Hello,
I was just wondering, how do you go about telling clients there's something you don't like that they do? For example. I had a client recently bring me cigarettes and I don't smoke. He also offered to bring scotch next time, but I don't drink scotch and because I recently had a bad experience with a client when we were drinking, I no longer drink with any clients.
Another example would be so I had this outcall twice with this guy, he is a big guy and with his unshaven facial hair and his aggression I guess it hurts when he eats me out. The last outcall I had with him (when I was still drinking with clients) I ended up getting pretty drunk which was okay since I took an uber back, but because i didn't shower when I left I'm pretty sure that's how I got BV and also a bladder infection. His face was so dirty rubbing on me, normally when they come here to my place it's just way better because I have a bit more control. This client wants to see me again for 2 or 3 hours, even when I blocked him he got a hold of me through my booking form. I dont want to drink with him, and I definitely dont want to get bv and another bladder infection, mind you, it was probably also kind of my fault since he was eating me out and earlier (I wont lie) I was grumpy I had to see him and he was being so annoying changing the time so I didn't clean my ass that good and farted a couple times lol which sounds disgusting but hey live and learn lol.
Anyway, I guess back to my question. Would these still be clients you would see? Mind you, the client who brought cigarettes was really late and someone just let him into my building, he didn't even buzz which is really creepy someone just let him into my building when I specifically tell them to discreetly use the buzzer that's hard to miss when you walk into the building. He now knows where I live (good thing he sent me a deposit with his real name, which why i think he did it but that's an entirely different story but for that reason and having an intense neediness of wanting to see you again right away always freaks me out plus offering random things, getting in without the buzzer lol all bad!)...
How do you handle these situations?