I'd book a hotel day like everybody else .

I have to agree with the rest on this one. When I lived in a shared house it never crossed my mind to offer incalls - I just knew that would be totally unacceptable to my housemates and could land me in so much trouble.
Even if they are ok with it at first, if they get mad with you later on for some unrelated thing and end up telling the landlord, I'd imagine you'd be out of there PDQ and without a reference for your next landlord.
Just try to accept that you are in a situation where you can not reasonably be expected to offer incalls just now and work on getting your own place so you can.

I understand why you've tried this I did something similar when I was at university by working from my halls of residence for a year or so and because it's really just another huge block of flats i never got caught. But I had boundaries they had to follow i.e. no using communal areas (my room was en-suite and first of a long corridor) and if they turned up unannounced I would pretend they were a drunk nutcase etc. but that sort of behaviour never occurred anyway.

Was it risky? Fuck yes. Did I make a shit-ton of money with literally no overheads as halls of residence are paid by student loans? Fuck yes. Was it worth it? Fuck yes. Would I do it again? Probably. But was it a particularly sensible idea? Probably not, since I was super selective in choosing clients I was lucky but I don't really encourage this behaviour in a flat share as it's a completely different dynamic.

Was just saying I understand why you may have given it a shot but hotel incalls or outcalls really is your only moral and ethical option when you live with other people.