Start as you mean to go on. Here are some of my favorites to try when the guy is taking too long.
1.Stop change position.
2.Tell him to watch me play with my self, whip out bright pink vibrator, position myself so he gets the visual, and have him work on his own penis.
3. Condomed finger up the ass. Depending on how much he has annoyed you to this point-lubed or unlubed.
4. A smack on the ass, you would be surprised how many men love this.
5. Offer a different position to start with other than missionary.
6. Do a lap dance/strip tease.
7. Talk dirty to them.
* Fuck me like I am your bitch daddy.
*Give it to me.
*Make me your bitch.
*You know I just love sucking your cock.
*Oh does it hurt, come here let me blow it for you.
It may all sound stupid to you now, but it music to the ears of a horny man.
8. Let the man come on your tits. Tilt head back
9. Dominate him a bit, rid him cowgirl, and talk dirty to him
10. Let him chase you around the room a bit, build up a bit of tension.

3. Condomed finger up the ass. Depending on how much he has annoyed you to this point-lubed or unlubed.

• If you don't want to do this, you can still stimulate the prostate from the outside by pressing reasonably hard and massaging the patch of smooth skin in between the bottom of the scrotum and the anus.
• Handjob with plenty of saliva/lube (no such thing as too much IMO). Done right this can sometimes even be better/quicker than a blowjob, because it's easier to keep a tighter grip without getting the teeth involved and keep a consistent rhythm. If you can do this at the same time as a finger up the bum or massaging the perrenium then even better  
  

the thing I remember was using the word "daddy"

Hehehe! I don't think I could keep straight face...

Doggy 

Yes dirty talk seems to work well, a few choice expletives in the right place should make him pop!!

OR....


Maybe don't look a gift horse in the mouth! Fake cumming (especially at the start, you dont want to actually cum, and be sore when he keeps going) and give him his hour of fun!

At least it's better than him making you give him a blow job for an hour.

He's paid for the time - and I don't think him spending that whole time pleasuring you is a bad thing.

Frankly, I think guides like this really give escorts a bad name, and make you look like you just want to get your clients out quickly. If you're prepared to give him a refund for the time he wasnt there, or let him cum as many times as he wants, then fine.

But otherwise, I think it's highly unfair considering what he's paying you is probably not an inconsiderable amount

Time is money! Plain and simple, I'm sorry, I am in the business of providing a service, not to be a trampoline for some inadequate individual who thinks he is bloody Don Juan! Yes, I provide a good service, which is why I have toys and costumes to mix things up.  I am there for fantasy, the company of a beautiful woman, to provide a different experience. If he wants to flop on top in the dark and rut away for 45mins, he can bloody well do that at home.
He isn't visiting you because he wants the same thing he gets at home, he wants something different, thus the dirty talk, the toys, the outfits, and the techniques. This is business based on time and customer service, and as such you have to have tips and tricks for turning them around. I am a ho, not some bloody benevolent order of sacred prostitutes, here providing sexual services because it brings me close to my god.

I'm wary of the 'clock-watching' thing as mentioned by Cindy and find being generous with time is the easiest thing to do to increase the ol' client satisfaction ratings. However, I love the way I imagine Violette working - providing such an amazing experience that extra time is completely unnecessary! I'm taking notes on toys, outfits and dirty talking cos frankly I'm starting to bore myself with my own GFE. Having a regular supply of clients to practice on is the perfect situation for growing in confidence, especially as most of them adore it if you confide you're trying something new with them - they feel special/trusted/more intimate, even if that new thing is just an assortment of butt plugs. So yeah, I'm going off on a silly tangent but I spose all I'm trying to say is Woo Yeah Violette! Glad you're here cos I take sneaky notes from all your posts.

(I find all my clients cum quickly if I'm giving them oral *smugness alert* but for penetration, I think an important factor is the condom and its fit. I've found ones that have extra space near the tip so that the head of the penis actually feels some stimulation from the rubbing and movement of the condom but obviously near the base it needs to be suitably snug but not cutting off blood supply. Can't remember the brand the best ones I tried were, it's doing my head in! Either way, fiddling around a bit with my usual extra safe condoms so that they are fully unrolled, snug at base and with a gap at tip is something that seems to make a difference, although clients can get a little miffed by this - maybe they think I'm trying to sabotage their condom so I can catch an STI and get pregnant and have a really risky pregnancy and then blackmail them for child support? Ugh, no ta. Or else they think I'm checking for any STI symptoms while I'm down there and start going, "Noooooo, I'm cleeeeeeaaaannnn! Stop looooking!" Ha. Wish more men knew more about their own penis and about condoms so they could offer better suggestions than "wah it's too tight" and "oh noes it fell off", too.)

Yes, time IS money - they've given you THEIR money, for YOUR time already...and if they want to 'flop on top in the dark and rut away for 45mins, he can bloody well do that' with YOU! He may not get it at home, thats what they pay gals like us for.


Personally, if a guy wants to concentrate on making ME cum, he can stay & pay for the whole week! Much better that than the ones who insist you play with their floppy cocks without a hope of getting anywhere without the aid of a lolly stick and some sticky back plastic.

Do you find the lolly stick and sticky back plastic technique works?